I KNEW IT BEFORE........ - Page 5

Originally posted by: mili9

Good morning girls !!

To me, it really doesn't matter when she knew it. As a loved one, even if she knew it at the very last moment, she should alert her sister. Mishti is not a neighbor that she can wait along on the sidelines, to see how everything will pan out. Sab sahi se chal raha, toh, I knew they were always perfect. Agar sahi nahin chal raha, toh, I knew this was going to happen is not going to cut it for me👎🏼

But, my friends, Sweetz and SSSS have put their view point, which I can relate to- that she had idolized Mishti and therefore, she can never be wrong and therefore, even if she felt it, she decided to twiddle her thumbs. I can twist myself to see this point of view. I don't like it😔, but I surely can see this as a possibility.

As far as Mishti and Ruhaan's supposed lack of "concern", my friends, dil par bhoj mat lena. If you look at the situation, cut and dried, all we see is that Ruhaan, Mishti just had a moment in the car. Mishti was agonizing, but at the same time relieved and she expressed it, and they had that silent moment of understanding. I loved it, there were no words, you know the kinds of O2 and others I don't want to remember now💔Similarly, she walks into the house, she feels liberated and has a spring in her step and he watches his jaan being happy. They just stole a smile. Again, that was a moment she shared with her daadi and sister and they notice a stark difference. The writer decided to highlight that happiness, I believe and so gave a 3 min sequence. But I can very clearly see the underlying angst through all of this. I didn't see anything, not one thing in this sequence that was derogatory or disrespectful to Veer or his pain, unlike the insensitivity of last season, even at times by Mauli💔.

@bold I too can sense the same that could be the reason how it has not made me feel that Mishaan are insensitive. And also I feel it's Mishti's character growth too. Mishti before having this realization of love and how she is not required to be perfect for being loved by people around her could have been scared to let herself smile after she break up with Veer.. She could have been very harsh on herself by judging herself and thinking how wrong she is and it will be even more wrong if she feels better after breakup .. But the Mishti now is like she knows that she has someone who won't judge her she can let herself smile for a moment with him when she is in that hard times too.. she knows that she can let herself feel that she is freed from what it has been suffocating her since long.. even though this feeling of being freed herself might be giving a feeling that she is hurting Veer...She is able to differentiate ,she can be empathetic for Veer but at the same time she can feel happy for herself too...

She subconsciously knows that she did good for Veer too, which Ruhaan assured her and thats why she isn't that much guilt..

I love it how Mishti and Ruhaan don't regret their love . If they regretted it even for a moment it could have been made it hard for me to connect with them as Mishaan.

Originally posted by: .SSSS.

@bold I too can sense the same that could be the reason how it has not made me feel that Mishaan are insensitive. And also I feel it's Mishti's charter growth too. Mishti before having this realization of love and how she is not required to be perfect for being loved by people around her could have been scared to let herself smile after she break up with Veer.. She could have been very harsh on herself by judging herself and thinking how wrong she is and it will be even more wrong if she feels better after breakup .. But the Mishti now is like she knows that she has someone who won't judge her she can let herself smile for a moment with him when she is in that hard times too.. she knows that she can let herself feel that she is freed from what it has been suffocating her since long.. even though this feeling of being freed herself might be giving a feeling that she is hurting Veer...She is able to differentiate ,she can be empathetic for Veer but at the same time she can feel happy for herself too...

She subconsciously knows that she did good for Veer too, which Ruhaan assured her and that why she isn't that much guilt..

I love it how Mishti and Ruhaan don't regret their love . If they regretted it even for a moment it could have been made it hard for me to connect with them as Mishaan.

Goodness SSSS!🤗I can give you a great big hug for saying this. This is hitting too close to home for me. I have been trying not to say this and drag real life scenarios and bore the hell out of all of you people. I am very familiar with this emotion, that you and Arfanazneen have so eloquently put forth, that it is very normal to feel relieved even in the face of your life's ultimate adversity, even for a brief moment when you made a decision with a finality. I am going to share here and I promise never again to bore you people. For me, if I can't relate something to real life, then I can't empathize

I get faced with this situation probably 3-4 times an year. Not sure how many of you have to deal with end of life issues in your professional lives. I do. Sometimes family members need that "permission" to let go of their loved one, when they carry a lot of guilt on " pulling the plug" so to speak on a loved one, when care is futile. They need to hear out from a third party in a non-judgemental tone that whatever they are doing is in the best interest of their loved one. Often times, I arrive the next day after they made that decision to find them sleeping peacefully in their loved one's room. Why? Are they not sad that they are letting their loved one go? Of course, they are. They have carried this weight with them for so long, they let go of that weight finally, after they contemplated about it enough and they got reassured that they are not being " selfish" in letting go of their loved one, and they relax for a few hours. It is a HUGE relief that happens. No doubt, they have all their doubts when they wake up again and reality strikes them. They turn to us for support. When I first came to this country, this concept was so alien to me and I was quite judgemental while I was in my training. Now, I know better, I can't judge them, they have lived through their agony and still living through it and my role is supportive in making the best decision at that moment. No more lectures from my side, but wanted to share how complex these situations can be, how many emotions are at play😳.

I find Mishti, Ruhaan's situation to be somewhat akin to this. I was able to completely understand, relate and feel bad for them. But again, as I say often, interpretations are based on our real life experiences too. It is a fictional show, but I am glad that the show is making us all discuss these finer, complexities of life.

Arfanazneen, you made perfect sense, my friend👍🏼

Originally posted by: TandraB

My feelings are quite converse. No comment on Pari, but both Mishti and Ruhaan's behaviors disgusted me to the core.

No basic, minimum HUMANITY towards the guy they were once friends with and engaged to. He's crying in a corner with his whole world shattered, and here the two lovebirds are coochie-cooing away in their heaven, without a thought to the poor guy whose tears they caused. 🤢

Mishti, as I see her, is a hardcore narcissist and self-centered woman. Even after breaking Veer's heart, she was concerned about what would other people think of her ("Main bohot buri hoon, Ruhaan..?"). Her only concern is her image, duniya jaye bhaad mein. 🐷

Is she concerned with the well-being of the guy whose world she destroyed? No. Does she feel even a little bit guilty, outside of those two-minute "Kya main buri hoon Ruhaan?" dialogues with pouty lips. I felt like slapping her across the face when she did that naatak. 😡

Ruhaan, well...the less said about him the better. Him and Nandini are a scourge on the name of friendship.

Main bahut buri hoon and humne bahut koshish ki😡

Main bahut buri hoon was said by Mishti as she really felt for a moment for hurting Veer... Mishti has not tried to justify herself by saying humne bahuth koshish ki like someone .... I wonder how these two dialogues can be mentioned on same page😕🤡

Originally posted by: mili9

Goodness SSSS!🤗I can give you a great big hug for saying this. This is hitting too close to home for me. I have been trying not to say this and drag real life scenarios and bore the hell out of all of you people. I am very familiar with this emotion, that you and Arfanazneen have so eloquently put forth, that it is very normal to feel relieved even in the face of your life's ultimate adversity, even for a brief moment when you made a decision with a finality. I am going to share here and I promise never again to bore you people. For me, if I can't relate something to real life, then I can't empathize

I get faced with this situation probably 3-4 times an year. Not sure how many of you have to deal with end of life issues in your professional lives. I do. Sometimes family members need that "permission" to let go of their loved one, when they carry a lot of guilt on " pulling the plug" so to speak on a loved one, when care is futile. They need to hear out from a third party in a non-judgemental tone that whatever they are doing is in the best interest of their loved one. Often times, I arrive the next day after they made that decision to find them sleeping peacefully in their loved one's room. Why? Are they not sad that they are letting their loved one go? Of course, they are. They have carried this weight with them for so long, they let go of that weight finally, after they contemplated about it enough and they got reassured that they are not being " selfish" in letting go of their loved one, and they relax for a few hours. It is a HUGE relief that happens. No doubt, they have all their doubts when they wake up again and reality strikes them. They turn to us for support. When I first came to this country, this concept was so alien to me and I was quite judgemental while I was in my training. Now, I know better, I can't judge them, they have lived through their agony and still living through it and my role is supportive in making the best decision at that moment. No more lectures from my side, but wanted to share how complex these situations can be, how many emotions are at play😳.

I find Mishti, Ruhaan's situation to be somewhat akin to this. I was able to completely understand, relate and feel bad for them. But again, as I say often, interpretations are based on our real life experiences too. It is a fictional show, but I am glad that the show is making us all discuss these finer, complexities of life.

Arfanazneen, you made perfect sense, my friend👍🏼

.Mili ❤️SSS😃.👏👏👏

Free up Most Tense😛. Those few mins of Mishti Ruhaan having With Their Family is Quite Relief on Overall Epi😛also there is more to come there way to face🥺Just few moments relax Doesn't make them arrest oblivious towards wats going on😕.. Picking up next Storm on the way in slow pace😛😃.sorry if I don't make any sense 😆😛just jump in this Convo ❤️which I loved .

Have a Good Day/Time 😃❤️

🤗🤗

Originally posted by: vinnas

How Heart Warming 🤗To Pour Out Such Immense Touch of Realities😛Be it's a Fiction Show and have It's Limits😳There is Various interpretations run on Same Situations one Relates to their Be Experiences or Own Justifications😛Love to Read and Possible to Learn is 😳👍🏼my Lil habit 😛

.Mili ❤️SSS😃.👏👏👏

Free up Most Tense😛. Those few mins of Mishti Ruhaan having With Their Family is Quite Relief on Overall Epi😛also there is more to come there way to face🥺Just few moments relax Doesn't make them arrest oblivious towards wats going on😕.. Picking up next Storm on the way in slow pace😛😃.sorry if I don't make any sense 😆😛just jump in this Convo ❤️which I loved .

Have a Good Day/Time 😃❤️

🤗🤗

Vinnas🤗

@bold They are not oblivion of the obvious and they are aware that those few moments they had is calm before storm. But it's fine they together are very strong that they looked like they could deal with anything and can make things right around them. Ruhaan when he was thinking to leave .. was in dilemma like how can be it even explained to Veer what's between him and Mishti and all but once he listened from Mishti that her feelings for him are as deep as his if not more then he stayed back. Now Ruhaan is assuring Mishti that Veer can understand their love.. I mean how contrast his thinking before Mishti confession and after confession and in same way Mishti too is like she can handle everything if Ruhaan is with her.. They don't regret loving each other. Infact it's their strong belief that their love is true and reality of their life is what it is driving them to be daring enough to think that they will go and inform to Veer about their love and take the accountability if this situation is hurting him.. They have not choosen to cheat behind Veer's back.. they have not choosen or thinking to run away from family ... They feel they haven't done wrong by falling in love with each other so they can deal with whatever consequences are there.

I usually root for a character in any other shows but this is for the first time that I am rooting for the sentiment of love between leads.❤️

Originally posted by: mili9

Goodness SSSS!🤗I can give you a great big hug for saying this. This is hitting too close to home for me. I have been trying not to say this and drag real life scenarios and bore the hell out of all of you people. I am very familiar with this emotion, that you and Arfanazneen have so eloquently put forth, that it is very normal to feel relieved even in the face of your life's ultimate adversity, even for a brief moment when you made a decision with a finality. I am going to share here and I promise never again to bore you people. For me, if I can't relate something to real life, then I can't empathize

I get faced with this situation probably 3-4 times an year. Not sure how many of you have to deal with end of life issues in your professional lives. I do. Sometimes family members need that "permission" to let go of their loved one, when they carry a lot of guilt on " pulling the plug" so to speak on a loved one, when care is futile. They need to hear out from a third party in a non-judgemental tone that whatever they are doing is in the best interest of their loved one. Often times, I arrive the next day after they made that decision to find them sleeping peacefully in their loved one's room. Why? Are they not sad that they are letting their loved one go? Of course, they are. They have carried this weight with them for so long, they let go of that weight finally, after they contemplated about it enough and they got reassured that they are not being " selfish" in letting go of their loved one, and they relax for a few hours. It is a HUGE relief that happens. No doubt, they have all their doubts when they wake up again and reality strikes them. They turn to us for support. When I first came to this country, this concept was so alien to me and I was quite judgemental while I was in my training. Now, I know better, I can't judge them, they have lived through their agony and still living through it and my role is supportive in making the best decision at that moment. No more lectures from my side, but wanted to share how complex these situations can be, how many emotions are at play😳.

I find Mishti, Ruhaan's situation to be somewhat akin to this. I was able to completely understand, relate and feel bad for them. But again, as I say often, interpretations are based on our real life experiences too. It is a fictional show, but I am glad that the show is making us all discuss these finer, complexities of life.

Arfanazneen, you made perfect sense, my friend👍🏼

I also tend to relate things to what happens with me Mili. That is the reason I understand this particular situation very well..

About your profession, if you don't mind me asking you. Are u a doc?

Originally posted by: .SSSS.

Main bahut buri hoon was said by Mishti as she really felt for a moment for hurting Veer... Mishti has not tried to justify herself by saying humne bahuth koshish ki like someone .... I wonder how these two dialogues can be mentioned on same page😕🤡

Well! I guess it's called trying to mix & match when it's not even related 🤷

Originally posted by: mili9

Goodness SSSS!🤗I can give you a great big hug for saying this. This is hitting too close to home for me. I have been trying not to say this and drag real life scenarios and bore the hell out of all of you people. I am very familiar with this emotion, that you and Arfanazneen have so eloquently put forth, that it is very normal to feel relieved even in the face of your life's ultimate adversity, even for a brief moment when you made a decision with a finality. I am going to share here and I promise never again to bore you people. For me, if I can't relate something to real life, then I can't empathize

I get faced with this situation probably 3-4 times an year. Not sure how many of you have to deal with end of life issues in your professional lives. I do. Sometimes family members need that "permission" to let go of their loved one, when they carry a lot of guilt on " pulling the plug" so to speak on a loved one, when care is futile. They need to hear out from a third party in a non-judgemental tone that whatever they are doing is in the best interest of their loved one. Often times, I arrive the next day after they made that decision to find them sleeping peacefully in their loved one's room. Why? Are they not sad that they are letting their loved one go? Of course, they are. They have carried this weight with them for so long, they let go of that weight finally, after they contemplated about it enough and they got reassured that they are not being " selfish" in letting go of their loved one, and they relax for a few hours. It is a HUGE relief that happens. No doubt, they have all their doubts when they wake up again and reality strikes them. They turn to us for support. When I first came to this country, this concept was so alien to me and I was quite judgemental while I was in my training. Now, I know better, I can't judge them, they have lived through their agony and still living through it and my role is supportive in making the best decision at that moment. No more lectures from my side, but wanted to share how complex these situations can be, how many emotions are at play😳.

I find Mishti, Ruhaan's situation to be somewhat akin to this. I was able to completely understand, relate and feel bad for them. But again, as I say often, interpretations are based on our real life experiences too. It is a fictional show, but I am glad that the show is making us all discuss these finer, complexities of life.

Arfanazneen, you made perfect sense, my friend👍🏼

@ Bold That's really a very big role🤗Much love and strength to you.. Leave about family members I often feel doctors themselves might be going through a lot when they have to do this as a part of their job.. How hard it could be even though when you know that's what the best thing can be done.And then you just have to do that while dealing with family members around and dealing with their emotions too...Thanks for sharing. I really can imagine the situation that they might be relieved for a moment with an underlying agony...

Originally posted by: .SSSS.

Vinnas🤗

@bold They are not oblivion of the obvious and they are aware that those few moments they had is calm before storm. -its Sensitivity 😳

But. Ruhaan when he was thinking to leave .. was in dilemma like how can be it even explained to Veer what's between him and Mishti and all but once he listened from Mishti that her feelings for him are as deep as his if not more then he stayed back now Ruhaan is assuring Mishti that Veer can understand their love.. -which made him Stand 😃stay For Her ❤️

I mean how contrast his thinking before Mishti confession and after confession and in same way Mishti too is like she can handle everything if Ruhaan is with her.. They don't regret loving each other. (-She felt much needed Confidence of Her Self Her Own Feelings Falling In Right Place 👍🏼😃)

Infact it's their strong belief that their love is true and reality of their life is what it is driving them to be daring enough to think that they will go and inform to Veer about their love and take the accountability if this situation is hurting him..

They Ready for it to face 👍🏼

They have not choosen to cheat behind Veer's back.. they have not choosen or thinking to run away from family ... They feel they haven't done wrong by falling in love with each other so they can deal with whatever consequences are there.

(Conclusion of Their Starting Love Journey /Testing Phase 👍🏼😃Much Needed 😃)

I usually root for a character in any other shows but this is for the first time that I am rooting for the sentiment of love between leads.❤️ -Its So Beautiful Pov 😳❤️Sentiment of Love Between Them ❤️😛