Nih and Her Double Standards

Hey guys...one thing about Nih really makes me mad. She has such double standards about relationships.

She does not want Dhurv to get close to Arpita and start a relationship with her. Well what about when her husband was ALIVE (Antriksh) and she had a realationship with another man. And then when she left him she married Rudr. Then Rudr was "dead" so why did she carry on her life and marry Shivam. Why did she not live with Rudr's memories only. Rudr was Dhruv's brother so Dhruv could have said no you cannot marry Shivam and you have to keep living as Rudr's widow.

It seems like all the rules are made for everyone but her.

Advice for Nih: Don't point a finger cause you have 3 pointing back at you!

Comment? Questions?

i agree with u guys Niharika thinks she can do anything she wants but others people can't...i really hate Niharika for interfering in other's lives

I think she is just scared... all that bravado and anger hides a terrified person. She is terrified that everyone will forget Vedika and move on. She has alwys stood up for herself and for others... I admire her for that!

It is not that she doesn't want Dhruv to move on... its more that she can't understand how he can when he loved Vedika so much. She misses her sister like crazy and can't let go of her. She hates the fact that Arpita is replacing Vedika.

Remember, even when Arpita first came there, when Dhruv was "Kunal"? Even then, Niharika was giving it to Arpita because Vedika was put in the middle and a very dificult position between Kunal and Dhruv...Niharika can't stand to see Vedika's memory being disgraced... thats all...😕

thank you for saying that you took the words out of my mouth i mean its true what you said its totally ok if she remarries and has an affair but dhruv cant he can only mourn and cry all the time i really hate in the show and in real life! 😡

Meetu: I was thinking the same thing about Niharika, how double-standar she is being...and DivyaD to your point, she misses her sister, but she should also be supportive of Dhruv's situation, which is everyone needs to move on in life. He married Arpita due to circumstances of society and her uncle and aunty. I think everyone should have an opinion, though conveying it via creating evil plans is not good 😳

ya c has double standards c can live her life with shivam whn her husband was "supposed" dead but she is not allowing Dhruv to live his life whn his wife is actually dead.

Originally posted by: DivyaD

I think she is just scared... all that bravado and anger hides a terrified person. She is terrified that everyone will forget Vedika and move on. She has alwys stood up for herself and for others... I admire her for that!

It is not that she doesn't want Dhruv to move on... its more that she can't understand how he can when he loved Vedika so much. She misses her sister like crazy and can't let go of her. She hates the fact that Arpita is replacing Vedika.

Remember, even when Arpita first came there, when Dhruv was "Kunal"? Even then, Niharika was giving it to Arpita because Vedika was put in the middle and a very dificult position between Kunal and Dhruv...Niharika can't stand to see Vedika's memory being disgraced... thats all...😕

agreed....imagine yourself being in her place...won't you feel the same....we all know that the whole family loved ved a lot...and they still miss her...but whatever is going on..from that nih will only think that they have forgotten her won't they....

Originally posted by: Meetu1982

Hey guys...one thing about Nih really makes me mad. She has such double standards about relationships.

She does not want Dhurv to get close to Arpita and start a relationship with her. Well what about when her husband was ALIVE (Antriksh) and she had a realationship with another man. And then when she left him she married Rudr. Then Rudr was "dead" so why did she carry on her life and marry Shivam. Why did she not live with Rudr's memories only. Rudr was Dhruv's brother so Dhruv could have said no you cannot marry Shivam and you have to keep living as Rudr's widow.

It seems like all the rules are made for everyone but her.

Advice for Nih: Don't point a finger cause you have 3 pointing back at you!

Comment? Questions?

I'm sorry, but I guess u have some misunderstandings there. If u've watched sindoor from the beginning, u must be knowing that Niharika loved Rahul from the start. She married Antariksh just becoz of her paagal sis Vedika. But then Rahul cheated her.

As for Shivam also, if u r a regular follower of the show, u should know in what circumstances she married him. Antariksh was responsible of that.

The only person that Niharika loves is Rudra. The other things that happened in her life were due to unforeseen circumstances from which she could not escape. & so she fell a prey to them!!!

prerna, fair enough she married out of circumstances so did Dhurv. and when she married Shivam nobody forced her to sleep with him which is quite obvious comes with the package of marriage, then why can't Dhruv? if she can "under so called circumstances" marry and sleep and then fall in love with Shivam then under the same "so called circumstances" Dhruv can too.