Happy Freedom Misthi. - Page 2

Lol!

I never said a person should say “your are my whole world”

I said generally people in love behave like they are their world😂😂

Just that word? It may be a simple word for you but for me it’s a very big thing.

All those dates, kisses or the care was something that was common between people who are getting married.

I had an arranged marriage. My partner did some of the things to me. We were not in love when we went on dates.

If on one such date if he said “you are still not a part of my world”

I would be like “thank you, all the best and good bye”

Originally posted by: TandraB

Veer didn't run away, he was angry and guess what? Every couple fights and does not talk for several days. That's normal.

Is it Veer's fault that Mishti wasn't herself with him? Veer in fact tried to encourage her to be herself but she did not listen. What should Veer do?

Angry amd running away when someone is begging unto listen and is clearly sad at what she did is wrong and i dont appreciate that.

Veer never asked he imposed pari said she is stressed so he is like okay mishti handover work ..

Veer was that casual friend who will ask i are u fine and if u say so will be okay ,never try to understand beyond ur words .

So no thankyou will never want girl to marry such guy.

Dont want guy to whom i am entire world but atleast who understand me and not impose decision

Originally posted by: TeluguAmmayi

Lol!

I never said a person should say “your are my whole world”

I said generally people in love behave like they are their world😂😂

Just that word? It may be a simple word for you but for me it’s a very big thing.

All those dates, kisses or the care was something that was common between people who are getting married.

I had an arranged marriage. My partner did some of the things to me. We were not in love when we went on dates.

If on one such date if he said “you are still not a part of my world”

I would be like “thank you, all the best and good bye”

My sis walked out of an arrange marriage recently when her fiance decided on her behalf for something trivial ,she was like he is imposing his decision today on me not sure what he will do tom ,when clearly he knew i didnt want to do that ..

So yeah dont treat women like porcelain dolls for whom u can take decisions

Originally posted by: TandraB

Veer didn't run away, he was angry and guess what? Every couple fights and does not talk for several days. That's normal.

Is it Veer's fault that Mishti wasn't herself with him? Veer in fact tried to encourage her to be herself but she did not listen. What should Veer do?

I can't remember any such scenes can you remind me?

I think I skipped that scene

Originally posted by: swaasp

I can't remember any such scenes can you remind me?

I think I skipped that scene

Yah it all comes down to Misti simply mistook respect and admiration into love. Veer really did loved her but she never did.

Originally posted by: swaasp

I can't remember any such scenes can you remind me?

I think I skipped that scene

Me neither yaar...are we watching a different show here??

Originally posted by: Empress_Boa

Yah it all comes down to Misti simply mistook respect and admiration into love. Veer really did loved her but she never did.

yeah I know that and completely agree with you

but I'm asking her/him about the scene where veer encouraged mishti to be herself with him

Originally posted by: TandraB

People do much worse than that, human beings are flawed. Couples frequently fight and then don't talk for days even if one person is begging to talk. Very common. Often you have to manao your roothe huye piyaji.

And Veer was in a comfort zone with Pari and Ruhaan, so he thought that they wouldn't mind sharing the load. We often 'impose' such decisions on our very close friends and relatives; that's one point of being close to someone that you don't have to be formal with them. It happens that you tell your friends to do something for you and cannot take a no for an answer, and they also do the same to you. You'll understand this only if you have very close friends who are chuddy-buddies and can order each other around.

And Pari and Ruhaan also ddin't protest so he thought it was fine.

It was not like he imposed despite protest. That's not imposing actually, he asked something like friends do and they did not oppose.

He did try to understand Mishti, not his fault that she hid her true self in front of him. He understood that Mishti liked one ring and brought it to her. He also tried to comfort her whenever possible.

The thing is, there is no reason to nitpick Veer and bring up ridiculous reasons like "Oh he said Mishti is not his world" so he's the Devil.

Bold. Exactly! MisHaan are humans as well.

Originally posted by: TandraB

People do much worse than that, human beings are flawed. Couples frequently fight and then don't talk for days even if one person is begging to talk. Very common. Often you have to manao your roothe huye piyaji.

And Veer was in a comfort zone with Pari and Ruhaan, so he thought that they wouldn't mind sharing the load. We often 'impose' such decisions on our very close friends and relatives; that's one point of being close to someone that you don't have to be formal with them. It happens that you tell your friends to do something for you and cannot take a no for an answer, and they also do the same to you. You'll understand this only if you have very close friends who are chuddy-buddies and can order each other around.

And Pari and Ruhaan also ddin't protest so he thought it was fine.

It was not like he imposed despite protest. That's not imposing actually, he asked something like friends do and they did not oppose.

He did try to understand Mishti, not his fault that she hid her true self in front of him. He understood that Mishti liked one ring and brought it to her. He also tried to comfort her whenever possible.

The thing is, there is no reason to nitpick Veer and bring up ridiculous reasons like "Oh he said Mishti is not his world" so he's the Devil.

So dont nitpick Veer but nitpick Mishti ..

Even if u ask ur friends u need to ask one whom ur imposing decision on ,dont assume and he assumed.Nope chudi buddoes also respect u and can read u well ,they know when ur no is actual no or when a playful no .

Oh u have to manao and all but u clearly dont walk away when someone is vulnerable and begging u .And say i dont know this part of u ,if u couldnt accept that part tom u might not accept another worse part.

So what is wrong if mishti realized she isnt herself with him and chose to breakup ?So clearly she was supposed to be in relationship and keep adjusting because couples are supposed to do that .

Originally posted by: TandraB

Bold: EXACTLY. Your sister told her fiance she didnt want that, but he didn't listen. In Mishti's case, she never told Veer that she's not happy. Understand the difference?

I said he knew not that she told him .In veer case he never even tried to know where did he ask her that are u comfortable he just imposed so nope no difference