Putramoh ke lalach mein vachan diya- Dasrath

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I loved this dialogue today. Reason people are always thinking about destination in such a way that they are not sure whether they are taking the right path to reach the destination. And that padh -bedh or deviation from the right path to reach destination results in all the sorrow's of one's life.
We are always after material things. We want our child to be engineer/doctor, we want car, we want house, we want the best marriage alliance, immediately after marriage we should have child. If something is not happening as we expect then we get worried. Then by hook or crook we want to get things done.

Then when things go wrong we cry. My mom says I have no sympathy for people who have lost everything in scams and all or the girls who end up being in casting couch or gang raped after being offered roles in shows or movies, or those people who die in alcohol tragedies.

And to be frank yes. I do not have any sympathy for anyone in that category. Reason everyday in newspaper, in TV we hear about chit funds, how they give attractive offers and lure people. So if you are getting something that looks suspicious be alert. No you wont. You wanted easy money, so you went with it suffer.

Casting couch we all hear, also there are " n" number of stories of girls being duped by agents in the name of serials and movies. Why are you going alone with person who cannot be trusted. Any proper organization will conduct interviews, look test in a transparent manner. They dont have to take you at night or something. Infact if you agree for casting couch for the fame, then later dont cry foul over it.

Alchohol tragedy well I have no sympathy at all. You drink. You know the side effects. You destroy yourself and your family. Why should I sympathise with you.

Then there are those overseas marriage alliances. People just want to marry off their daughters. The moment they see overseas groom well go ahead fix the marriage. How many girls lives have been ruined by such decisions by parents. How many suffer domestic abuse abroad with their voice not heard.

We need to understand one thing with life. Greed doesnt take us anywhere. One day or the other it will bring our downfall. History has enough examples in the dictators. And in life nothing is one way, it is always two ways. If something looks all benefit one way learn to question. Something is not right.

Have all ambitions. Work to reach your goals. You can very well reach them if you apply your thoughts correctly and takes correct steps. But mindful of the path, mindful of the journey and stay right to the course always.

It's not something I am saying simply. It's a rule I have always applied. Life is always 2 ways. Give and Take. And if this rule is not happening I immediately starts questioning where the problem is. When Life doesnt give me something, the question I ask is not " how I can get it", but " why I am not getting it". The first question I will have to do padh bedh for an answer and second question when I correct myself in the right path itself I will get what I want.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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UnRes...
Extremely sorry shruthi...

Pls bura na mano...

Am thoda free now... Will read it asap...

Shruthi, as you know I couldn't hear the dialogues properly yday and I have no intention to watch it twice😆
But whatta post 👏

U actually spoke my heart..

Yes, I always question "why am I not getting it?"

Cmn to casting couch.. Its a simple thing which ppl pursuing that field should understand...

I remember kangana ranaut's interview she had said that ppl who usually keep an offer like this don't give u any work... And I was 👏. Coz yes this is true...

They won't give you any work instead will use you and throw u...

Cmn to alcohol... I had such an example in my relatives. (My paternal aunt's husband) a typical "bade baap ka bigada beta" case... This man lost his life to alcohol some 13 yrs ago...

And lottery thing... I would rather talk about private banks. Once again one of my relatives had deposited in such a bank as they offered a higher rate of interest. Today the bank and all it's branches have been shut down... And they have lost lakhs of rupees which they expect to recover...

And yes I don't sympathize with such ppl who search for shortcuts...

And ironically yet fortunately life has never given me things easily so hard work comes easily to me...

It will take time but I'll get smthn rigid and substantial...

And this applies to everyone.. If u want something long lasting endure hardships.. Cz no pain no gain... 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Not bura DD. Sometimes when I don't see any reply I feel, have I put something which is too heavy for people. Are they not understanding it.
I generally don't like to put heavy concepts which people cannot digest 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Not bura DD. Sometimes when I don't see any reply I feel, have I put something which is too heavy for people. Are they not understanding it.

I generally don't like to put heavy concepts which people cannot digest 😆


No u r wrong...

U actually simplify the heavy concepts...

And that has inspired me to start a thread 😃

Anyways reply edited... 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shruthi di I am so sorry I couldn't answer you
Actually nowadays there are so many posts in the forum so I couldn't find your post...


Very thought provoking post as usual...

Agree with each and every point of urs ...

We mostly think about the outcome instead of the way or the path to it ... And in this course we tend to take up short cuts...

About that alcohol thing I don't know what to say, I have few friends in my college who go to lounge etc and have alcohol ...
I meant just 18, 19 year old people doing this ... Few of them are very good friends of mine ... Nowadays I talk less to them.. But they are my friends after all , I should stop them but then all have their own choices , I should not interfere .
Don't know what's right so I dont talk much with them now...





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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi Shruthi, Will read the post and comment later.as totally tied up during the weekend (have not even watched the episodes) and even now in office. Just glanced the forum and came across this post.

Need to read your post to get updated on the situation in the serial.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@jaya you are the one I am really missing. Because your posts are very practical. Have helped me a lot in course correction😃
@DD yes any such offer where you feel you will get life of your dreams will have its pitfalls.
@aditi how many times in BG we hear concentrate on action, not on result. Still moh, prem se aage badh jaata hai. Because if we concentrate on action when we get what we want we can sleep comfortably and that is what a human needs the most. Even after getting 4 sons Dasrath was in constant fear of Putraviyog and had sleepless nights. Now he will face the fear in the most gruesome manner and will die a pitiable death in putraviyog.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello di
Sorry for not replying on posts for a long Time
12th started so...
AbsolutEly correct life offers two paths which seem to run parallel
If i take janvi di's oip and water
One path has oil spilled and other is covered with water
With water you have to swim , use all your body and mind
But with oil , it coupd be used as a lubrication to speed up things but ultimatEly one has equal chance to fall
Only that work bears fruits that is executed using rightpath.
In 9th my teacher topd me the same shloka , i didnt understand at that time but i think now things are clear as the water
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yaa charvi. I know most of you guys are busy with exams. Even I was busy last week. And charvi you bought a very good thing about oil and water.
Oil whether you go with it or against it, at some point you will fall. But with water if you learn to go with the flow you reach destination.
It's just you need to understand the flow of water and learn to swim. In other words understand Prakriti once again. Because water is natural. Oil is extracted.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Yaa charvi. I know most of you guys are busy with exams. Even I was busy last week. And charvi you bought a very good thing about oil and water.

Oil whether you go with it or against it, at some point you will fall. But with water if you learn to go with the flow you reach destination.
It's just you need to understand the flow of water and learn to swim. In other words understand Prakriti once again. Because water is natural. Oil is extracted.

Perfect di
You have to go with the flow of prakriti
And as we extract oil , there are further implications to the same
If oip is mixed with water it turns poisnous gor the creatures there
Just as manthra is doing , its onpy through proper refining that things eill turn right

Di , my exams are over
I passed my 11th
And now am in 12th
Never new time would fly so fast

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