Sandi, yeah, you diss too, but you don't seem vicious, like all the hate in the world is pouring out of you.
I was thinking also, that we shouldn't get so defensive either--just report if someone is needlessly derogatory. I don't care if libs calls Rajshri dark and doesn't like her features or her voice. I object to her calling her 'woh kaali' or 'pandeeya' or using terms that are meant to be demeaning. BUT would I feel the same if demeaning terms were used for, say, dadi? Don't I call her 'old hag', 'old witch', 'BQ', accuse her of pimping, etc? (I also called Lata a cow, but that's really a kind term compared to what I'd like to say.) So isn't it that we think it's okay for a villianous character but not for a character who's popular? Double standards?
And isn't it a kind of reverse derogation to act like Rajshri needs defending? Would you defend, say Sonu Chandrapal if someone called her ugly? She's answer enough. So is Rajshri. My God, see her pics on Jelena's page. She looks freaking beautiful.
Finally, each to her own. Libs gets her kicks by being nasty and riling people. Each time we reply, it encourages her.