Beauty is short lived. Personality lives forever.

This is just my outlook.

well I have got one question for you.
what do you think of love at first sight? what do you think works in the love at first sight LOOKS OR PERSONALITY.
Its looks/beauty cause one can not get to know the personality by one sight. can they?
And this is exactly what happened between yuvraj and soumya.
Yuvraj fell in love with soumya in his first sight and this because of her beauty. And that first love will remain forever. no matter how hard yuvraj tries to forget it and no matter how much the show wants to portray soumya as a bad girl and her bad personality.

Originally posted by: sonarikan

well I have one question for you.
what do you think of love at first sight? what do you think works in the love at first sight LOOKS OR PERSONALITY.
Its looks/beauty cause one can not get to know the personality by one look. can they?
And this is exactly what happened between yuvraj and soumya.
Yuvraj fell in love with soumya in his first sight and this because of her beauty. And that first love will remain forever. no matter how hard yuvraj tries to forget it and no matter how much the show wants to protray soumya as a bad girl and her bad personality.

Originally posted by: naam-ada-likhna

I dont believe in love at first sight, I consider that to be called attraction. Yes Yuvraj was attracted (call it love at first sight, if you will) to Somuya at first sight. However, Yuvraj built a imagine of Somuya, he hardly got a chance to even get to know her in the beginning. The first time he actually really got a chance to speak to Soumya was when he was getting engaged to Suhani and he confused his love for her. All Yuvraj had was an imagine of who Somuya was. That imagine came crashing down when he read her letter Soumya left for Suhani. He then again built a hope when he thought Somuya cooked the food but that hope broke. He is in love with an imagine he has of Somuya, who she truly isnt is.

Yes you do not forget your first love so easily but you are never always in love with them. If you were to be in love with your first forever no one would move on in life, no second marriages. I could be in love with someone right now but a couple of months or years down the line be in love with someone else. Love is always in the moment. People will change, location with change, time changes. Love doesnt always stick to one thing or person.Soumya claimed to love Krishna but now she is questioning herself. Love doesnt always stick to one person, mistakes are made and people move on.

That is why I dont believe in love at first sight. If you could make a mistake when you know someone. Love at first sight is the even a biggest mistake. It just pure attraction.

so whats your point ?
I said " Looks are the reason of the love at first sight". Now whether krishna is a good person or not that is a completely different story altogether.
what if krishna was a good person?
what if krishna treated soumya well?
these are the future infinite probablities that no one can tell.
but does that change the fact that It was indeed the looks that caused the love of yuvraj?
so does not it mean that LOOKs are as important as personality?
And lets face it everyone wants a fair wife/husband in life.
And no matter how much you try to deny it thats how MALE/FEMALE SEX DRIVE WORKS AND ITS PERFECTLY NATURAL.

I agree with u it isn't a crime to be beautiful neither is it a crime to be plain. But I think this show in a way kind of makes it that way they have pitted beauty vs plainness and they have high lighted plainness and made beauty a crime by making souyma totally disgusting not with her out ward beauty but rather her inner beauty. Her character was supposed to be grey not totally negative and this kind of changed the way the show was supposed to go once they made her semi- negative. I think they do need to bring a little positivity by either making souyma good again or bringing another female lead who is the typical beauty that being fair, thin and long hair and showing that u can also be beautiful bt be kind and sensible as well. And truly beauty can fade away within a minute. U can get into an accident and be disfigured u can get a disease and get sick and lose your looks, u can get old, fat things change all the time looks as well. But a loving personality if 1 doesn't lose their innocent will always stay with a person and can always captivate a crowd and can be even more appalling than beauty. Look at the way ppl react to suhani whenever she shares her thoughts they just love her, her looks doesn't matter. And even when souyma is there suhani's personality out shines her beauty by a mile. And as for love at 1st sight that's attraction I can vouch for that I have been in love with a lot of ppl at 1st sight bt that was it. I remember once I liked this and I should see him every day from afar and he was so handsome fair, tall, he just had attitude and than I finally had a chance to be near him and heard him speak. What a downer that was totally broke my image of him being hot. He couldn't talk properly and he just sounded stupid and not my type I swear after that I never looked at the guy his looks did nothing for me at all. And than there was this other guy I liked extremely handsome, funny, sweet but he lacked maturity and was abit mean and was more into looks. actually he was half indian/white and he liked fair girls especially white girls(by that I mean in regard to race) and hey where always ugly lol. - I think souyma fits into this category. I will always like him and think fondly of him but I wouldn't want to be with some1 like that. I think yuvraj probably feels like that ab souyma but hasn't realised what he wants yet from life. But really souyma is in her element when she is rich and has comfort once u take that away from her and her true colors come out. So that r/ship could work for a while bt it would only last as long as the money lasts.

love at first sight in bullshit, Yuvraj can sit and lick Soumya's face for the rest of his life, in fact every guy can do the same if he loves the gal for her face lol eventually that face will get wrinkled and and discolored, those blemishes and aging spots will show up ...and it's a fact that females age quicker and men tend to look better as they age ...Yuvraj is nothing but a typical hormonal male who thinks with his dick if Soumya is what he wants and honestly, I find Suhani's sister more pretty than this confused chick Soumya ...and Dadi that siff old hag , is she supposed to be fair skinned? she's got that foundation caked on and that gorgeous Ragini someone needs to knock that smug as shit look off her mug and smack her upside her head.

I simply dislike it when ppl try to stereotype/categories things. Why club every1 in the same bracket as u and say every1 wants a fair partner? There is a saying that the perfect man is tall, dark and handsome its not tall, fair and handsome. There are a lot of woman/men who are attracted to the opposite sex and their preference is that their partners must be dark or even be a particular race. Not every1 has the same chooses just like ppl will like souyma not all will do so and the same goes for suhani.

and as far as beauty is concerned...Suhani needs a makeover ASAP. that uneven skin tone and flat hairstyle aren't doing much for her. She wears her sarees in an ugly way and the pallu isn't set...it's all done on purpose to make her look as frumpy as possible...also sometimes a person has a certain air, a certain sex appeal...and sometimes ppl who aren't "perfect" or "fair" have loads of that appeal...from how they carry themselves...I don't see that in Soumya. I don't see it in Suhani either...I think Bhavna has it...but her role sucks

Originally posted by: sonarikan

so whats your point ?
I said " Looks are the reason of the love at first sight". Now whether krishna is a good person or not that is a completely different story altogether.
what if krishna was a good person?
what if krishna treated soumya well?
these are the future infinite probablities that no one can tell.
but does that change the fact that It was indeed the looks that caused the love of yuvraj?
so does not it mean that LOOKs are as important as personality?
And lets face it everyone wants a fair wife/husband in life.
And no matter how much you try to deny it thats how MALE/FEMALE SEX DRIVE WORKS AND ITS PERFECTLY NATURAL.

whoa Love is about loving the person and lust is about loving the looks. great line.
now come out of your ideal world.
lets talk about the real world. every established guy wants to marry a beautiful girl. every good looking girls get the most attention. even in fb pages they gets the most likes. in arrange marriage every guy/girl checks the picture to see their spouse beautiful or not.
Now you can call it lust horny or whatever. but at the end of the day most of the established guys want a fair wife. And why should not they?
they have dreamt all their life about this moment all their life they have worked hard for this. And I have no problem with this.Its the law of the jungle and thats how it should be.
you can talk about the personality all you want and your great religious love does not care about looks.
but in reality
the first thing a guy checks about a girl is her look.And people check google about hot actresses to masturbate and thats fact.
I know some " wanna be god " guys will disagree but who cares the majority rules.
And about the love at first sight i think its 100% normal and happens most of the time. I fell in love with a girl at first sight and I love her more than anything in the world. now is this also only attraction ?
Same goes for yuvraj and soumya.
yuvraj fell in love in first sight.and thats no attraction or lust. Its called first love.And first love rules.I know that the show will try desperately to establish that yuvrajs first love was a mistake and he will move on with suhani.And they wil try their hardest to portray that soumya was a bad girl and she was a wrong choice.
but who cares love was never about choices.and as I said before about the first love. it is truly the unconditional one. sure you can move on and move on and make 10 bf/gfs. but the first one will always be the truest because you can not forget about it no matter how much you try.it will just grow more and more with time.
you say the looks do not matter.
well I say it does matter and trust me when i tell you it takes matter of seconds to fall in love.
One split second of those angelic eyes and innocent face of the girl is enough to fall in love at first sight.
So IMO looks do matter. atleast it happened to me at my love at first sight.