Yuvraj, My Dear Boy, Lend Me a Ear

Yuvraj beta, kya baat hai. I am awestruck at your pure, spotless heart. And your spotless showering jism. I don't think there exists another guy in this kalyug who has such lofty principles. And such a big ego. One little smoochie-woochie and you were filled with guilt and worry about how not-wife will misinterpret your innocent signs of affection and be heartbroken again? Why then, yuvi beta, did you not think of that when you were giving her sizzling looks, holding her close, had your face against hers, etc., etc. during the birthday dance? To me, that looked a lot hotter and far more suggestive of those carnal desires you persistently deny. Does your brain only function sporadically? And what about the rest of you, yuvi beta?

Don't listen to this Sharad, yuvi beta. If I were you, I too would resist being told I love some inappropriate person whom I lust after off and on, fight with frequently, admire tremendously, not to mention respect from afar. From VERY far, until the urge to touch gets the better of you.

Not fair, Yuvraj beta, not fair. There's a saying: S*** or get off the pot. Not feeling love is fine, you're entitled. But holding on in spite of that is not. Giving mixed signals is not. It is weak and selfish, my son. Just like your mommykins. It is wicked and hurtful, just like your dadikins.

Chal, yuvi beta, hum chalte hain. I will now go and tell Suhani beti that if she has an iota of the brains she's supposed to, she will hand you divorce papers, real this time, give you a friendly kiss on the cheek, and run off with a man who'll be a man.

I really am so, so confused by Yuvraj's character.

Originally posted by: anita_m

Yuvraj beta, kya baat hai. I am awestruck at your pure, spotless heart. And your spotless showering jism. I don't think there exists another guy in this kalyug who has such lofty principles. And such a big ego. One little smoochie-woochie and you were filled with guilt and worry about how not-wife will misinterpret your innocent signs of affection and be heartbroken again? Why then, yuvi beta, did you not think of that when you were giving her sizzling looks, holding her close, had your face against hers, etc., etc. during the birthday dance? To me, that looked a lot hotter and far more suggestive of those carnal desires you persistently deny. Does your brain only function sporadically? And what about the rest of you, yuvi beta?

Don't listen to this Sharad, yuvi beta. If I were you, I too would resist being told I love some inappropriate person whom I lust after off and on, fight with frequently, admire tremendously, not to mention respect from afar. From VERY far, until the urge to touch gets the better of you.

Not fair, Yuvraj beta, not fair. There's a saying: S*** or get off the pot. Not feeling love is fine, you're entitled. But holding on in spite of that is not. Giving mixed signals is not. It is weak and selfish, my son. Just like your mommykins. It is wicked and hurtful, just like your dadikins.

Chal, yuvi beta, hum chalte hain. I will now go and tell Suhani beti that if she has an iota of the brains she's supposed to, she will hand you divorce papers, real this time, give you a friendly kiss on the cheek, and run off with a man who'll be a man.

Iks, Yuvi is THE most unreal guy ever. By making him apparently so principled that he cannot bring himself to consummate with the wife who is/was clearly willing, the cvs have defied biology and nature. His ambivalence and constant moving back are just annoying. The cvs seem to see the character as highly ethical, while we see him as extremely weak and self-centred. Not ONCE has he considered what his behaviour must indicate to the female involved. His spasms of guilt seem all about himself, not her. It's not so much 'Suhani will be hurt' as 'Oh Lord, she will have expectations from me'. As we've said endlessly, let her go, then. Show some courage for once and let go. Is he keeping her around on the CHANCE that he may someday allow himself to give in--and then spend months regretting it? As you said in the other post, he gets close, he acts like he's VERY interested, but no idea what that would do to her if she loves him, or even just lusts after him.
Suhani is as much at fault for letting him get away with this crap. But the cvs are largely men, I guess, and they think this is how women should be.
Du, when he came in with the tie to mommy, and Su put it on for him, I thought that too--he just wants another mommy. He loves being taken care of, we know, and he's a bit of a spoilt brat, so Su as baby-sitter fits perfectly.
Yo, dunce. No venting?

Originally posted by: anita_m

Iks, Yuvi is THE most unreal guy ever. By making him apparently so principled that he cannot bring himself to consummate with the wife who is/was clearly willing, the cvs have defied biology and nature. His ambivalence and constant moving back are just annoying. The cvs seem to see the character as highly ethical, while we see him as extremely weak and self-centred. Not ONCE has he considered what his behaviour must indicate to the female involved. His spasms of guilt seem all about himself, not her. It's not so much 'Suhani will be hurt' as 'Oh Lord, she will have expectations from me'. As we've said endlessly, let her go, then. Show some courage for once and let go. Is he keeping her around on the CHANCE that he may someday allow himself to give in--and then spend months regretting it? As you said in the other post, he gets close, he acts like he's VERY interested, but no idea what that would do to her if she loves him, or even just lusts after him.
Suhani is as much at fault for letting him get away with this crap. But the cvs are largely men, I guess, and they think this is how women should be.
Du, when he came in with the tie to mommy, and Su put it on for him, I thought that too--he just wants another mommy. He loves being taken care of, we know, and he's a bit of a spoilt brat, so Su as baby-sitter fits perfectly.
Yo, dunce. No venting?

🤣 Yeah, he's so pure, they could've used him instead of ganga jal during that shuddhikaran.

Originally posted by: anita_m

🤣 Yeah, he's so pure, they could've used him instead of ganga jal during that shuddhikaran.

Eli, it's great to see you--kabhi kabhi toh muh dikhaya karo.

The post is a culmination of our endless discussions on YuviBaba. I hope you saw Apu's Dadaji post.

Originally posted by: IKEAwizard

I really am so, so confused by Yuvraj's character.Is he a virgin? If so, is he totally okay with remaining a virgin for the rest of his life? This is very odd for a man.On the other hand, does he expect to fall in love with Suhani "some day" and consummate with her? If so, what's wrong with starting now?Also, as it must be said: Suhani's hot. She's always wearing those tight anarkalis that show off her curves, too. Most men would probably eventually want to consummate when their wives looks like that. But why is he fighting this attraction? I thought he didn't care about conventional "sundarta" anymore.

u do know who his dadaji is right lol alokji is happy knowing that his grandson is a virgin mary. really I think every single guy on tv besides probably romi from YHM is a virgin. these indian guys are so unnatural no guy over the age of 18 would want any1 to think they a virgin they rather lie than be seen as that. But Yuvraj is unique he was saving himself for the perfect white princess to come and we all know hw that ended maybe he is waiting for the next perfect white princess who he can indulge his wild urges with 😆