8/Jun/2016
The dialogue beginning of destruction has happened by Sita was the greatest dialogue of today. Today sulo says to her husband he broke her trust and he says for a woman he cannot do treachery to his father. Once again I am going back to the concept of 4 pillars. Meghnad and Sulo represent wealth. When did the whole problem started. When wealth went behind power. Or rather irrespective of warnings from her husband Sulo cross the line of maryada and help Surpi the power. The end result of that surpi's nose cut, her need for revenge and Sita apaharan. Now Sulo knows a mistake has happened through her and it can cause their complete destruction. So she is trying to correct it. But the problem is once again wealth goes behind power. If Sulo on that day decided to consult Mandodari before taking any action of helping Surpi and If today Meghnad had sided with Vibhishan the dharma of Lanka the equation would have been different. But both decided to go behind power. When wealth goes behind power the beginning of destruction has happened. And Sulo knows.
And what is the problem between the relationship dynamics of Meghnad -Sulo. It is an equation in which Prakriti trying to control Sanskriti and Sanskriti trying to control Prakriti. Yes they love each other, but when it comes to choosing their relation or their beliefs they stick to their beliefs without thinking whether the other have a valid POV. They both follow their Swadharma. I am a woman so helping a woman in need is my duty. Doesn't matter whether the woman deserve or the woman need it. Surpi didn't deserved Sulo's help and Sita didn't wanted Sulo's help.
Meghnad I am a son so I will obey whatever my father says. So they stay independently with their Swadharma which will break them. But by taking Laxman's Swadharma as her dharma Urmila stands behind him as his strength. If a person has Swadharma, a woman who can take his dharma as her dharma can only provide him strength and can accept it and live happily with him. A soldier's wife cannot have a Swadharma that can jeopardize the security of the country. By supporting Surpi that was what Sulo did.
Loop closure was beautiful going behind power starts with Sulo and today it ended with Meghnad, signaling the war cry.
Now come surpi who creates a woman by killing a lion and taking its heart. And look what she says. You are my creation, you have that debt with me and you have to do what I say. And she sends her creation for destruction.
CVs most beautifully showed those mothers who want sons/ daughters for their personal pleasures, expecting them to always serve them, do what ever they say because a child is their creation. And what happens they send the child for destroying world and the child ends up destroying them.
Can a mother claim a child like that. Does earth claim us. Does earth demands anything from us. Earth gives. Earth feels happy in motherhood. That's what a woman should feel. Happy to experience motherhood. Giving right direction and values to the child so that he or she can construct new things, bring harmony. But alas today motherhood is all about demanding I did this for you and that for you. Child is not just created by father and mother, just like surpi putting it in fire, a child is created in the fire of love between the couple. That third unseen element is not something you can ignore and if the fire is that of jealousy and other destructive thoughts then the child will inherit that. Have pure thoughts to have a good generation. It's a woman's responsibility.
Edited by shruthiravi - 9 years ago
Udne Ki Aasha
Kumkum Bhagya
