Will Sita ever look at Ram ?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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It is kind of irritating that Sita is not looking at Ram at all. What is wrong with CVs ? It is one thing to be shy and it is absolutely another thing to never look into the eyes of the person you are talking 😔
I remember she wasn't this shy in Swayamvar, what happened now ? šŸ˜•

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Posted: 9 years ago
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In those time,when a girl was going to be married to a guy, they didnt even meant as such, and sita not looking at ram is just out of shyness and respect...though there was not eye contact as we wanted šŸ˜‰šŸ˜‰ they did have tiny tiny ones😳😳

I guess with time,they'll be more comfortable with each other where we will get the real eye contacts😃😃

Ps-Just my opinion 😃😃
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree - it's really distracting! And they have been showing her as making eye contact before - even when it was clear they liked each other.
I think the writer changed between the episodes up to the swyamvar and the episodes they're showing now. There's a clear shift in how they're showing Sita. She's gone from being confident and assertive (which I preferred) to breathing heavily all the time and lowering her eyes! I know it's supposed to be perhaps more historically accurate but I was enjoying the earlier depiction of Sita.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanya142

I agree - it's really distracting! And they have been showing her as making eye contact before - even when it was clear they liked each other.

I think the writer changed between the episodes up to the swyamvar and the episodes they're showing now. There's a clear shift in how they're showing Sita. She's gone from being confident and assertive (which I preferred) to breathing heavily all the time and lowering her eyes! I know it's supposed to be perhaps more historically accurate but I was enjoying the earlier depiction of Sita.


Right, distracting it is 🤢
Today she confessed her feelings towards him without looking at him, it ruined the whole effect.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanya142

I agree - it's really distracting! And they have been showing her as making eye contact before - even when it was clear they liked each other.

I think the writer changed between the episodes up to the swyamvar and the episodes they're showing now. There's a clear shift in how they're showing Sita. She's gone from being confident and assertive (which I preferred) to breathing heavily all the time and lowering her eyes! I know it's supposed to be perhaps more historically accurate but I was enjoying the earlier depiction of Sita.



Even I feel she is breathing heavily most the the time. I feel annoying...
About eye contact, i was irritated with her today's scene...she should look at him in between not totally eyes down..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This Sita is a lot more historically accurate and for that I am pleased. I think CVs are finally listening to the portion of audience who prefer historical accuracy to modern feminist approach of the characters.

Women in those times did not look men in the eye, even after marriage, but particularly before marriage! It doesn't matter whether we like this or not, that's how it was back then and that's how it should be portrayed in television.

A woman can still be confident and assertive and still be shy. There is nothing degrading about being shy. It doesn't make her any less confident. I am glad CVs are not showing post-Swayamvar Sita as the modern day woman she was before the swayamvar. That was simply not Sita, couldn't connect with her at all. This current Sita resembles the epic Sita a lot more than the pre-Swayamvar one.

If people prefer seeing the modern day assertive and outspoken women on TV, they should watch modern day shows, not mythological ones. I'd rather not see our graceful mytho ladies tampered with, thank you very much.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..

This Sita is a lot more historically accurate and for that I am pleased. I think CVs are finally listening to the portion of audience who prefer historical accuracy to modern feminist approach of the characters.

Women in those times did not look men in the eye, even after marriage, but particularly before marriage! It doesn't matter whether we like this or not, that's how it was back then and that's how it should be portrayed in television.

A woman can still be confident and assertive and still be shy. There is nothing degrading about being shy. It doesn't make her any less confident. I am glad CVs are not showing post-Swayamvar Sita as the modern day woman she was before the swayamvar. That was simply not Sita, couldn't connect with her at all. This current Sita resembles the epic Sita a lot more than the pre-Swayamvar one.

If people prefer seeing the modern day assertive and outspoken women on TV, they should watch modern day shows, not mythological ones. I'd rather not see our graceful mytho ladies tampered with, thank you very much.


Agreed, we should remember that this is not a mills and boons story. By the way, is your previous username JanakiRaghunath?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Viji79


Agreed, we should remember that this is not a mills and boons story. By the way, is your previous username JanakiRaghunath?


Yes, do I know you? šŸ˜³šŸ˜†
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..


Yes, do I know you? šŸ˜³šŸ˜†


we have briefly interacted in Mahabharat forum and may be GHSP forum. That was a long time back.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..

This Sita is a lot more historically accurate and for that I am pleased. I think CVs are finally listening to the portion of audience who prefer historical accuracy to modern feminist approach of the characters.

Women in those times did not look men in the eye, even after marriage, but particularly before marriage! It doesn't matter whether we like this or not, that's how it was back then and that's how it should be portrayed in television.

A woman can still be confident and assertive and still be shy. There is nothing degrading about being shy. It doesn't make her any less confident. I am glad CVs are not showing post-Swayamvar Sita as the modern day woman she was before the swayamvar. That was simply not Sita, couldn't connect with her at all. This current Sita resembles the epic Sita a lot more than the pre-Swayamvar one.

If people prefer seeing the modern day assertive and outspoken women on TV, they should watch modern day shows, not mythological ones. I'd rather not see our graceful mytho ladies tampered with, thank you very much.



I totally agree with you and SiyaKeRam is clearly a show where they actually takes its viewers back in those days, and i truly think its how it should be...your post is direct to the pointšŸ‘

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