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Posted: 6 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Vartika026

Well, good then. And anyways I'd never make it personal for fictional characters. I'm new here and consider all the forumwasis as my friends, doesn't matter if our views match or not. So let the bygones be bygones and be friends 😊😊 we can all have our own views and b friends at the same time right? Hell, even my bff hates SRK but I love her😆😆


Awww 🤗

Of course, we shouldn't fight for characters anyway
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty


There was someone who was ready to let go of someone who helped her but she always pretended that she is this mahan, sacrificing, indecisive woman that's why I hated her hypocrisy.
I don't want to compare but it's better to accept that you will think about yourself then cry "How can I do this?" or "I am not like this"
No, you are like this and you want to do this.

It's Ruhaan's life and he can end his friendship with Veer tomorrow, right? Even if not for Mishti, if he feels he does not want to be friends with Veer, he can end this. I am just liking and connecting to the fact that he is very clear on his stand. He is telling you that he is not Veer's good friend.

I am hoping he will tell Veer the truth, Veer deserves that much for being a good friend, then it's upto him, if he wants to give Ruhaan a chance or not


Umm he admitted that he is Veer's best friend ! Generally people have reasons to break a friendship and here Ruhan has no reason ...I am not liking his stand coz he is sure about his feelings but not once he RESISTED ! As a friend he should have tried to back off at least once or resisted but neither he resisted nor he feels bad about it ! He is being honest with himself but not with Veer

I never rooted for that woman nor I will root for Ruhan and my reasons are quite similar...Back stabbing a friend is and will always be wrong...Ab vo chae ro dho ke karo ya chaati thoke confidently ...It won't make back stabbing right nor the person doing it
Edited by anshvi - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshvi


Veer has been nothing but a great friend to him so far...took a stand for him against his own fiance, considers him like his brother so much so that he gave his name as RSVP (only close family members name comes in the RSVP section) ...Veer has always supported Ruhaan so far and what is Ruhan giving him in return ! Yes he is thankless

Oh so, veer consider him as his family so he need to be thankful toward him for that?😆

Ruhan was and is wrong for breaking the bro code ...Ruhan confessing to Veer will not make him right ! He owns this much to Veer as his chidhood best friend

P.S. - I never saw people appreciating Veer in fact he was bashed for putting himself or Ruhaan who was right that time over Mishti when he left her (although later realized that he was wrong) 😆 Why is Ruhaan's selfishness being appreciated but Veer was bashed 😆



You really didn't saw that? I think you only saw when people bash veer but didn't saw when people appreciate him. 😆 People who didn't like veer start like him after that day. Ruhaan fans have praise him too against Ruhaan while calling Ruhaan shameless who didn't took stand for his friend😆
I never said that he will be Mahan or right after confessing it to veer because he deserves it. I am saying if he come clean to veer he won't be wrong. What you expect Ruhaan to do after falling for his friend's would be wife? Abhi jaan buj ke soch samjh ke tho pyaar nahi kara na woh mishti se, bro code tho tab bhi break hota hai jab koyi apne friend ke behen se pyaar karta hai tho kya woh bhi galat hai😆 wrong veer ke shaat ho raha hai I agree but Ruhaan is not wrong for fall in love. Veer will decide if he want to forgive him or not because it's he is one who will feel wrong. he can punch him too, I don't mind😆 but I can't blame someone for falling in love because for me feeling mind se nahi heart se aate hai😳😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshvi


Precisely why I don't like him
He is ready to let go of Veer who is his best friend since childhood for Mishti who is Veer's fiance and would be wife ...He is selfish

I understand his actions but can't root for him

Ruhan needs to be honest with Veer which so far he isn't

actually veer ruhaan se rishta tode iske chances jada hai and Veer ko wo right bhi hoga ki wo Ruhaan se dosti rakhna chahta hai ya nahi,Ruhaan iss position me nahi hai ki wo kisi se dosti tode
And rahi baat veer se honesty ki toh wo ye kahe ki bhai I love ur would be wife,mujhe nahi pata ki wo kya feel krti hai but I love her,? Really? Isse toh wo kuch na bole wahi acha hai coz ye na sirf unki friendship todega but misveer relationship bhi kharab karega . And I don't think ki mishaan ki feelings clear hone ke baad dono me se koi bhi veer se ye chupayega ya cheat karega
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshvi


Umm he admitted that he is Veer's best friend ! Generally people have reasons to break a friendship and here Ruhan has no reason ...I am not liking his stand coz he is sure about his feelings but not once he RESISTED ! As a friend he should have tried to back off at least once or resisted but neither he resisted nor he feels bad about it ! He is being honest with himself but not with Veer

I never rooted for that woman nor I will root for Ruhan and my reasons are quite similar...Back stabbing a friend is and will always be wrong...Ab vo chae ro dho ke karo ya chaati thoke confidently ...It won't make back stabbing right nor the person doing it


We all know that Ruhaan's feelings for Veer's fiance are wrong, he himself knows that he is wrong, I won't defend his actions or feelings because flaws are not meant to be defended, wrong is wrong, agreed?

Veer is his best friend and he loves Mishti, he is saying if time comes, he will pick Mishti over Veer, that's his decision, the reason of losing Veer is that he can't lose Mishti.

I am able to understand this and connect to it. I am not going to defend this, I don't expect selflessness, Ruhaan is doing what he is saying, I just want Ruhaan to be honest to Veer about his feelings, Veer is not the one who is wrong here and Veer has been a very good friend.

I wouldn't have hated that woman, if she had told her friend about her feelings.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: HeartBeat321



You really didn't saw that? I think you only saw when people bash veer but didn't saw when people appreciate him. 😆 People who didn't like veer start like him after that day. Ruhaan fans have praise him too against Ruhaan while calling Ruhaan shameless who didn't took stand for his friend😆
I never said that he will be Mahan or right after confessing it to veer because he deserves it. I am saying if he come clean to veer he won't be wrong. What you expect Ruhaan to do after falling for his friend's would be wife? Abhi jaan buj ke soch samjh ke tho pyaar nahi kara na woh mishti se, bro code tho tab bhi break hota hai jab koyi apne friend ke behen se pyaar karta hai tho kya woh bhi galat hai😆 wrong veer ke shaat ho raha hai I agree but Ruhaan is not wrong for fall in love. Veer will decide if he want to forgive him or not because it's he is one who will feel wrong. he can punch him too, I don't mind😆 but I can't blame someone for falling in love because for me feeling mind se nahi heart se aate hai😳😆


Dost ki behen se pyar karna aur dost ki mangetar se pyar karna ek hi baat hai kya?

Forget cheating with your friend's guy/girl, even dating your friend's EX is breaking bro code/girl code.

Alia was bashed a lot for dating Ranbir who was her bestie Katrina's ex.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: HeartBeat321



You really didn't saw that? I think you only saw when people bash veer but didn't saw when people appreciate him. 😆 People who didn't like veer start like him after that day. Ruhaan fans have praise him too against Ruhaan while calling Ruhaan shameless who didn't took stand for his friend😆
I never said that he will be Mahan or right after confessing it to veer because he deserves it. I am saying if he come clean to veer he won't be wrong. What you expect Ruhaan to do after falling for his friend's would be wife? Abhi jaan buj ke soch samjh ke tho pyaar nahi kara na woh mishti se, bro code tho tab bhi break hota hai jab koyi apne friend ke behen se pyaar karta hai tho kya woh bhi galat hai😆 wrong veer ke shaat ho raha hai I agree but Ruhaan is not wrong for fall in love. Veer will decide if he want to forgive him or not because it's he is one who will feel wrong. he can punch him too, I don't mind😆 but I can't blame someone for falling in love because for me feeling mind se nahi heart se aate hai😳😆


Majority posts were to bash Veer and it's a fact 😆 and I didn't see a single post stating that we like a flawed veer and even if he will be selfish we will like his selfishness 😆

And as per me Ruhan will be wrong ! He has broken the bro code here so even if he informs Veer then that won't make him right ! It's his duty as friend to come clean to Veer and inform him !
Friend ki behen aur friend ki fiance do alag cheez hain ! Whole different situation! I hope u do get the severity of the sitaution here...Behen aur fiance mein difference hai 😆

Maybe for u it's okay if a friend falls in love with his friend's wife or fiance ...by your logic a man falling for a married woman or a woman falling for a married man is also right coz they can't be blamed for falling in love as feelings heart se aati hain 😕 umm I don't root for such couples ...never have and never will

Rest to each his own
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Posted: 6 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: FruitToasty


We all know that Ruhaan's feelings for Veer's fiance are wrong, he himself knows that he is wrong, I won't defend his actions or feelings because flaws are not meant to be defended, wrong is wrong, agreed?

Veer is his best friend and he loves Mishti, he is saying if time comes, he will pick Mishti over Veer, that's his decision, the reason of losing Veer is that he can't lose Mishti.

I am able to understand this and connect to it. I am not going to defend this, I don't expect selflessness, Ruhaan is doing what he is saying, I just want Ruhaan to be honest to Veer about his feelings, Veer is not the one who is wrong here and Veer has been a very good friend.

I wouldn't have hated that woman, if she had told her friend about her feelings.



Completely understand! U are able to relate to him and I am not
Let's hope that he at least informs Veer
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Posted: 6 years ago
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So we are watching a show where a character is telling us what we can expect from him, he is not saying that he is a perfect friend to Veer, in fact he said that if time comes, he will pick himself above Veer
This is exactly what I liked about Veer, everyone should think about themselves before being mahan or pretending to be mahan, the only person you are answerable to is yourself, so I am seeing Ruhaan as a character, who is very clear on his stand.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Being honest with your self is great. One should be selfish I agree. But in being selfish should you intentionally hurt some one who loves you? I don't think so. In being honest with yourself should you be dishonest with some one who thinks of you as family? I don't think so.

If you are dishonest and intentionally hurt people you love, do you yourself deserve true love ?I don't think so

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