NaiRan:Kahin Aur Nahi, Sirf Meri Taraf Dekho, Sirf Mujhe Dekho - Page 5

Originally posted by: malikakas

I don't think Kunal knows the disease is infectious... why would Kunal try to hug Karan if he did? Plus Dadu forcefully hugged Karan in the same scene. So its hard to know what Dadu and Kunal know.

To me that first scene between Karan and Kunal, suggests that it was a vicious cycle. Kunal reaching out and Karan balking causing Kunal to retreat leading to Karan distancing himself even more. All orchestrated by Sandy. I don't think it's fair to blame Kunal or Kyathi any more than to blame Karan himself. Even Karan could've taken some initiative on his illness the way Naina did.. but he was made to feel it was useless. In the same way I feel probably Kunal was made to feel the same. Also from Kunal's conversation with Meghna... it seems that Kunal felt that Karan resented him for being better at activities.. in that situation he may have felt it was better to keep a bit of distance so that he doesn't exacerbate Karan's issues.

If I had to question anyone, the person I would question is Dadu. Sandy had a hand in raising Kunal, Karan and Kyathi so I think its reasonable for them to trust Sandy implicitly. If she is handling the case its not likely that they would question whether everything that can be done for Karan is being done. But Dadu doesn't seem to trust Sandy implicitly. He seems to recognize that she has a negative side... that's why he warned her about not being negative about Sharda. That's why I feel there might be more to the story with Sandy. Like something Dadu feels guilty about preventing him from suspecting Sandy the way he should.

Originally posted by: .-Amethyst-.

Nirmala should be next. I think the next breakdown will occur when he gets to know Sandy's real side. That can be real bad, he will lose a part of him that day🥱

Originally posted by: .-Amethyst-.

I second Sona here. More than once I've felt Kunal doesn't know Sandy's version as well. And this is really very SAD. :/

Even during the Pagphera phase, that intruder had sneaked in and Kunal was shouting on him as to why didn't he catch the robber. And Karan retorted that he very well knows what's the reason for it. Kunal was pretty blank then too

Originally posted by: malikakas

Oh I don't want that either. I would prefer if they kept the story clean with just focussing on the self confidence angle.

But unfortunately I feel that that is the way the story is going. I can't see whom else would Sandy be destroying Karan for? Plus it adds a lot of story to the characters. Karan being the true warris. Kunal going through an identity crisis. The only problem is that the girls will never be able to get sandy out of their lives for good😭

Originally posted by: malikakas

Oh I don't think Kunal knows the full story either. He basically admitted it a few times. Once on holi to Karan directly and to Meghna in the nailpolish scene. But I guess I don't hold Kunal or Kyathi accountable with Sandy's machinations in the picture. Kyathi cares about Karan the most yet.. even she tried to high five Karan when he first showed up. I think its just the way Sandy has presented the story to them they all fell for it hook line and sinker.

I don't think they think Karan has a contagious disease because otherwise I don't think Kunal would've agreed to Karan marrying Naina. I think he just thinks that Karan has an issue touching people.

Originally posted by: .Sona.

That's the point I am making na. Why doesn't he know its infectious? Or even dadu.

I just think that in situations like these, the onus is always on the people who are close to the person who has any sort of disease to understand and help them in whatever little way they can.

Originally posted by: malikakas

Because Sandy has presented herself as knower of all things in the Chauhan household. Remember the scene in ghar pravesh. Dadu said Sandy knows the answer to all questions and if she doesn't then it doesn't have an answer. 🤢

Dadu, NK and Nirmala all haven't studied English properly. So they rely on Sandy implicitly because she presents herself as more knowledgable. Remember NK didn't even know that he could his newspapers online. So that means he is not internet savvy. Which means that Sandy controlled all the information that entered the house.

Now imagine a young Kunal. Now either Kunal has to get his information about his brother's symptoms from Karan directly or from Sandy. Going by Karan's scene today... I think there probably was a bit of resentment/embarrassment in regards to his issues prompted by Sandy. Imagine him feeling that his brother is so much better and that he is useless... given that he is not likely to open to Kunal. So now the only source of info is Sandy. By the time Kunal grows up the brothers are estranged and Sandy has destroyed Karan's confidence to the point that he wouldn't even agree to receive help from anyone else. He doesn't talk to anyone about his illness because he thinks everyone will just pity him. In that circumstance, its also taxing for the person who tries to help and constantly gets rebuffed. And Karan's issues in that house are like an open secret. They all know its there but no one talks about it openly.

Originally posted by: malikakas

Because Sandy has presented herself as knower of all things in the Chauhan household. Remember the scene in ghar pravesh. Dadu said Sandy knows the answer to all questions and if she doesn't then it doesn't have an answer. 🤢

Dadu, NK and Nirmala all haven't studied English properly. So they rely on Sandy implicitly because she presents herself as more knowledgable. Remember NK didn't even know that he could his newspapers online. So that means he is not internet savvy. Which means that Sandy controlled all the information that entered the house.

Now imagine a young Kunal. Now either Kunal has to get his information about his brother's symptoms from Karan directly or from Sandy. Going by Karan's scene today... I think there probably was a bit of resentment/embarrassment in regards to his issues prompted by Sandy. Imagine him feeling that his brother is so much better and that he is useless... given that he is not likely to open to Kunal. So now the only source of info is Sandy. By the time Kunal grows up the brothers are estranged and Sandy has destroyed Karan's confidence to the point that he wouldn't even agree to receive help from anyone else. He doesn't talk to anyone about his illness because he thinks everyone will just pity him. In that circumstance, its also taxing for the person who tries to help and constantly gets rebuffed. And Karan's issues in that house are like an open secret. They all know its there but no one talks about it openly.