SKR-Of loops and symbolisms#5: Hard way and Smart Way : P.88 - Page 108

Sanju thanks for the info. So it is Gowri. Will read it.

Originally posted by: Cluny13

U call that safe😉. I understand in what context u said but u know the scandals girls in my school landed up in due to FB. Well they are denying admission to 11th for people in FB. Heights of discipline u might be familiar with that😆😆😆. It's up to how people use it. Choice lies Infront of them.

Originally posted by: Cluny13

U call that safe😉. I understand in what context u said but u know the scandals girls in my school landed up in due to FB. Well they are denying admission to 11th for people in FB. Heights of discipline u might be familiar with that😆😆😆. It's up to how people use it. Choice lies Infront of them.

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Originally posted by: Cluny13

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Originally posted by: jeena1993

Btw I wanted to ask u since ages should I call u Di. I am in 10th what about u?

Originally posted by: Cluny13

Yes of course u can call me Di bcz am in graduation last yr.

I am unable to undertstand both Ram and Sita especially Ram. He told today to his mom he knew sita will not come back to ayodhya...then why is he adamant to get her back to ayodhya ? Why is Sita so cold towards her Raghunandhan. Is self respect more than her love for Ram ? She knows everyone is guilty and wants her back. Why did she say she does not want more insults to luv kush. I understand she is tired of life and cannot take any more hardships or insults in life. Honestly I did like Ram saying he will not return ayodhya without Sita even his whole family will not return to ayodhhya without her. What does he accomplish by pressurizing Sita.😕 Can anyone explain me 😕

Originally posted by: divine_ram

I am unable to undertstand both Ram and Sita especially Ram. He told today to his mom he knew sita will not come back to ayodhya...then why is he adamant to get her back to ayodhya ? Why is Sita so cold towards her Raghunandhan. Is self respect more than her love for Ram ? She knows everyone is guilty and wants her back. Why did she say she does not want more insults to luv kush. I understand she is tired of life and cannot take any more hardships or insults in life. Honestly I did like Ram saying he will not return ayodhya without Sita even his whole family will not return to ayodhhya without her. What does he accomplish by pressurizing Sita.😕 Can anyone explain me 😕

10/20/2016

First Ram-Sita convo. As expected Sita says she is not angry with her husband. If he had broken the vachan to her, if he had married second time she wouldn't have been able to take it as it is unbearable for her to know Ram had killed even her memories. Whatever happened to her is fate and time, and what fate says is that Ram and Sita cannot be together. Now when Luv Kush is missing and tells Hanuman that they will come only if their parents come together, Ram requests Sita to come back. Whatever happened to them has happened, it is now the kids future. Cant they be together.

Go back again to Dasrath -Kaikeyi dialogue. If Bharath wants kingdom let him take it, why send Ram for Vanvass. Is it right as a mother, Isnt Ram your son. Kaikeyi doesn't relent. What is the difference between Dasrath Kaikeyi and Ram-Siya. Dasrath disrespected his wife and questioned her feminity when he says you didn't give me son, everything I did. Second he says leave son, you couldn't even give a daughter. Superiority of a man comes into fore then. To that husband, to that king Kaikeyi shows who she is. She hits him hard, the same below the belt treatment he gave her. Crushing his ego, his pride she attacks. Love was gone between Dasrath -Kaikeyi. But love exists between Siya-Ram. Ram has not sacrificied his wife, neither has Siya her husband. But as king he had to do certain things, which as a woman was unacceptable to her. It was not between hus-wife, but it was between Prakriti-Sanskriti and the way Sanskriti tried to overpower Prakriti created the difference in them.

Now Sita goes to her sons and tells them if she comes back to Ayodhya for them it will be a compromise. She will never have her self respect. Does her sons want that. Luv-kush says they are accepting their father because she wants them to accept him. Sita says if they truly care for her they will have to listen what she says. Go back go back to the scene where Bharath is painting and Kaikeyi asks him if in a situation he has to choose between her and Ram whom he will choose. Bharath says her, because that is what Ram bhaiyya will want. In the end also Bharath accepts Kaikeyi because Ram asks him to accept her. So it is Ram's love for his mother that makes Kaikeyi finally get back atleast her son though she loses her husband.

Now the same thing is reversed here. It is because Sita wants the boys to accept Ram the boys are accepting him. The one to whom Kaikeyi did adharma, because of him she gets her son back, to the one whom Ayodhya did injustice because of her they get their heirs. If not for Sita, luv kush would have never accepted their father and his family. Indirectly Ram shows the world the Sanskriti is moving forward because of Prakriti. And she needs to be respected, not discarded.

Scene in which Sita gives Ram the kids was a beauty. We see Prakriti through the resources she gives us, that is what Sita says you will see me in Luv-kush. But are we thankful. Unfortunately no. The Prakriti that works silently behind is not acknowledged. The bountiful Prakriti doesn't need anything just an acknowledgement that she is valued. Just like Ram's vachanpalan was enough for Sita. Just a repentance from Sanskriti that she is pained by Sanskriti's actions. She doesn't go revengeful. Today we see in Sita who has won as a wife, a mother and a woman. She will do all her duty, but she is not willing to compromise her self respect. Her husband has to know that, her sons have to know that. Did any woman of Ayodhya think like that. Did Shanta think of self respect when she went to lure Rishisringa or Kausalya thought about it when she allowed Dasrath to marry multiple times and allowed him to ignore her for his second wife Kaikeyi. Answer is no. But Sita due to the upbringing given to her by Janak was both self reliant and independent. She fought her battles always keeping her self respect. And Ram brings out this woman's greatness in front of the world by taking blame for her.