I KNEW IT BEFORE........ - Page 3

Originally posted by: pranurosid

I think Gulit is measured in the quantity of tears..If she cries for entire 2 days then she might be free of guilt and can move on to other works

Yeah if Mishti filled a bucket then she's thoda thoda guilty.... If two then....well, thik hai..per maza ni aaya....if three then...hmmm bus itna sa...isse Jada to Sharma ji ki biwi roi thi....this can keep going on n on.....but Mishti will be inhuman only

@milli nice post .. I quite felt that Pari as a character is growing. I suppose the reason why she never told that even though she had a feel that Mishti adjusting herself and changing herself for Veer was not correct, Pari herself was adjusting and trying to be nice with everyone in her own family. Like she wasn't confident to let herself have that feel of Mishti changing herself is not correct she was like Mishti is doing so it's perfect. This is only correct. She might always be feeling that Mishti is not normal but then again she will convince herself like it's Mishti so nothing that she can't handle so Mishti might be just having pre wedding jitters and all. But now Pari' is feeling confidence in herself she realized in being herself and she is doing well professionally too which increased her confidence much more and made her believe in whatever she felt like Mishti changing for Veer is not correct.. Mishti not being normal might be something else not just pre wedding jitters... I am kind of ok with her only thing is her over enthusiasm that annoys me like you said how she is going and all that conversation with Ruhaan...

Veer and one can of beer didn't let me feel anything for him either. May be that's what CV's intention too. Not showing any deapth there. May be Mishti not feeling much guilt about hurting Veer too could be cause she knows that there is no deapth in her relationship with Veer like she knows that the deapth of Ruhaan's love where she feels that he couldn't live without her and all. If for any reason she has to leave Ruhaan then she will be effected most thinking as she knows that how it will effect Ruhaan

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Originally posted by: sheen97

Nice post milli thank you so much for this, i was really was doubting myself that am i the only one who didnt feel mishti was insensitive rather i felt everyone' s reaction was justified. Some.here have complain that how can mishti not think of veer how he must be feeling, but i feel isnt it basic human instinct. Mishti gave way too much in a relationship so much so that she ended up loosing her individuality and now finally today she got it back. So she will be relieved, happy that doesnt mean she doesnt care for veer for if she didnt she would have blamed veer for breakup also. But she took all the responsiblity. And Ruhaan how much he loves her, he always dreamt of taking away all his pain and now it is fulfilled bcz no matter what at the end of the day he will have to bear the brunt of everything. And the precap , this guy makes me fall in love with him again and again a true example.for empowering life partner. I want to become your love and your strenght. This guy was truely what mishti needed . He balances her.

One thing is ahead is surely going to be tough for them bcz when everyone will know about them my gut feeling radhika will instantly compare them with kunan and this will terribly break mishti bcz she never even thought of hurting and cheating veer and she will be compared to biggest cheater whom she hated most. Surely ahead they have lot to fight for.

Sheen, I don't see any insensitivity. Like Poiu said in her post in this thread, everybody reacts, digests and processes their problems differently.

I can only talk about myself. Let us say, I had to make a very difficult decision ( and I have to, many times in an academic year ), once I am extremely clear in my mind about a course of action I have to take, after double checking, triple checking it, say I have executed it. I do it with a very heavy heart, but I also know that being soft doesn't help anybody or any cause. It is not like I don't feel bad for the other party, but when the action is still very fresh, of course there will be a conflict with my subconscious mind- did I just ruin somebody's future? But once I have taken the action, by God, daba dhungi uss subconscious thought ko, till such time, that the whole incident is processed into the realm of every day activities and life. I can't let my subconscious take the side of the other party at that moment. This is my mind's precious coping mechanism. But once everything cools off, I might reach out to find out how they are doing and if they need help etc...

I don't know if I made much sense, but this is how I deal with what I have to deal with in my life.

Yes, I am feeling an almost a sense of doom when I think about what Ruhaan will have to face. His status of being an orphan will be on the forefront, and all the ehsaans they have showered on an orphan which NO ORPHAN IS ENTITLED😭 TO will be brought up and dragged in mud, he will be blamed by not only the friend and family but also by Radhika of biting the hand that fed him😭. He also will have to be Mishti's pillar of support and ensure her emotional well being. He will be blamed for everything under the sun. He will not only have to bear with all the insults that will be hurled his away but will be agonizing for every tear that girl sheds through the process. It is not easy to be Ruhaan at the moment🤗The guy deserves a group hug.

As far as what is ahead for both of them, they have a long, convoluted battle ahead of them. First, Veer ka peecha chutna hain, then they need to prevent Pari growing roots on Ruhaan👎🏼( I need a emoji for emesis ) and then extricate Ansh from likely Taani mess. Unless, the Taani mess is to test sissy's so called best-friendship with Arnav.

Originally posted by: arfanazneen

I was waiting for your post today Mili.

As usual, you said it all...I totally agree with you..

I like to read alot but, I can't express very nicely like you do.

I think, I can really take a lesson or two from you 😁

You are the best ❤️

When Ruhaan & Mishti came back home, he didn't even acknowledge pari & left. When pari came to her, she wasn't letting him speak 🤦🤷 How can she not understand this? 🤷

Taani ka toh, I always skip. Not interested in her stupidity...

Thank you girls, Arfanazneen, Vartika and of course, my Chandu, you are flattering me too much 😳

Of course, you can express very well. Look at what you wrote up here. One advice I would have, not to bore the other members, is use the anonymity this forum affords to express yourself. Aakhir kya ho sakta hain, if people don't like what you are saying, we think you are a nutcase or an extremely intelligent person who is in a different league than us. Kya farak padta hain, whatever people think. Thoughts bahut sharp ho jaate hain, articulation easy ho jaata hain, once there is clarity.

But as far as Pari is concerned, I agree with both you and Vartika. I don't sympathize with people who create their own storms and cry when it rains on them. She is not an adolescent to not know what is going on around her. She is a young woman living in a metropolis, I am sure she had to deal with all sorts of people in her life, college, work etc. Itna innocent nahin lagti hain. Just that she is dazzled by Ruhaan and closed her eyes and is refusing to open them.

I don't want Ruhaan to be blamed in the end for this nonsense also. I don't see one, not even one incident where I can say, he shouldn't have done this or that to lead her on. Vartika, I like how you recounted minute to minute, Ruhaan's actions upon his return. True, he didn't care to stay back as requested after a scary incident. He didn't even acknowledge her as he came in with Mishti, he only had eyes for his beloved. If anybody dares to blame him for Pari's stupidity, in the show, woh toh gayein in my writings😡

Originally posted by: mili9

Thank you girls, Arfanazneen, Vartika and of course, my Chandu, you are flattering me too much 😳

Of course, you can express very well. Look at what you wrote up here. One advice I would have, not to bore the other members, is use the anonymity this forum affords to express yourself. Aakhir kya ho sakta hain, if people don't like what you are saying, we think you are a nutcase or an extremely intelligent person who is in a different league than us. Kya farak padta hain, whatever people think. Thoughts bahut sharp ho jaate hain, articulation easy ho jaata hain, once there is clarity.

But as far as Pari is concerned, I agree with both you and Vartika. I don't sympathize with people who create their own storms and cry when it rains on them. She is not an adolescent to not know what is going on around her. She is a young woman living in a metropolis, I am sure she had to deal with all sorts of people in her life, college, work etc. Itna innocent nahin lagti hain. Just that she is dazzled by Ruhaan and closed her eyes and is refusing to open them.

I don't want Ruhaan to be blamed in the end for this nonsense also. I don't see one, not even one incident where I can say, he shouldn't have done this or that to lead her on. Vartika, I like how you recounted minute to minute, Ruhaan's actions upon his return. True, he didn't care to stay back as requested after a scary incident. He didn't even acknowledge her as he came in with Mishti, he only had eyes for his beloved. If anybody dares to blame him for Pari's stupidity, in the show, woh toh gayein in my writings😡

Same here

Originally posted by: Porkalai2892

Would like to say one thing.

Pari was keep praising ruhaan and happy for mishti too. Okay I get that. And she was damn happy knowing now mishti and ruhaan is friends. (well we know the reason of her happiness) and she again rechecked asking everything between you and ruhaan is permanent or not. Well till now I was little confused about her characterization. But I guess now no more confusion. Other than mishaan I didn't connected with anyone in this show. And arnav is a sweetheart for me lol. About veer, is he perfect? I don't think so. Is he really gem? If yes then put him in museum.

this line epic 👏🤣

Originally posted by: mili9

Sheen, I don't see any insensitivity. Like Poiu said in her post in this thread, everybody reacts, digests and processes their problems differently.

I can only talk about myself. Let us say, I had to make a very difficult decision ( and I have to, many times in an academic year ), once I am extremely clear in my mind about a course of action I have to take, after double checking, triple checking it, say I have executed it. I do it with a very heavy heart, but I also know that being soft doesn't help anybody or any cause. It is not like I don't feel bad for the other party, but when the action is still very fresh, of course there will be a conflict with my subconscious mind- did I just ruin somebody's future? But once I have taken the action, by God, daba dhungi uss subconscious thought ko, till such time, that the whole incident is processed into the realm of every day activities and life. I can't let my subconscious take the side of the other party at that moment. This is my mind's precious coping mechanism. But once everything cools off, I might reach out to find out how they are doing and if they need help etc...

I don't know if I made much sense, but this is how I deal with what I have to deal with in my life.

Yes, I am feeling an almost a sense of doom when I think about what Ruhaan will have to face. His status of being an orphan will be on the forefront, and all the ehsaans they have showered on an orphan which NO ORPHAN IS ENTITLED😭 TO will be brought up and dragged in mud, he will be blamed by not only the friend and family but also by Radhika of biting the hand that fed him😭. He also will have to be Mishti's pillar of support and ensure her emotional well being. He will be blamed for everything under the sun. He will not only have to bear with all the insults that will be hurled his away but will be agonizing for every tear that girl sheds through the process. It is not easy to be Ruhaan at the moment🤗The guy deserves a group hug.

As far as what is ahead for both of them, they have a long, convoluted battle ahead of them. First, Veer ka peecha chutna hain, then they need to prevent Pari growing roots on Ruhaan👎🏼( I need a emoji for emesis ) and then extricate Ansh from likely Taani mess. Unless, the Taani mess is to test sissy's so called best-friendship with Arnav.

Whatever you've said is so true.. Ruhaan is going to face all those things😭😭

Like you said, TIGHT HUGS for Ruhaan...❤️💓

Originally posted by: .SSSS.

@milli nice post .. I quite felt that Pari as a character is growing. I suppose the reason why she never told that even though she had a feel that Mishti adjusting herself and changing herself for Veer was not correct, Pari herself was adjusting and trying to be nice with everyone in her own family. Like she wasn't confident to let herself have that feel of Mishti changing herself is not correct she was like Mishti is doing so it's perfect. This is only correct. She might always be feeling that Mishti is not normal but then again she will convince herself like it's Mishti so nothing that she can't handle so Mishti might be just having pre wedding jitters and all. But now Pari' is feeling confidence in herself she realized in being herself and she is doing well professionally too which increased her confidence much more and made her believe in whatever she felt like Mishti changing for Veer is not correct.. Mishti not being normal might be something else not just pre wedding jitters... I am kind of ok with her only thing is her over enthusiasm that annoys me like you said how she is going and all that conversation with Ruhaan...

Veer and one can of beer didn't let me feel anything for him either. May be that's what CV's intention too. Not showing any deapth there. May be Mishti not feeling much guilt about hurting Veer too could be cause she knows that there is no deapth in her relationship with Veer like she knows that the deapth of Ruhaan's love where she feels that he couldn't live without her and all. If for any reason she has to leave Ruhaan then she will be effected most thinking as she knows that how it will effect Ruhaan

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Sweetz and you expressed the same sentiment about Pari. Respect your opinions. Where Pari is concerned, I have no soft corners about her. The actress and the character irritate me. I don't see her as an innocent Pari. The always weeping, crying, attention seeking grates on my nerves.

As far as whether her mother's non-acceptance in the household had any bearing or not, I am not sure, in terms of her confidence. It is not like Mishti's life is well settled and Kosher either. She had to grow up fast as well and take over the running of the household.

I always hate the " I knew it always " kind of utterances, while they are sitting and twiddling their thumbs as their loved one is making an utter fool of herself. What difference does it make whether they knew it or not, if they didn't act on "what they know"? I felt like she took too much credit than she deserved as she was blabbering away with Ruhaan.

So, I will leave this at that......

Originally posted by: mili9

Thank you girls, Arfanazneen, Vartika and of course, my Chandu, you are flattering me too much 😳

Of course, you can express very well. Look at what you wrote up here. One advice I would have, not to bore the other members, is use the anonymity this forum affords to express yourself. Aakhir kya ho sakta hain, if people don't like what you are saying, we think you are a nutcase or an extremely intelligent person who is in a different league than us. Kya farak padta hain, whatever people think. Thoughts bahut sharp ho jaate hain, articulation easy ho jaata hain, once there is clarity.

But as far as Pari is concerned, I agree with both you and Vartika. I don't sympathize with people who create their own storms and cry when it rains on them. She is not an adolescent to not know what is going on around her. She is a young woman living in a metropolis, I am sure she had to deal with all sorts of people in her life, college, work etc. Itna innocent nahin lagti hain. Just that she is dazzled by Ruhaan and closed her eyes and is refusing to open them.

I don't want Ruhaan to be blamed in the end for this nonsense also. I don't see one, not even one incident where I can say, he shouldn't have done this or that to lead her on. Vartika, I like how you recounted minute to minute, Ruhaan's actions upon his return. True, he didn't care to stay back as requested after a scary incident. He didn't even acknowledge her as he came in with Mishti, he only had eyes for his beloved. If anybody dares to blame him for Pari's stupidity, in the show, woh toh gayein in my writings😡

Thank you for saying that I can express 😁😁

Like you said, Ruhaan never ever lead her on. He didn't wait for her when she asked. He only answers what she asks mostly. Some of the times he has given her some advice. Also, doesn't pari remember, on holi he asks her to go & confess her love to whoever she loves. Agar, Ruhaan thoda bhi like karta tumko toh, why would he encourage you..🤦🤦

Also, I am with you if someone blames him for Pari's stupidity. I am also going to give it verbally. .

Originally posted by: poiu123

Every one reacts in a different way. I saw Mishti being so relieved that her burden is lifted. It was kind of funny Pari took the whole credit for it. And yes beer can was out of place. It has hardly any alcohol. Whisky to Banta tha.

Waise kitna guilty feel Karna chahiye tha Mishti ko . Mishti ki inhumanity and personality is measured by how she behaves with Veer? Kyun bhai. Veer is the only person in the world Kya. Is me inhuman Kya hai. Itna hurt to Veer nahi Dikha mujhe. His ego is more hurt.

poiu1235/10/2019 5:03:21 PM

Poiu, my friend !!! Always on point👍🏼 This is IT.