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Posted: 6 years ago
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I think mishty has not accepted that she has feelings for ruhaan yet and that she's probably in love with him...because she's not really understanding what's happening to her,..as we saw from the promo today . So I don't think we can call it emotional cheating yet. Yes but once she says to herself ...that I do love ruhaan...then she better break up with veer ASAP...otherwise it's emotional cheating..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

simple question - what is your definition of emotional cheating


Shifting your affections from your partner to someone else, without informing your partner is emotional cheating for me.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: .SSS.


If one is having only physical relationship about other person in head then it is just a thought. Having a thought is an emotion? 😕

Well, I .aware that most thinks in the way you are saying about emotional cheating but this is what as per my understanding.

If a person has never a thought of any physical relationship with another person but only being emotionally intimate with another person behind his/her partner back.. Then also it is emotional cheating right?! I feel so.


And this kind of emotional cheating is much worse than physical cheating. If husband was deviated and was having a one night stand with another woman and has realized his mistake and came back to his wife and apologized his wife and redeemed then she may accept him much easily than in the case where husbandwass having an emotional intimacy with another woman too.

Kunan cheated both emotionally and physically Mauli. Mauli was shattered even before knowing about their physical intimacy. Infact it was never needed to show to Mauli that Kunan slept together even before Maunal divorced. For her cheating was Kunal becoming another woman's man. Mauli could never accept Kunal back for the very same reason.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty


I think everyone who mentions "Emotional cheating" in reference to Mishaan mean that Mishti has feelings for Ruhaan, when she is already in a relationship with Veer.

Physical cheating having physical relationship with someone, if one is having physical relationship in his head, that's his emotion hence emotional cheating





in my view it is not emotional cheating...

she might be fulfilling her fantasy while remaining committed to veer and not cheating him is also morally right thing to do...misti might say to veer --lets use roleplay today in romance ...thats all..both will be happy...

dont know about others...

but for me ...

romance main fantasy zaroori hai ...[these kind of scene cvs shown for maunal if i remember right...is not it??]
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajh



in my view it is not emotional cheating...

she might be fulfilling her fantasy while remaining committed to veer and not cheating him is also morally right thing to do...misti might say to veer --lets use roleplay today in romance ...thats all..both will be happy...

dont know about others...

but for me ...

romance main fantasy zaroori hai ...[these kind of scene cvs shown for maunal if i remember right...is not it??]

Yes it's fantasizing. I personally don't feel it's necessary in a relationship, but it happens with many couple as per some articles. And few articles states that these things are perfectly normal in sex life and as per some other: if a person is consistently fantasizing about another woman while sleeping with his wife then it's a sign that they need to introspect if there was any problem in their relationship

I personally feel that fantasizing is not healthy in a relationship, if it is being consistent.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Emotional cheating is thinking about another person all the time, dreaming about that person and hiding that from your partner. To me Mishti has been doing emotional cheating for a while.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Lol

In my opinion, there is no emotional cheating.

If there is emotional cheating than I feel all of us are doing it 😆

This forum makes me wonder if I am emotionally cheating my husband. 😆

I mean seriously, they are many situations where I have something in my mind but doesn't say that to my husband for whatever reason it may be. It may be because he may get hurt, it may be because he may get angry. Does that mean I am emotionally cheating my partner? 😆

I know friends who does that too. Are they also cheating?

Example, let's imagine the below. I know people who went through this.

My husband wants to go to his mom's place. I don't want to go. If I tell him I do not want to go, he will get hurt. He may get angry too. So if I lied to my husband that "I am not well
Alas, I emotionally cheated him.

I have a male friend who is very close to me. He is my friend since a decade. I share to him my personal stuff which my husband may not know or may not like that I share but for god sake my friend is my friend and my husband will not know how much he is a friend to me. So I may not tell him too much about my friend like I tell him about my other girl friends.

Again, I am emotionally cheating my husband.

I may not want to have sex with my husband. If I tell him a "No directly, he may be hurt. So, I just give him some reason or sometimes I unwillingly give in.

Again, I am emotionally cheating my husband.

These are simple thing which happen between husband and wife. That doesn't mean they are emotionally cheating.

Coming to Misthi, she was in mood under the shower, she enjoyed his touch. 😆 she felt he may not be the right guy for her, she cringed at his touch.

That is not emotionally cheating for me. She in fact is not even married.

1 year relationship? A big deal? I know many of my college mates who love each other during college, got married and got divorced within months because they understood the person is not the right one.

I was shocked when I knew my classmate divorced her husband because they have different sleeping habits. She wants to sleep early and he sleeps late. 😆 Arguments on this lead to divorce.

This show is giving us bigger reasons for falling out of love with one person and falling in love with another.

Let's take Hum dil de chuke hai Sanam for example.

Aishwarya completely believed she loved Salman but suddenly in climax she understood she loves Ajay. Before she realised completely, she was sad of separating from Ajay. She wasn't happy that she is going to Salman. She dint emotionally cheat Salman for God's sake, she just understood where her heart belonged.

Chalo, too much lecture. Good night 😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
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IMO when you'd reason with yourself "at least I'm not having sex" and that's the justification for your bond with someone it's emotional cheating. I don't believe after being committed to someone people won't be attracted towards the opposite gender (or same gender, I'm open minded like that😊) Having partner doesn't makes you immune to charms😛
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Being in relationship, when you start to dream romantically for third person is emotional cheating on your current partner according to me .

For the first time I felt mishti is doing emotional cheating is in that shirt scene of ruhaan.

Itna hosh koi nai gawata ki apni Aj ki sacchai bhi bhul jaye . Mishti ki Aj ki sacchai veer hai so uska pehla farz veer ko sab batana hai , baki sab baad mai .
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: TeluguAmmayi

Lol

In my opinion, there is no emotional cheating.

If there is emotional cheating than I feel all of us are doing it 😆

This forum makes me wonder if I am emotionally cheating my husband. 😆

I mean seriously, they are many situations where I have something in my mind but doesn't say that to my husband for whatever reason it may be. It may be because he may get hurt, it may be because he may get angry. Does that mean I am emotionally cheating my partner? 😆

I know friends who does that too. Are they also cheating?

Example, let's imagine the below. I know people who went through this.

My husband wants to go to his mom's place. I don't want to go. If I tell him I do not want to go, he will get hurt. He may get angry too. So if I lied to my husband that "I am not well
Alas, I emotionally cheated him.

I have a male friend who is very close to me. He is my friend since a decade. I share to him my personal stuff which my husband may not know or may not like that I share but for god sake my friend is my friend and my husband will not know how much he is a friend to me. So I may not tell him too much about my friend like I tell him about my other girl friends.

Again, I am emotionally cheating my husband.

I may not want to have sex with my husband. If I tell him a "No directly, he may be hurt. So, I just give him some reason or sometimes I unwillingly give in.

Again, I am emotionally cheating my husband.

These are simple thing which happen between husband and wife. That doesn't mean they are emotionally cheating.

Coming to Misthi, she was in mood under the shower, she enjoyed his touch. 😆 she felt he may not be the right guy for her, she cringed at his touch.

That is not emotionally cheating for me. She in fact is not even married.

1 year relationship? A big deal? I know many of my college mates who love each other during college, got married and got divorced within months because they understood the person is not the right one.

I was shocked when I knew my classmate divorced her husband because they have different sleeping habits. She wants to sleep early and he sleeps late. 😆 Arguments on this lead to divorce.

This show is giving us bigger reasons for falling out of love with one person and falling in love with another.

Let's take Hum dil de chuke hai Sanam for example.

Aishwarya completely believed she loved Salman but suddenly in climax she understood she loves Ajay. Before she realised completely, she was sad of separating from Ajay. She wasn't happy that she is going to Salman. She dint emotionally cheat Salman for God's sake, she just understood where her heart belonged.

Chalo, too much lecture. Good night 😆


Those personal examples are not of emotional cheating but of white lies. You don't want to hurt the people you care about, so you say harmless lies.

Emotional cheating, to me, is when your affections reduce for one person because those feelings are increasing for another, i. e., emotional shift. This emotional shift while still leading to partner to believe that nothing has changed constitutes cheating.

Almost everyone speaks white lies but emotional cheating is not that common.

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