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Posted: 6 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: .SSS.

@Deviant_pixel Yes it's not Ruhaan's responsibility to manage her emotions. Even Mishti is not expecting him to deal her either, infact her feeling that he has been able to calm down her without putting any effort is scaring her. She doesn't want him in her life so that she can live that perfectly planned life.

As a viewer, even I am not caring about how Ruhaan will manage her emotions in current scenario. He himself is going through a lot. He has been falling for this girl, who is forbidden to him, which itself is hard for him and on top of that he needs to take her hate. it's just not about the self-respect which has to be the reason for him to leave.. it will be him being extremely hurt that he couldn't deal his own emotions and will be leaving. I can feel for him.

Ruhaan is not some one who takes things on face value. He is so deep. Not just him being humiliated by her which will be effecting him and it's being she who is humiliating her will be the reason why he will be effected the most.



Yeah I think and hope this will or rather has to be the turning point. We should remember that in season 1 Drashti was a huge name compared to Aditi and her character was butchered. She was never expected to be such a character that she turned out to be so I hope and pray they do not do the same with T.

I too have defended Mishti's behaviour and get her fear but to an extent, if this continues no I wouldn't want Ruhaan to be with her. There are no guarantees with this show lol.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel



Yeah I think and hope this will or rather has to be the turning point. We should remember that in season 1 Drashti was a huge name compared to Aditi and her character was butchered. She was never expected to be such a character that she turned out to be so I hope and pray they do not do the same with T.

I too have defended Mishti's behaviour and get her fear but to an extent, if this continues no I wouldn't want Ruhaan to be with her. There are no guarantees with this show lol.


Tejaswi has been portraying Mishti very well. I always felt that Mishti has been being empathizing with Ruhaan feeling for her , though she is not at all ready to accept that. Have you remember , at her engagement time when Ruhaan came to know for the first time that Mishti is Veer's fiancee and he was upset then the look on Misht's face as if she knows what he is feeling. When Veer said that Ruhaan is feeling something for some girl like he never felt before then Mishti was like doubting it could be herself. Even those nail marks scene and that Kissing him thinking Veer's scene she looked more like she is aware how Ruhaan is feeling and that sorry from her side looked very genuine and though she is reasoning herself that she told only to end all fights , It looked more like she is aware that what happened is effecting him and she is sorry for that. May be I am assuming more. But Tejaswi portrayal of Mishti always looked being aware of Ruhaan's feelings. She deep down knows that he doesn't take her wrong and only will leave her since she is asking for it. I don't know I am making any sense or not. But this is what I felt. Mishti is more like she can behave whatever the way she wants with him in recent episodes. She can't fight with any random person the way she is fighting with Ruhaan. Even Ruhaan's monologue says that he is feeling more close to her whenever she fights with him.

I am not justifying Mishti here but I feel the point of time when Mishaan met each other is also cause for their abnormal way of communication. Just imagine if they met even before any Veer was ever entered in Mishti's life then Mishaan story might have been looked much easier and normal, where as now it is going with resisting each other.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Hmm..I also felt bad for him...mishti always blasts on him for no reason...🤓 but I don't want him to leave the house...I want him to stay and tell mishti that he has paid advance money as rent for 4 months ..he is not going anywhere until 4 months...teach her a lesson by ignoring her..😎
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Posted: 6 years ago
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The reason I never want MisHaan is this!! He comes across as either creep or someone who lacks self respect. Nothing is above self respect I would have given pass if they are couple because sometimes to mend relationship we need to put ego, self respect aside but here it's just comes across as desperation from Ruhaan's side.
And whatever might be Mishti's fears she doesn't have any right to treat Ruhaan as a punching bag
Edited by abhiya_12 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhiya_12

The reason I never want MisHaan is this!! He comes across as either creeps or someone who lacks self respect. Nothing is above self respect I would have given pass if they are couple because sometimes to mend reactions we need to put ego, self respect aside but here it's just comes across as desperation from Ruhaan's side.

And whatever might be Mishti's fears she doesn't have any right to treat Ruhaan as a punching bag

whatever reason misthi feel wrong is ruhhan i cant support her in this situation
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Hmm..I also felt bad for him...mishti always blasts on him for no reason... 🤓 but I don't want him to leave the house...I want him to stay and tell mishti that he has paid advance money as rent for 4 months ..he is not going anywhere until 4 months...teach her a lesson by ignoring her..😎

exactly the money will play a role 😆😆i had thought abt this
Edited by mishaan - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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@abhigya Ruhaan really looked like he lacks self respect when he is around her?!
Ruhaan told Mishti to knock the door before entering his room since he doesn't like anyone invading his personal space, even after what all he wants doing in his personal space at that time was thinking about her.

Ruhaan has confronted the Mishti asking for reason for leaving his car all of sudden without saying anything. He doesnt let her taking him for granted where he offered a help to drop her.

He always give it her back whenever she is blaming for random things. Yes, all the while he still have feelings for her but never let her overpower his self-respect.

Yes he surely has came across as a more sorted out person and having forgiving nature. He doesnt have any unnecessary ego.And this actually is a good thing about him.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: .SSS.

@abhigya Ruhaan really looked like he lacks self respect when he is around her?!

Ruhaan told Mishti to knock the door before entering his room since he doesn't like anyone invading his personal space, even after what all he wants doing in his personal space at that time was thinking about her.

Ruhaan has confronted the Mishti asking for reason for leaving his car all of sudden without saying anything. He doesnt let her taking him for granted where he offered a help to drop her.

He always give it her back whenever she is blaming for random things. Yes, all the while he still have feelings for her but never let her overpower his self-respect.

Yes he surely has came across as a more sorted out person and having forgiving nature. He doesnt have any unnecessary ego.And this actually is a good thing about him.



I said this before saying it again no matter how much you give it back if the other person still repeats same mistake then you should just leave the place. He gets insults on daily basis most of time for nothing. It's really good to be understanding and being a good person to forgive but for how long. So daily someone shouts on you, later apologize and you forgive? Just because you love that person. It's nothing but toxic in my eyes. Most of times Mishti makes him feel unwelcomed and unwanted person in that house.
How much good Ruhaan might be but staying at a place where you gets insults on daily basis from owner of the house herself and especially you are paying for the stay and still ok with someone treating you as punching bag repeating same mistake yes I call it as a lack of self respect only
Edited by abhiya_12 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhiya_12


I said this before saying it again no matter how much you give it back if the other person still repeats same mistake then you should just leave the place. He gets insults on daily basis most of time for nothing. It's really good to be understanding and being a good person to forgive but for how long. So daily someone shouts on you, later apologize and you forgive? Just because you love that person. It's nothing but a toxic in my eyes. Most of times Mishti makes him feel unwelcomed and unwanted person in that house.
How much good Ruhaan might be but staying at a place where you gets daily basis insults from owner of the house herself and especially you are paying for the stay and still ok with someone treating you as punching bag repeating same mistake yes I call it as a lack of self respect only

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I said this before saying it again no matter how much you give it back if the other person still repeats same mistake then you should just leave the place. He gets insults on daily basis most of time for nothing. It's really good to be understanding and being a good person to forgive but for how long. So daily someone shouts on you, later apologize and you forgive? Just because you love that person. It's nothing but toxic in my eyes. Most of times Mishti makes him feel unwelcomed and unwanted person in that house.
How much good Ruhaan might be but staying at a place where you gets insults on daily basis from owner of the house herself and especially you are paying for the stay and still ok with someone treating you as punching bag repeating same mistake yes I call it as a lack of self respect only


It is shown in the show that he had an inkling of an idea that he is effecting her. That smile on his face when he finds out what's written there which made Mishti to refuse to continue the game. And he is a spectator of her outburst how she doesn't even want herself to see in her parents situation that is why she doesn't want to play. He might not be having monologues about it but he is aware that he is affecting her and she is resisting him. He is guilty about him being still there in her house too, which is why she is struggling. And for this very same reason he apologized her and decided himself not to come in her way.

Mishti and Ruhaan are shown having an idea of each other's feelings. These two fights are a bit like those couple fights , though they never acknowledged this thing. She feels herself that she can demand a birthday wish from him, just the day before when she was actually hitting him with roses. Ruhaan feels confident that she won't reject the rose when he was wishing for her though just one day before she was hitting him with roses even when he just told it hypothetically. They have not realised/acknowledged but they have certain bonding developed subconsciously that they know each other.

It's just one day he is silent and not wishing her after they fought and she just went and asking him if he doesn't want to wish her or what? She looked weak and he wasn't surprised about this as if he knows. These days Ruhaan doesn't really looked violated when she humiliates him, may be he knows thats what not really she wants , humiliating him. He looked only hurt cause she is pushing him away then again he couldn't expect anything else from her when she already was engaged.


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