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Posted: 6 years ago
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I am unable to connect to him for a number of reasons
Ruhan is an orphan so he got connected to this new family but what about his previous relations...his friend who considers him like his brother ...He cares about the new family but what about Veer then

Ruhan admits that he is betraying Veer but can't betray his feelings which shows that he is selfish and will always put his own happiness over others' ...I can't connect to him coz he comes across as selfish and thankless

He is admitting that he is wrong but not doing anything to rectify it...Even if doesn't want to rectify it then at least he needs to be HONEST with Veer...He needs to tell him what he feels...Ruhan is sure of his feelings since the start ...He knew what he felt for Mishti n yet decided to stay

If nothing else then honesty is something that he owns to Veer ! And he isn't ...I don't think informing Veer about this will make him mahaan ...Mahaan will be if he put Veer above himself which clearly he isn't and won't but telling Veer will make him a human being who might be selfish but at least have the decency to inform his best friend who considers him as a brother the truth !

At least I expect this much from him and Veer deserves at least this much from Ruhaan
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty


If I write against Mishaan our views won't match, right?
I am not loyal to any camp, my views change everyday

See, you have right to post whatever you want be it against Mishaan or in favour of them, doesn't matter and neither do I have any say in that, it's completely your call. This post of yours seems good to me and I think the same about Ruhaan that's why I said so. It's completely up to you who you wanna like/ support, whatever. And I genuinely complemented you I wasn't being sarcastic there. Anyways have a good day😊
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshvi

I am unable to connect to him for a number of reasons

Ruhan is an orphan so he got connected to this new family but what about his previous relations...his friend who considers him like his brother ...He cares about the new family but what about Veer then

Ruhan admits that he is betraying Veer but can't betray his feelings which shows that he is selfish and will always put his own happiness over others' ...I can't connect to him coz he comes across as selfish and thankless

He is admitting that he is wrong but not doing anything to rectify it...Even if doesn't want to rectify it then at least he needs to be HONEST with Veer...He needs to tell him what he feels...Ruhan is sure of his feelings since the start ...He knew what he felt for Mishti n yet decided to stay

If nothing else then honesty is something that he owns to Veer ! And he isn't ...I don't think informing Veer about this will make him mahaan ...Mahaan will be if he put Veer above himself which clearly he isn't and won't but telling Veer will make him a human being who might be selfish but at least have the decency to inform his best friend who considers him as a brother the truth !

At least I expect this much from him and Veer deserves at least this much from Ruhaan


He is living with this family for past one month, so I just guessed on the basis of his dialogues that leaving a family, after living with them is difficult for him.

He knows he is wrong and he is not doing anything to rectify it because he has said he won't go against his feelings, he is picking his love for Mishti over Veer, so he is ready to let go of Veer for Mishti, so that clarity is there

As I said Veer and Ruhaan are very clear in their stands, and I am able to understand their actions as well.

I agree that he should tell Veer about it, Veer deserves that honesty and after knowing everything, It will be Veer's decision, if he wants to be friends with Ruhaan or not, if he doesn't, that's completely fine
I think Ruhaan has made a decision thinking about consequences, losing Mishti will be a bigger blow to him than losing Veer



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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vartika026

See, you have right to post whatever you want be it against Mishaan or in favour of them, doesn't matter and neither do I have any say in that, it's completely your call. This post of yours seems good to me and I think the same about Ruhaan that's why I said so. It's completely up to you who you wanna like/ support, whatever. And I genuinely complemented you I wasn't being sarcastic there. Anyways have a good day 😊


Are I was just joking
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshvi

I am unable to connect to him for a number of reasons

Ruhan is an orphan so he got connected to this new family but what about his previous relations...his friend who considers him like his brother ...He cares about the new family but what about Veer then

Ruhan admits that he is betraying Veer but can't betray his feelings which shows that he is selfish and will always put his own happiness over others' ...I can't connect to him coz he comes across as selfish and thankless

He is admitting that he is wrong but not doing anything to rectify it...Even if doesn't want to rectify it then at least he needs to be HONEST with Veer...He needs to tell him what he feels...Ruhan is sure of his feelings since the start ...He knew what he felt for Mishti n yet decided to stay

If nothing else then honesty is something that he owns to Veer ! And he isn't ...I don't think informing Veer about this will make him mahaan ...Mahaan will be if he put Veer above himself which clearly he isn't and won't but telling Veer will make him a human being who might be selfish but at least have the decency to inform his best friend who considers him as a brother the truth !

At least I expect this much from him and Veer deserves at least this much from Ruhaan



He is not mahan I agree, he is becoming selfish I agree (I don't think it's wrong to think about yourself, He has only himself, He has no one who will think about him) but putting aside everything how he is thankless 😕 Please some one give me some information, it's like I am missing some scene. What have Veer done to Ruhaan that he should be thankful😕 I don't know what will be in Monday episode I am waiting for it but jho hum assume kar rahe hai woh hua tho he will be selfish and not a good friend but that doesn't make him Thankless, veer ne uss par koyi enhaasn nahi kiya hai 😆

P.S. I agree informing about his feeling for Mishti will not make him Mahan(which he never was) but he will not wrong either if he does that. Forgive him or not it's veer's call but If he come clean to Veer, I have no problem with him.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty


He is living with this family for past one month, so I just guessed on the basis of his dialogues that leaving a family, after living with them is difficult for him.

He knows he is wrong and he is not doing anything to rectify it because he has said he won't go against his feelings, he is picking his love for Mishti over Veer, so he is ready to let go of Veer for Mishti, so that clarity is there

As I said Veer and Ruhaan are very clear in their stands, and I am able to understand their actions as well.

I agree that he should tell Veer about it, Veer deserves that honesty and after knowing everything, It will be Veer's decision, if he wants to be friends with Ruhaan or not, if he doesn't, that's completely fine
I think Ruhaan has made a decision thinking about consequences, losing Mishti will be a bigger blow to him than losing Veer




Precisely why I don't like him
He is ready to let go of Veer who is his best friend since childhood for Mishti who is Veer's fiance and would be wife ...He is selfish

I understand his actions but can't root for him

Ruhan needs to be honest with Veer which so far he isn't

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: HeartBeat321



He is not mahan I agree, he is becoming selfish I agree (I don't think it's wrong to think about yourself, He has only himself, He has no one who will think about him) but putting aside everything how he is thankless 😕 Please some one give me some information, it's like I am missing some scene. What have Veer done to Ruhaan that he should be thankful😕 I don't know what will be in Monday episode I am waiting for it but jho hum assume kar rahe hai woh hua tho he will be selfish and not a good friend but that doesn't make him Thankless, veer ne uss par koyi enhaasn nahi kiya hai 😆

P.S. I agree informing about his feeling for Mishti will not make him Mahan(which he never was) but he will not wrong either if he does that. Forgive him or not it's veer's call but If he come clean to Veer, I have no problem with him.


Veer has been nothing but a great friend to him so far...took a stand for him against his own fiance, considers him like his brother so much so that he gave his name as RSVP (only close family members name comes in the RSVP section) ...Veer has always supported Ruhaan so far and what is Ruhan giving him in return ! Yes he is thankless


Ruhan was and is wrong for breaking the bro code ...Ruhan confessing to Veer will not make him right ! He owns this much to Veer as his chidhood best friend

P.S. - I never saw people appreciating Veer in fact he was bashed for putting himself or Ruhaan who was right that time over Mishti when he left her (although later realized that he was wrong) 😆 Why is Ruhaan's selfishness being appreciated but Veer was bashed 😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshvi


Precisely why I don't like him
He is ready to let go of Veer who is his best friend since childhood for Mishti who is Veer's fiance and would be wife ...He is selfish

I understand his actions but can't root for him

Ruhan needs to be honest with Veer which so far he isn't


There was someone who was ready to let go of someone who helped her but she always pretended that she is this mahan, sacrificing, indecisive woman that's why I hated her hypocrisy.
I don't want to compare but it's better to accept that you will think about yourself then cry "How can I do this?" or "I am not like this"
No, you are like this and you want to do this.

It's Ruhaan's life and he can end his friendship with Veer tomorrow, right? Even if not for Mishti, if he feels he does not want to be friends with Veer, he can end this. I am just liking and connecting to the fact that he is very clear on his stand. He is telling you that he is not Veer's good friend.

I am hoping he will tell Veer the truth, Veer deserves that much for being a good friend, then it's upto him, if he wants to give Ruhaan a chance or not
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Ruhaan is an orphan, he has never had a family, when he revealed his past he said that Mishti - Pari losing their parents after knowing them must have been harder than him losing his parents, whom he didn't know...

He got a family in Mishti, Pari, Ansh and Radhika. For someone who never had a family losing them is not easy, isn't this what he said? So I kind of understand why he didn't leave.

He said that he can't ignore his love for Mishti, he knows he is betraying Veer but he can't betray himself.

My heart fluctuates every day and my favorite character change according to the story, right now I am understanding Ruhaan and liking him.

Is he selfish? Maybe but if he won't think about himself, who will? I don't get this expectation of selflessness from characters, he is very clear about his stand, he is not indecisive, one has to be completely honest with themselves

Agree,wo apne aap se honest hai and khud se honest hone ka ye matlab nahi wo kisi aur ko dhoka de raha hai and jitna mai abhi tak usko samjh payi hu uske liye family and rishte important hai,mainly becoz apne life ke bade part me usne ye sab miss kia hai.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty


Are I was just joking

Well, good then. And anyways I'd never make it personal for fictional characters. I'm new here and consider all the forumwasis as my friends, doesn't matter if our views match or not. So let the bygones be bygones and be friends😊😊 we can all have our own views and b friends at the same time right? Hell, even my bff hates SRK but I love her😆😆

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