Originally posted by: sandiab
Is it identity crisis or is there some confusion on what is love? Is there any1 in love on the forum? I would love to know what is love from some1 who has actually been in love coz this show is not showing me love they showing me something else its a bit scary. I mean when I am married and in love am I supposed to be a maid? I planned to hire some1 to cook and clean and when I fire my maid will my husband miss her should I interpretative it as love? This is some scary shit. What love is protrayed as if we do stuff for another make them tea, cook food, clean up for them we would miss them if they leave and we might be in love with them. Suhani on the other hand well she seems to be missing her boss. Arrogant girl is misbehaving with my rohan I dnt like her much she is very mean such sadu sadu face. And then the real sadu face is drinking coffee or tea or whatever as if he was in a nescafe advert. Some1 should send these cvs ragvir scenes to make them see what a love story actually is
My post was mostly a tongue-in-cheek observation, but I like your and Iks' responses.
On one hand, I don't mind either of them learning stuff from the other. Su is a bit sloppy. Even you, Sandi, were shocked she ate that cake which fell down. I remember the time she found the dupatta--she picked up Yuvraj's clothes to put into his cupboard, and one shirt fell down, she just plonked it back, and that pile looked so messy, I wanted to scream. And I'm just slightly ocd. So washing hands, cleaning up a mess, such stuff is okay for me as long as it's about learning and adjusting and not about pleasing or being forced or bullied. And Yuvraj needs to loosen up and learn pani puris are yum and he won't die of dysentry if he eats street food, it'll only strengthen his immune system. I swear, I thought he was going to eat them yesterday, since he didn't eat the salad.
Being his maid is partly of her choosing. He's a spoiled brat and likes her catering to him, but I've not seen him ask that of her. He may have asked her to find his iPod or whatever to get her away from Ankit, or sulked while she was making Ankit's fav food, and been happy when she gave him his fav food (does this guy ever eat anything but Mexican salad?), but when she got us all frothing at the mouth over washing his clothes, I clearly remember his response was: 'Who asked you to do it' (he said Ramesh could, or give it to the dhobi, that's not so clear). Suhani wanted to win over the household. She made herself their slave. She put herself in a position where she was the supplicant looking for approval.
Love is rarely ideal beyond it's beginnings. It does need adjustment and compromise, but these ssel cvs are so stuck on making Su the one who learns from her Lord and Master, and will only let Yuvraj learn he made a tiny (to him) mistake, and totally fail to show the two growing together and towards each other organically. Or so I suspect.
Shiv Shakti
