men can be so cold!

Hey guys..
Thanks to Rashi for the lovely update..I like Dhruv n all but I was really upset yaar..Arpita was so happy and it was the biggest day of her marriage life since Dhruv and her were finally intimate, but than she learns it was all a dream for Dhruv..how upseting is that? Why is it that Arpita can get the status of a wife, however never get accepted as a wife? Same thing in KAA.

Both Dhruv and Shiv were not in their senses and due to intoxication..claiming their "weak moments" they slept with their wives..First making them complete and than claiming it was a "MISTAKE". Do they not understand the power of love, what it means for a wife to feel complete with their spouse? Im just so disappointed how this happens..It seems to be common now in Serials..When a marriage is done due to "majobouri" or certin circumstances and the wife think their husbands are pati parmeshwar and the husbands dont give 2 hoots about the wife..or they do care for their feelings but they do not "Love" them.

I understand the state Dhruv was in..he wasnt in his senses and thought Arpta was Vedika..but does he not understand Arpita's feelings..He gave her the world of happiness and than broke her dream and hit her back to reality. I feel so sorry for her. Even though she knows Vedika is dhruv's first love and he cannot forget about her. She is his current wife and everyone needs some TLC

any coments?

hi

in ans 2 ur quest i will only say that till they dont stop showing couples being made by circumstances we will continually be given thesse types of attitudes

one of z reason y i didnt like arpita n dhruv's wedding was becoz i just knew it wuld be so unfair to her......... if it was me i wuld never tolerate this!!!!!!!!!! i mean dhruv shuld check his mind just becoz he promised to look after arpita he married her but never became averfriendly wiz her!!!! zen wen he realised his mistake he changed his behaviour n arpita being so much in awe of him naturally fall head over heels in love wiz him

in zes circumstances how culd dhruv even think he culd remain still faithful to z memories of his ved wen by rights his soul n body belongs 2 arpita

wat i wuld say is zat everytime in indian serial its always z women who r shown 2 face these dificulties