Mishti,Veer,Ruhaan and Pari - Page 3

Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

I am bothered about mishti only tbh her character graph should remain clean rest I don't care

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Mishti does get a lot of unnecessary bashing .I mean she hasn't cheated any one as of now.She cries for Veer because like I said Veer and their relationship means a lot to Mishti. Mishti is not some one who would say I love you to any one She said it to Veer because Veer means a lot to her. So obviously she will cry for him. I don't think her tears are crocodile tears because she genuinely doesn't want to lose Veer.She is feeling awkward with Veer is because she has some kind of feelings for Ruhaan but till now she is keeping those feelings at bay and thinking about Veer only.

More than her blame should be on Ruhaan. Yes I get she is the engaged one and not Ruhaan but Ruhaan is Veer's friend. Veer is taking a stand for Ruhaan. Instead of talking to Veer and telling him that he is fine , he is saying Shyari's for Mishti.Absolutely taking advantage of the fact that Veer is currently not on talking terms with Mihsti because he is taking a stand for Ruhaan. I mean any normal person will feel guilty. But not this guy. 😡

Mishti will not be alone 😆.Mishaan will happen. But for that I firstly want Ruhaan's character to improve. I want him to be some one who values friendships and relationships. Who values himself and his self respect. Yes understanding is great but if you don't value yourself or friend's who stand up for you not much can be said about your character. Also they need to develop Mishaan more in an emotional and organic way and not only these accidental hugs,kisses ect.Ya these things are great for chemistry. Do these but also show them have an emotional connect. Even Ruhaan;s shyari was that your kiss changed my life.😆As in again something physical. Because there is no emotional connect. Basically I want to understand why Mishti is falling out of love with Veer and in love with Ruhaan. And I don't want this to happen because of accidental kisses,hugs etc.

Originally posted by: Deb07

Disliking Ruhan character. He is next generation Nandini. The way he always looks at Misti is quite awful. He is such a chipku type creepy. When Dadi was wearing a necklesh to Mish, the way this creep looking at Misti, I was feeling tv pe ghuske mukka mar ne ke. 😡

Originally posted by: IFLove

Good post 👏

Certain things I agree with n certain I don't...but I loved this post because it definitely looks unbiased which is a rarity these days on this forum😆

I have always said this, mishti does love veer...she very much does. Even in the state of guilt, rather than saying sorry to ruhaan, what mattered to her was veer. The first thing she did was ran behind veer to pacify him, beg him pardon. Though she is trying to mend things with ruhaan, but a thing that is ruling her mind is that veer is angry with her. More than her guilt, veer's silence is killing her. I have loved mishti like never before in last week. Mishti's sudden change of behaviour, her discomfort with veer on her bday was very weird. Idk if that was meant to be temporary or writers changed it due to the backlash, it happened for the good. I can understand mishti's emotional conflicts due to the attraction she feels for ruhaan. She soon needs to discuss this with someone. People just need to know the reason behind her weird behaviour so that they can help her out. N I too hope she has stronger reasons to fall out of love with veer than his unavailability due to work n in love with ruhaan than mere attraction.

Veer...he is a gem of a person. I don't find anything wrong in him. That doesn't mean he is never wrong. He does make mistakes but he owns up to them n learns from them, improves himself.

Ruhaan...I kind of like this guy as of now. He is composed n sorted. I don't like only one thing about him is that he didn't leave the house even after so many arguments with mishti. Some self respect is required. But then, love makes u more tolerant (I wouldn't term it as weaker). He hasn't been a doormat yet. On her face, he has always given it back to mishti whenever she yelled at him, in his own calm ways. About him having feelings for his friend's fiance, that's ok for me till he has control on his feelings. U don't have crush on someone after checking their relationship status. It just happens. He has started having these feelings even before he knew she was veer's wife to be. N once u start liking someone u can't undo those feelings just because that person is engaged to someone else. Only with time u accept that the person can't be yours n u withdraw urself. So ruhaan is trying to accept this truth that she is not meant for him. He is expressing his feelings only to himself. U can love anybody, until ur love doesn't hurt the other person or people around them. He has never expressed his love through any gestures either. No matter how much he likes her, he has always maintained the distance. Whenever pari or veer asked him to do anything relating to mishti, he could have used the situation in his favour to spend more time with her or impress her but he says she wouldn't like it, her consent matters to him, he doesn't even wish her on her bday without her consent. I love this control that he has on his emotions. So as long as his juzzbaat are in control, I don't find him creepy. If single ruhaan admiring mishti is creepy, then an engaged mishti getting attracted towards ruhaan should be more creepy. For me, none of them is, since both r trying to control themselves. Regarding ruhaan's friendship with veer, well that's not really established in the story. We r just made to believe by words that they r chuddy buddies. N even if we assume that they r best of the friends, we need to understand that many a times boys' friendship is not like us girls. They don't easily discuss their personal or emotional matters with each other unless it's really necessary. So I don't find ruhaan's behaviour selfish that he isn't talking to veer. N the first thing he knows is mishti wouldn't like him interfering in her matters. For that matter, veer is also wrong, even he didn't care to ask ruhaan if he's ok after that night, he has made the matter about himself n mishti. So yeah, that's how boys r, they r not sure selfish.

Pari...I love this girl n everything about her except one thing that she asked Arnav to talk to ruhaan, that was insensitive. Otherwise I find her way more mature than mishti also. She knows how to deal with different people, how to give people their space, how to handle various emotions, she cares for others first in every situation. N her bond with ruhaan, whatever u name it, I love love love it. I just hope, be it love or friendship, it remains equal from both their sides.

Arnav...I m not much fond of. I m not really fan of such stories where the two r friends from childhood n one starts loving the other n the other one has no such feelings etc etc. This Arnav has nothing in his life except pari n he looks very clingy at times. I mean, the friendship itself doesn't look as strong as it is proclaimed to be. In beyhadh, I used to adore saanjh Arjun so much, we could feel they both really can't do without each other, we could feel that dependence n hence their friendship scenes used to be favourite, I could feel for saanjh everytime Arjun was a jerk with her, I cried when Arjun got to know her feelings for him n he was helpless, I adored how despite of everything, it was only Arjun with whom saanjh could be herself n in spite of having a psyco wife like Maya, suffer didn't leave duskie's side ever. That kind of bond is not at all established between pari n Arnav here, pari has mishti, she can suddenly connect with ruhaan...I don't think Arnav really holds a special place in her life. For the first time su bua has said some right things, he should focus on his career first n be a man enough to make a girl fall for him.

Ansh...I m ok with the teenage issues they r showing about him. I have only one complaint that I can't feel his love for his sisters or family for that matter. I can understand that he might not be able to be really close with his sisters due to opposite gender n age gap n that the sister is mother figure to him etc, but still there has to be a high level of respect n deep love in his heart for his sisters. I'll believe it exists because it should be, but we can't see it.

It would be better if the cvs give more importance to writing stronger emotional conflicts than trip catch fall attraction scenes n executing such minute nuances about every character rather than making us assume it ourselves.