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In Sat's episode I had mentioned that Sita ran back during vidaai because she needed closure. Closure of her past and today we saw a woman who was willing to go forward in her life. She had accepted a new journey had started for her. She had lived a beautiful life in her maayka. Now she is with her husband, going to set up her home with him. A husband who loves her.
And Sita gave pearls of wisdom to her sisters. A wisdom each of us should try to emulate. Yes they were missing Mithila. But Sita asked them to look at the positive. They 4 were together. How many sisters are fortunate on to get this. Holding past memories is fine but that should never hold you from creating new memories.
So what does that mean. It means that keep the beautiful memories of the past. if there are painful memories in the past take learning from them and discard them. Past should always make you smile so that you can look at the present and build the future.
Many people spend their time discussing the past. Especially the bad things happened in the past. That makes them cynical towards everything. They will try to see negative in everything. Will never encourage anything. Will always have one complaint or another in any given cricumstance. They dont trust themselves and hence are unable to trust anything else and they create the atmosphere negative stalling progress, stalling positive change.
So we have to decide where should we belong. Should we cling to past and allow past to dictate our future also, or we want past in our control to make present in our control. Choice is ours.
Always give past a closure, let how much ever painful it may be. Whatever pain allow it go. Cry, write on a sheet of paper, read it, throw it. Do it as much as you want, till all the negativity goes out from the system. Then whether it is an incident , or a person from the heart forgive that person or that incident. Then never allow that incident or person to torment you.
But if you have something beautiful, some achievements always keep them, to reminsce. To give you motivation in negative circumstances. Remember the people who helped you, their struggles. Learn to smile. Try creating more beautiful memories for you, also for others.
Shiv Shakti
