Past should never stop you from creating new memories- Sita

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daydreamers

@daydreamers

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Posted: 9 years ago

#21

Baat kal ki- urmila, mandvi and kirti...

Kal ki baat kuch aise sochte rahe

Kal ko Kuch aise dekhte rahe

Baar baar mudte rahe

Aage bhi kal hai

Peeche bhi Kal hai

Aage dekhne ki wajah na samjhe

Peeche na mudne se dil darey

Doobey the uss sagar mein

Beech majdhaar me phanse hai

Koi kashti paar lagaaye

Himmat na thi hamari

Ki yaadon ko bhul jaye

Iss kashmakash hai

Ki dard sirf humein kyun hai

Baat kal ki thi

Baat kal ki hai

Koi aaj ka waqt toh samjhaye humein...

P.S- I know shruthi you had asked me to start a new thread for poetry... But owing to the quality, I ges mein peet jaungi 😆

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vipraja26

@vipraja26

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Posted: 9 years ago

#22

Well said Shruthi !

Absolutely agree with the point of closure !

Many a times I have experienced this after shedding some tears on some such thoughts or ?!,it does help to get going with the present and thereby towards future .

Maybe some could just bring it out in writing to pour out their pain ! Whatever, it does help rather than other wise ( brood over and over creating the negative environment)

Nice conversation between sisters to show the simple but profound teachings required for one and all !

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#23

@DD create thread. Your poetry has quality for us forumvasis.

And coming to your post. Yes enacting help. I also do sometimes to analyze the situation and to check what I could have done better. So that the next time situation comes I will not repeat it again.

@vipraja yes every conversation in the show teaches us something

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daydreamers

@daydreamers

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Posted: 9 years ago

#24

OK shruthi...

Abhi Karti... Stay tuned 😛

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Ramyalaxmi

@Ramyalaxmi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#25

@DD: Congrats for becoming dazzler

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daydreamers

@daydreamers

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Posted: 9 years ago

#26

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4576300&PID=131596180&#p131596180

Link to the poetry thread...

Thank you ramya 😃

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attubaby

@attubaby

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Posted: 9 years ago

#27

Agree..clingin on to past makes us feel stuck and we have to unlock the fetters of the past by ourselves...it is the baggage we carry dat leads us nowhere because we r so engrossed in carryin d heavy baagage dat we forget the way to life ahead.

Wat I havelearnt and experienced in my life is that rendering your heart out to the most near and dear people in our lives do help us in relieving the pain and forget the gloomy feel of the past. Although 'forget' is the wrong word here to use as we never forget anything, and dats true, but yeah, the negative or the ill feels related to the particular happening/event do vanish😊

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#28

@attubaby we dont forget, but the only thing is that we shouldnt allow that incident to burn us. When I was watching EHT, I had written a post on beautiful memories and the importance of the male lead of that show in bringing those beautiful memories to the leading lady and her sister who is a rape victim.

Only very few people had appreciated the post then, because they felt the male lead was not needed. My only point was how long the mentally disabled rape victim going on thinking about that incident. How will she recover if no one could tell her what her life was before that incident. The leading lady couldnt do it because she was using an alibi. But the male lead could do it. When everyone bought her memories of that fateful day, he brings her, her cherished memories with her family, her sister.

Beautiful memories help even a person recover. Build confidence and they are needed.

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attubaby

@attubaby

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Posted: 9 years ago

#29

I also watched that show...u r right...d crux is to keep the beautiful memories and make the sad memories so unimportant that they do not keep on coming to haunt the person. meeting a person that could help one revive beautiful memories of once a beautiful past, dat too in a situation when one has no other emotional support with whom one could share the sorrow, (the situatn of d victim in EHT), helps in gaining confidence...but this is the ideal situaition where one can become capable of keep beautiful memories and can do away with the bad ones coz they are all related to past that is again touched.

May b d effect on the person can be overwhelming as the person could be filled with sorrow on how b'ful the life was before the incident happened like in the extreme cases of rape as shown in EHT.

But, yeah, u r right in pointing that unless strong emotional support from near and dear ones is not present, reviving back to normal life could be tough.

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NONIE

@Nonie12345

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#30

Wonderful analysis Shruti didi😊

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