Ruhaan - Page 7

Ruhaan is clear of his feelings for Mishti but isn't doing anything to really control them. His staring at Mishti constantly isn't helping anyone. Thats the major difference between Mishti and ruhaan. She at least tries to keep her distance with him but he on the other hand want to stay back close to mishti.😕

Ruhaan has every right to think about himself. But he also as a friend needed to be honest to Veer about how he feels about Veer's fianc and face the consequences of that truth and his choice.

Ruhaan never took that step towards Mishti because he had no idea about her feelings.. He could have ignored his friendship with Veer and gone ahead and pursued her, he didn't.

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Ruhaan never took that step towards Mishti because he had no idea about her feelings.. He could have ignored his friendship with Veer and gone ahead and pursued her, he didn't.

When he knows Mishti has feelings too, he really should help her sort this out, because if she marries Veer loving Ruhaan, it is more unfair than leaving him now.

So unless and until Mishti makes it very clear that she can have a healthy loving relationship with Veer, Ruhaan should try to give her that little nudge for the good of all three. If she says Veer is still more important to her, despite whatever she may feel for Ruhaan, he should back off...

It is quite possible to ignore the feelings. What guarantee does Mishti have at this point in time that Ruhaan will stay true to her forever? She values commitment, can't blame her if she chooses that over some heartache.

If Ruhaan didn't know Veer at all and met Mishti at work and after liking her got to know she is engaged, backs off, feels some connection with her and wonders if she should reconsider... I was talking about that possibility. It can happen. He doesn't have to wait for things to get more complicated. He could arrange some harmless office lunchs to get to know each other better. I was not talking about him running after her or forcing her.