Site Updates and Issues Discussions #9 - Page 92

Originally posted by: Rdigest

Admin team, Can one of you please assist with this. Posting videos about edits just to clarify it is fake is highly unprofessional considering IF has higher reach than the YT edits. This is truly embarrassing for the actors and irresponsible of IF to post such videos on their channel.

https://youtu.be/t2BBal-ymJs?si=phUUeU0boYahEeYj

Thanks in advance

We have always faced this issue of inability to upload the banner in two forums .... one of them is Love Friendship forum .

Dear Vijay and Paresh Bhai

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We are facing the issue of inability to upload the banner in Real Estate forum ....

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Originally posted by: Sutapasima

We are facing the issue of inability to upload the banner in Real Estate forum ....

Dear Vijay and Paresh Bhai

please do help in uploading the banner in the forum

link of forum ...

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The new banner to be uploaded

made by SweetButSpicy

Will get this checked tomorrow.

Originally posted by: vijay

Will get this checked tomorrow.

Can you kindly explain why Zee forum Jaane Anjaane hum Mile is still not on chaska meter after months while Aami Dakini on Sony has been on chaska meter since a month and isnt even on air yet? Both forums are inactive. Maybe we need an active GM/CM/mods to handle the Zee forums.

Originally posted by: heavenlybliss

Can you kindly explain why Zee forum Jaane Anjaane hum Mile is still not on chaska meter after months while Aami Dakini on Sony has been on chaska meter since a month and isnt even on air yet? Both forums are inactive. Maybe we need an active GM/CM/mods to handle the Zee forums.

Will look into this

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Respected Sir,

This is my sincere request to you to close/suspend my account asap.

As you are aware, I had reported I do not know the source, hence cannot make a claim on any individual for impersonation. My mother and I had also reported a possibility about IP Address fraud, however we cannot make a valid claim given that I am neither a cyber criminal nor tech savvy.

I had shown you a thread that was one of three deliberately sent to me in September 2024 by a fellow member who has officially left this platform in 2023 but unofficially was still my friend on Instagram and personal life, and it was informed to me that it is directed to me, hence I just questioned it in person, with focus on the khooni ladoo part, not anyone else. As reassured by you, forum members have made no such personal attacks, and I have left it at that from that day itself. Let me note and state there was NO personal accusations made on anybody whatsoever on my part, and neither have I ever complained about said individual(s) to anybody.

My opinion on the current Govt. is very transparent, and my choice to NOT continue participating in any politically driven discussions is (i) my own lack of understanding of the particular topic (ii) the way dissent is handled on social media, and (iii) my personal inability to stay neutral and become extreme in my opinions.

I was not aware of the full situation at hand basis the Israel-Palestine conflict on the forum, and any and all responses were based on half-hearted facts, and I apologise for making any assumptions. Please note that anything shared was a RESPONSE to something shared by the other member, which I would like to still keep private. I had also presented the issue without any personal reference to any member to focus on how it was certain words that triggered my response because I had never complained about that person @ all to any mods or otherwise, and I wish to NOT now participate on the BWF or Pakistani forum. The intent was to point out to the mistake made by me and that I now wish to keep my self respect intact by not participating either on the Current Affairs forums or the above two, however as I presume Chinese whisper tactics were employed to make it seem like I have any vendetta against the members of the above forums, when I have no reason whatsoever to HATE them till date, because disagreements do not equate to according disrespect to me. I ignore any forums or individuals I do not wish to engage with and had done so till that point.

As mentioned, the ‘educated buffoon’ comment as also meant for such a MID, and was in reference to the personal attack that was made on my brother by other members on the Bangladesh thread, where it was my information from the Attack on Hindus in Pakistan thread that was shared word-to-word and twisted to mean something else. This post was from the Current Affairs forum, and I had opened it with the intention of replying to the same with a draft having 3 paragraphs and a source to state that the Indian government is to take action to protect the Hindu population. I had shared the same with my fellow lawyer member to get her perspective on the same, however till she opened the thread in the evening, the comment(s)was gone. My bias on thinking that there might be a correlation with my case also stems from this.

Why did you edit this post?

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/forum-games/5330470/favorite-show-osts

Removed the PTv songs since I was posting on one forum where they were antagonistic towards the shows, and I wanted to be their friend, and I kinda did agree till the "Pakistani show dekha toh deshdrohi" wala extreme part...

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/history/5358655/history-chat-club#google_vignette

Not to be insensitive to the Bangladesh situation. Did not have anything to do with anything else.

Pakistani show dekhti thi, toh Indian show bhi dekhti thi. Aapko jo notice karna hai utna hi kiya toh apan kya kare?

https://www.indiaforums.com/show/pukaar-dil-se-dil-tak_7211

https://www.indiaforums.com/show/krishna-mohini_7179

I was tagged on one forum and when I read the stories on the forum for participation, jokingly called a “stalker” by a fellow member. My only reason to question whether his departure was related to me is because he used similar language, and I confirmed on the same with two fellow members, albeit a little too dramatically because I was genuinely upset assuming I was the reason for the same, and I stated how my post was reported to said person because it seemed insensitive to the Bangladesh situation. Once confirmed it was basis an issue between him and my friend, I stepped back and even stopped participating on the forum to respect my loyalty with said friend.

I have already apologised in person for my choice of words, interfering in any such third-party affairs not concerning me with half hearted knowledge, and for venting without giving full disclosure to the other party too.

It was NOT however done with the intention of deliberately attacking anyone, and misinterpretation of the same is also 50% the responsibility of the resultant party who used it to incite gossip/hate and also choose NOT to clarify even when I was not hibernated from August 15, 2024 to September 20, 2024.

If actions are louder than words, noone wishes Ganapati (Music Forum) or celebrates their birthday with their enemies, so if I presumed even for one second any of those tagged or on the forum were in the wrong or involved in harassing me, rest assured, you would have never been a part of it. Yes, I did not continue watching your show at that time, but I did catch up on it later.

Why did she not talk to us about this?

You are a stranger forcing your opinion on the other person without telling them directly that for instance, Sajal said BS about Captain Abhinandan, and instead just saying anyone who watches such shows is a disgrace to society. I was never invested in the offscreen part of any shows except for Fairytale at that point, hence did not know about this at all. If you insult someone on something that they are not doing intentionally to discredit their own country/religion, they will not want to interact with you ever again. As for the BWF, I have not posted anything that has anything to do with you, will I get a dream that you are so invested in my life? Have you spoken to me directly on any concerns you had or just posted on your forum and in your brilliant imagination I got your message even without coming on that forum? "But we had invited you to our forum" I had said no. Multiple times. With reasons I think are valid.

I was stupid enough not to take screenshots of any abusive content before the mods deleted it to prove this, however as mentioned by my mother, she asked me to keep quiet as it is a pointless war to go against an unknown enemy, and we instead focussed on deletion of my stories, DMs and all other information, as we decided it is more apt to close my account.

As of September 2024, I had also informed the mods that I wish to permanently close my account, closed all my previous social media accounts with the intent to cut any access for unauthorised data misuse, and had only met you personally for THAT closure and not to specifically complain about anyone. You affirmed current forum members are in no way involved in any such activity, and I had closed the chapter there. Post the reassurance, I have then continued my social life post 5 January 2025.

I am well aware of the CoC, and have made no other ids at any point. I obviously also know that information shared on social media can never be deleted, hence even if I had ever wished to have multiple identities, I could’ve changed my UN and do so from my OWN account. If you wish to justify I have any others on any personally identifiable indicators, please also provide me a valid logic why I would also share all the background information that can be used to draw attention to myself?

I also conducted an investigation, post which I reported the so-called id(s) to you.

(i) Created using information that is publicly available (i.e. my music threads, one of which was also ‘borrowed’ and posted on BWF in 2022, will you now also claim that me and that other member are the same person?)

OG

Music Post:

KUDCA (8 February 2021): https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/kyun-utthe-dil-chhod-aaye/5208052/fun-post-dedicate-a-song-from-one-kudca-character-to-another

BPKH (23 July 2022): https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/bohot-pyaar-karte-hai/5298365/fun-post-music-mania-song-dedications

Pushpa Impossible (8 October 2022): https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/pushpa-impossible/5306094/fun-post-music-mania-song-dedications

Dhruv Tara (8 May 2023): https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/dhruv-tara-samay-sadi-se-pare/5327359/fun-post-music-mania-song-dedications

Pukaar - Dil Se Dil Tak (7 July 2024): https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/pukaar-dil-se-dil-tak/5357788/fun-post-music-mania-song-dedications

Character Post:

KUDCA (8 February 2021): https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/kyun-utthe-dil-chhod-aaye/5208054/sunday-funday-character-x-you

BPKH (13 October 2022): https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/bohot-pyaar-karte-hai/5306713/fun-post-character-ka-character-badlo

Copy:

Meet (13 March 2022): https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/meet/5283976/lets-play-a-game-which-character

I have visited and posted on that Meet Forum with my VM too, though I cannot locate the post. The only social media I was active on is Twitter since I was busy with my personal life. But please tell me why I would come and post from 2022-24 with the same language if I have used it in some other account? Did I seem that stupid when I met you, Sir?

Why was it not flagged?

Coz it is so much more fun to sell some Seeta aur Geeta narrative where the other person used to come when I am offline, smartly use information I have put into the public archive (NAUC, KRPKAB, ISA, YPNTKH, EDKV 1 & 2, KZK2, BB, K&S, KUDCA, YUDKBH, PB, MHRW) and do whatever they needed to do. The moment I started coming here regularly, they stopped using my language, coz obviously out of everyone in the world, I would have immediately caught on to the similarity and reported the account, which I very much did the moment I realised it exists, directly to you coz I wanted to close my account permanently in confidentiality without making any public ruckus of it.

BWF (29 August 2022): https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/bollywood/5302291/dedicate-songs-thread

No offence to the poster. Only using it to 'prove' that we are NOT the same person.

(ii) Mention that Ashi is my favourite character from Remix (i.e MHRW, PKYEK, Vanshaj forum), copying of my writing style, tweets etc. and/or on forums (KUDCA, Banni Chow) that I am already present on. I also host a Public CC about it. Please ask anyone on these forums and they will tell you it is not something out of the ordinary. If I was pretending to be her, why the hell would I also share it openly?

(iii) I have mentioned time and again how I do not care about Bollywood celebrities, given that I do not watch movies, only listen to music. I do not want to be part of any fandom. Udhar celebs pe bhi claim maarte hai, chand taare pe bhi claim maarte hai, and if you say you have no interest after 2022 to be a part of their gang, they even use an audio clip sent accidentally to someone to project as if you are crazy, when you are perfectly okay, just an introvert who loves your boundaries.

But let's be honest, put yourself in my shoes and tell me what you'd do. Someone tells you that someone who you do not even know has a crush on you and is singing songs for you, also point out your P&P post from July 2022, so you decide chalo let's clear it out. Next thing you know, you are the butt of jokes on that forum, and the other person tells you she was just kidding, and sends you a screenshot of that to laugh. I don't find it funny, I am embarrassed. Would you want to go there EVER again? I'd rather stick to my show forums or Music Forum where noone demeans me. Also wth re bubba, I've never had a civil conversation with you, never bothered to come on that forum on any topic, and same idk movie/gaana galti se kya pasand hai, tumhare peeche padi hoon? Kuch bhi. That is exactly why I was so happy on Music Forum, aisa koi ulta seedha matlab toh nahi nikaal raha tha.

Please let me know what other proof(s) do you need to validate I have nothing whatsoever to do with any other accounts on IF? I have told you I was the source material. The person is there below in my visitors list. Why would I be looking up my own account if I had more than one? Why would I complain about my own account? I am not scared of any of the members and them knowing who I am if they are so keen on pushing that story, coz I am not sneaky and have not done anything wrong in my entire life. Mere ghar pe aake chai coffee khaana sab bhi karlo tum, koi problem nahi, lekin mere naam pe kuch bhi jhoota rumours mat failao.

Also if you still wish to believe so coz aisa kaisa, khud Sherlock Holmes ne aasmaan se utar ke validate kiya hai, ALL my so-called accounts should have been closed, irrespective of whether mine is hibernated, if I was using it to cause mayhem.

As for the other post, I have clearly told you I have NOT posted on BWF to ask for any advice, coz I love giving unsolicited advice, not the other way round, I don't take advice from strangers. But theek hai, even if you wish to claim I did, I am technically not in any fandom, but my KUDCA Music thread will negate the fact that I have nothing against Salman Sir from my OG account.I do not have to make 10 other accounts for that.

Any masti mazaak and everything else has been only on PKYEK forum, and was in reference to the VMs from Burns Road Kay Romeo Juliet, a show I was watching back then.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/pyaar-kii-ye-ek-kahaani/5358254/abhiya-at-343-main-joru-ka-gulaam-banke-rahunga?pn=77

https://x.com/benimlemisinn/status/1826465155070173445

And yes, I am obviously scared if forum members are so invested in other people to be following me closely enough to discern and copy patterns, replicate any identification factors to ‘joke’ with others on my behalf, and be able to find meaning even in things I have shared randomly w.r.t fictional characters, fictional shows, stupid iTV trends, songs I like/dislike, stories, posts, VMs etc. when I have genuinely never shared anything with the intent to direct it or as an indirect to ANY forum member in 2024. No clarification has ever been sought from me in regard to the same.

P.S Kisi ki bhi maal-e-ghanimat banne ka mereko koi shauk na tha, na hai, na hoga. To equate me liking a Raavi paar show to mean THAT crossed the limit of decency and morality, coz no such thought had even come to my mind and never will. Not wanting to discuss something on a specific platform anymore did not mean you do not care about it at all. That was NOT a 'joke'. It offended me to rebel and watch 4 more shows, coz I was so annoyed with the mere insinuation. Though I will never do any such stupidity again ever since I saw the actual level of Hinduphobia ingrained in the minds of even normal people there 😳

This is my ONLY interest in anything on that side: https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/kyun-utthe-dil-chhod-aaye/5210640/fyi-hinglaj-mata

Any other 'proofs' in that regard would mean I would have to make you privy to my personal life (Whatsapp/Insta), which I don't think I would want to, I am not that desperate to prove myself, even if you call me a hypocrite or whatever else.

I would've not come online and given this whole Raam Kahaani, coz even if I have been through hell and back since September 2024 thanks to this platform, I have genuinely no interest in convincing anyone here or in your language gaslight/manipulate you coz all I want is to end this. But my account is not being closed coz Sir says I am not wrong, and while I want a new start and to have fun on Twitter again, yeh rumour wala tumour operation karke saaf hona chahiye so anyone can stop assuming I will cause any issues for you. I have not said anything against ANY member or mods, bas aapna sach bola because there is no way for me to prove anything from behind the curtain. Upar hai sab. Mention tak nahi kiya hai aapka naam.

Even in 2025, sirf apne stalker ko taunt kiya hai, aapko personally kisi ko bhi NAHI.

My mother is my alibi in that she has personally seen the above proofs, is very much aware of what I am capable of doing online/offline and advised me to stay away from any of the forums, and I am respecting her wishes even if you choose to pretend as if it is an excuse for my absence coz I promised her the same.

I am neurodivergent, NOT a psychopath.

Sir, I have not reported any of their content, have no association whatsoever with BB18 forum, and never wished to curb anyone’s right to freedom of speech and expression; you can continue even trolling me for the next century and I'd not bother with it. But I don't want to be party to it either if I have NOT caused it. So please tell me why any self respecting person would want to be around any people who think someone who is just posting for lovebombing them, mocking them or is doing it for their sake! Who do I want to impress? Who do I need to impress?

Abhi aap bologe, beta agar aapne unse kabhi baat nahi ki hai toh woh kaise aapko jaanenge? Main bhi wahi toh bol rahi hoon, jaan na pehchaan, lekin doosre ke masti mein proofs collect kar rahe the yeh mahaan.

All I have requested on all 3 occasions (Jan/Mar/June) is just one line: I am thankful for the 12 years here, have fond memories, however this place is NOT for me anymore if my privacy is at risk. Please suspend/close my account, I would be eternally grateful coz this account also has my personal id or if I have accidentally shared personal information here, I do not want that to be compromised. Thank You 🙏