SKR-Of loops and symbolisms#5: Hard way and Smart Way : P.88 - Page 110

Originally posted by: Cluny13

shruthi Di had said right she came into his life with red dress the colour of love she will go from his life in orange. So jeena Di am not sure if she would do BP with that.

He gave her adhikar she gives him adhikar. I understand that jeena Di but what does it do with touch and sindoor.

21/10/2016

I loved the perception creation. Though I want to write about 4 nights that looked something, but changed into something the next morning, I will do that after how they take Sita's BP. Today I will talk about the night of deceptions. 12 years back a wife was told by her husband she was telling she need to visit the ashram of the rishis and get their blessings. Plan to leave that day itself. Happily the wife does all the planning. She even wears the dress the ashram vasis wears as she doesn't want to go there as a queen. She wants to be one among them and with great humility take their blessings. This happy wife is denied one last chance even to look at her husband's face. That is how Sita banishment happens. With a beautiful perception and breaks brutally for Sita.

Today Sita creates the perception, she tells she needs one night to say goodbye to Valmiki Ashram once and forever. She feeds her children. She feeds her husband.She tells children to listen to their father. She tells her husband the boys are still kids, he will have to to put effort in their growth. Children says you are also there. They will show her how good kids they are. Ram says together they will take care of the kids. Her husband moves closer to her. But she steps back. What I liked about Ram was that he respected that decision of Sita and stood at a distance she was comfortable with. Reason Sita didn't allow Ram to touch is not she is cold towards him, but because if she allows him to touch her, once she feels his love, she will not be able to go ahead with her decision. Ram gives her the wedding dress and asks her to wear it when she starts the journey from the ashram. She agrees.

Now what is the difference of Ram and Sita's perception. Sita couldn't see Ram one last time before she was banished. But in her case as a mother she feeds her kids and as a wife feeds her husband one last time. Why Ram didn't see her. If he sees her he will not be able to proceed with his decision. Once again beautiful contrast of Sanskriti and Prakriti. Sanskriti sight or vision matters, Prakriti it is the feel. Hence she didn't allow him to touch her one last time.

Now the wedding dress. That is the beauty. Why was Ram worried when he saw the dream. In the dream Sita was going in Bhoomi with the dress of a Sanyasini. In that dress she is the wife who is sacrificed. The woman who has no right on Ram the husband or Ram the king. Ram says he will give justice to Sita. Remember the scene where he gives back sand to Sita. Wedding dress symbolizes that. When Sita comes wearing the wedding dress and jewels she is no longer the woman sacrificied, she is the wife of Ram, Kulvadhu of Royal palace and Queen of Ayodhya. All her identities get established with just that dress and jewels. By taking the sindoor from her husband one last time she is going as Suhagan. When she calls Mother Earth, wife of Ram is in his heart, Kulvadhu of Royal Palace shines through her sons, but the Queen, Queen of Ayodhya brutally rejects the Ayodhyavasis and its culture. And Ram banished her at night stealthily, the way Sanskriti moves. Hit you from behind. But her rejection. She is going to do it in broad daylight. Prakriti doesn't hit you from behind. Why you don't see it coming is because you are not used to getting hit from front. That is not the game you play. But Prakriti does it from front, fair and square. From where Sanskriti will be unable to get up. Just liked they forced her to live a life of rejection, she also leaves them to live a life of rejection.

@Sanju when I said orange I was expecting she will do BP in the dusk, but I had forgotten certain things, the most important her identity.She cant go in orange

Tired. Still few questions regarding yesterday epi will post tomorrow.
Ram and dreams. In skr the first dream ram saw was when Ayodha is isolated he is not there to comfort Ayodha. The second being Sita exile and now BP. The first is about the sanskriti he is going to break. The second being siya( prakriti ) he wants to protect. The third his life's aim the prakriti rejects sanskriti. He suceeds in protecting prakrithi, breaking the sanskriti but it was never ever easy.
Cvs have worked it out well. I always think ur analysis are more than what the CVs think but today I agree I underestimated skr CVs 😆

Shruthi beautiful post

@Rakhi the meaning was that. What you said. Rejection is for Ayodhya. But Lakshmi will always reside in Hari's heart

Rakhi di I loved one point of urs. During the churning of ocean only mahalakshmi emerges and unites with Vishnu but before that she was submerged in the ocean. Similarly she will go inside earth which nurtures her, all of us for that matter. She is swayam prakrithi who goes inside dharti maa only to unite with Vishnu in vaikunth after the completion of leela.
Btw post updated in pg 142. It's about dreams and ram

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

21/10/2016

I loved the perception creation. Though I want to write about 4 nights that looked something, but changed into something the next morning, I will do that after how they take Sita's BP. Today I will talk about the night of deceptions. 12 years back a wife was told by her husband she was telling she need to visit the ashram of the rishis and get their blessings. Plan to leave that day itself. Happily the wife does all the planning. She even wears the dress the ashram vasis wears as she doesn't want to go there as a queen. She wants to be one among them and with great humility take their blessings. This happy wife is denied one last chance even to look at her husband's face. That is how Sita banishment happens. With a beautiful perception and breaks brutally for Sita.

Today Sita creates the perception, she tells she needs one night to say goodbye to Valmiki Ashram once and forever. She feeds her children. She feeds her husband.She tells children to listen to their father. She tells her husband the boys are still kids, he will have to to put effort in their growth. Children says you are also there. They will show her how good kids they are. Ram says together they will take care of the kids. Her husband moves closer to her. But she steps back. What I liked about Ram was that he respected that decision of Sita and stood at a distance she was comfortable with. Reason Sita didn't allow Ram to touch is not she is cold towards him, but because if she allows him to touch her, once she feels his love, she will not be able to go ahead with her decision. Ram gives her the wedding dress and asks her to wear it when she starts the journey from the ashram. She agrees.

Now what is the difference of Ram and Sita's perception. Sita couldn't see Ram one last time before she was banished. But in her case as a mother she feeds her kids and as a wife feeds her husband one last time. Why Ram didn't see her. If he sees her he will not be able to proceed with his decision. Once again beautiful contrast of Sanskriti and Prakriti. Sanskriti sight or vision matters, Prakriti it is the feel. Hence she didn't allow him to touch her one last time.

Now the wedding dress. That is the beauty. Why was Ram worried when he saw the dream. In the dream Sita was going in Bhoomi with the dress of a Sanyasini. In that dress she is the wife who is sacrificed. The woman who has no right on Ram the husband or Ram the king. Ram says he will give justice to Sita. Remember the scene where he gives back sand to Sita. Wedding dress symbolizes that. When Sita comes wearing the wedding dress and jewels she is no longer the woman sacrificied, she is the wife of Ram, Kulvadhu of Royal palace and Queen of Ayodhya. All her identities get established with just that dress and jewels. By taking the sindoor from her husband one last time she is going as Suhagan. When she calls Mother Earth, wife of Ram is in his heart, Kulvadhu of Royal Palace shines through her sons, but the Queen, Queen of Ayodhya brutally rejects the Ayodhyavasis and its culture. And Ram banished her at night stealthily, the way Sanskriti moves. Hit you from behind. But her rejection. She is going to do it in broad daylight. Prakriti doesn't hit you from behind. Why you don't see it coming is because you are not used to getting hit from front. That is not the game you play. But Prakriti does it from front, fair and square. From where Sanskriti will be unable to get up. Just liked they forced her to live a life of rejection, she also leaves them to live a life of rejection.

@aditi I loved the dialogue " Mujhe mera sindoor dijiye" and thanks for pointing that out. By the way did you read my PM

Lovely post aditi di.
I also felt nowadays when we say u forget people say I was about to say or do but u did it. But Sita, Years had passed but ram clearly trusted her the same way. He knew her nature and today If she didnt forget. She didn't and truth and love shine through in that scene. Also now I get jeena dis point after seeing ur post. Ram humbly stretches the sindoor box to her places in her maang only after she asks. Remarkable!