Indecisiveness

This is not to discuss where Mishti is right or wrong. I'm just stating how she is similar to Mauli in this. Just like Mauli who was indecisive between Kunal and Ishaan. Mauli rushed into marriage initially, just bcoz Kunal came back and there was a point when she was inclined towards Kunal, dreamt about him, when clearly she was committed to Ishaan. Then all this Santa drama thing happened, Mauli was clear, then again ML drama pulled her. Exactly, same thing is happening with Mishti. She rushed into marriage with Veer bcoz she knows she can't handle the heartbreak, inclined towards Ruhaan bcoz he clearly had the love she might need. Now she's indecisive.

Two differences : Mauli was more honest than Mishti. She would almost say everything to Ishaan except for her dreams part and that she's getting inclined to Kunal again. And second difference was that Ishaan understood mauli that she's getting attached to Kunal once again and he was ready to sacrifice his love for her .He didn't let her handle indecisiveness and the associated pain.

Now, I don't find Mishti wrong or Ruhaan wrong. You cannot expect them to go and tell veer that they want to cancel the wedding. That will be so harsh on their part. At the same time, they shouldn't delay it too much. Inbetween all this, both Mishti and Ruhaan need to overcome their guilt, their indecisiveness,etc .Taking time is okay, you'll be confused. Even Mauli was confused, Kunal felt confused. When people who were older than them felt confusions, nothing wrong in young people getting confused and indecisive. But that time shouldn't be too much .

So, I'm going to wait for a week to see improvement. Of course, I'm disappointed with the way the track is handled right from jungle track. But I'm not going to let my disappointment take over my opinions. I'm going to wait for a week before pointing fingers at people.

My point exactly. I am not trying to justify anyone. Just saying my pov.

People can be indecisive. Obviously, they need some time to sort out the things.

To be frank, I didn't find Ruhaan wrong. He can also be confused. He was very sorted till now. Now, he is being indecisive. So, we need to wait atleast for sometime.

Thoughtful post 😃 Yeah ppl tend to confuse when reality hits them or whenever they are bound to take imp decisions. I hope both MisHaan crosses this phase maturely and deal things in a better way rather than taking it to a saturation point.

I'm looking forward to watch how they will confront Veer and tell him the truth

Wow....dunno what to say....you made me completely speechless. First of all kudos👏👏 this is an amazing post.

I think I speak for everyone when I say that no one is happy with the current track. I'm not liking Ruhaan's behavior to be honest....but he'll come around soon, that much is clear. I agree k halwa ni h k just Mishti ja k bol de k mujhe shadi ni karni. Of course she'll take time.... Anyone will. And I don't think that Mishti is taking Veer as her back up plan as many people believe here. And why would she need back up, for that matter? She's self depended and doesn't need anyone to support her. Yes she's taking time but I have full faith in her. I have full faith in Ruhaan too, for that matter, I mean, sure, I'm mad at him but he'll make amends😊😊

Originally posted by: sreelovesindia

This is not to discuss where Mishti is right or wrong. I'm just stating how she is similar to Mauli in this. Just like Mauli who was indecisive between Kunal and Ishaan. Mauli rushed into marriage initially, just bcoz Kunal came back and there was a point when she was inclined towards Kunal, dreamt about him, when clearly she was committed to Ishaan. Then all this Santa drama thing happened, Mauli was clear, then again ML drama pulled her. Exactly, same thing is happening with Mishti. She rushed into marriage with Veer bcoz she knows she can't handle the heartbreak, inclined towards Ruhaan bcoz he clearly had the love she might need. Now she's indecisive.

Two differences : Mauli was more honest than Mishti. She would almost say everything to Ishaan except for her dreams part and that she's getting inclined to Kunal again. And second difference was that Ishaan understood mauli that she's getting attached to Kunal once again and he was ready to sacrifice his love for her .He didn't let her handle indecisiveness and the associated pain.

Now, I don't find Mishti wrong or Ruhaan wrong. You cannot expect them to go and tell veer that they want to cancel the wedding. That will be so harsh on their part. At the same time, they shouldn't delay it too much. Inbetween all this, both Mishti and Ruhaan need to overcome their guilt, their indecisiveness,etc .Taking time is okay, you'll be confused. Even Mauli was confused, Kunal felt confused. When people who were older than them felt confusions, nothing wrong in young people getting confused and indecisive. But that time shouldn't be too much .

So, I'm going to wait for a week to see improvement. Of course, I'm disappointed with the way the track is handled right from jungle track. But I'm not going to let my disappointment take over my opinions. I'm going to wait for a week before pointing fingers at people.

Thank you for this wonderful post..

As many expecting here, I badly want Misthi to tell the truth to Veer asap, she can handle the other things later... At this phase whatever she feels for or do it will be bad as still Veer is not aware of these and he is the first person should know this I mean even before she confesses to Ruhan and her family... I too still trust her that she will clear everything soon...

You forgot the most important difference. Mauli never said I love you to Ishaan. She was never physically intimate with Ishaan. Whether you want to acknowledge or ignore it , fact is Mishti has confesses to Veer that she loves him. She may say now that she was mistaken but to Veer she has said I love you and several times. They have been phisycally intimate as well. All these things weren’t there with Mauli.

And please they don’t want to tell Veer as they don’t want to be harsh. Please give me break. Mishti is already being harsh with him by ignoring Veer , by acting repulsed at his touch , by being kissed by his best friend behind his back. All this is already harsh on him. They can be harsh behind his back but on his face . It makes them cowards nothing else.

Whether ruhaan love each other or not, mishti knows she doesn’t love veer since Bday episode. What is she waiting for now? Keeping him in loop till sorting out with ruhaan looks like veer is a back up plan. She is financially stable but she dreamt of that perfect life which veer fitted in.

As of Ruhan, he is gonna be butchered whatever way. If he doesn’t go, it will look like 2 minutes guilt and if he goes, it’s not fair to mishti.

Mishti is not similar to mauli at all...Infact comparing mauli with mishti is an insult to mauli ...Mauli never said i love u to Ishaan...she was always clear that she doesn't love Ishaan

She always loved that loser kunal but still she has never cheated on Ishaan i m happy at the end she understood who is her true love

I know u guys love mishti but there is no point in comparing her with Mauli again n again

U all don't want Mishti to be compared with Nandu n Kunal n i think most of the forum At least now respects this...but we all also feel the same when u compare this 2 timer Mishti with our sweet mauli

Mishti is neither nandu nor mauli...She is Mishti Just Mishti

Originally posted by: SONAL30

Mishti is not similar to mauli at all...Infact comparing mauli with mishti is an insult to mauli ...Mauli never said i love u to Ishaan...she was always clear that she doesn't love Ishaan

She always loved that loser kunal but still she has never cheated on Ishaan i m happy at the end she understood who is her true love

I know u guys love mishti but there is no point in comparing her with Mauli again n again

U all don't want Mishti to be compared with Nandu n Kunal n i think most of the forum At least now respects this...but we all also feel the same when u compare this 2 timer Mishti with our sweet mauli

Mishti is neither nandu nor mauli...She is Mishti Just Mishti

Woww!! So now members have to keep their views according to your likes and dislikes. Lol!!!

Mishti has also not cheated Veer. She had a misconception of the definition of love. The story is about how Mishti will realise that life can't be planned. The next step of her should be break up. Well that's what I think. I can't ask you to think the same way as I do. Everyone is entitled to keep their views here.

Why can't Mishti be compared to her mother Mauli? Like there are many similarities apart frm the love situation the mother-daughter faced in their lives, being the man of the house, taking care of each & everyone's wishes in her family, can do anything fr her family and what not....!! Sorry to say but your comment was pathetic.

Just one mistake of life can make someone sooo bad that she can't even be compared to her mother. Why we are being so harsh to ppl?

Anyways,

@bold you really need to check each of the anti-mishaan posts and comments where she is compared to her biological father on a daily basis.

And According to the forum rule, one can make comparisons on a positive note but here the negative ones are allowed so whole heartedly and you want the positive ones to stop.

Lastly, if TM feels like comparing Mishti to her mother.. She can do it a hundred times...