Kunal talking about his daughter Pari (DT Note pg. 14) - Page 7

Originally posted by: HeartBeat321

it's is bad thing to compare daughter with her mother? I agree Nandini has took very wrong decision in her life but because of that we can't over look her good qualities. Nandini had great inner strength, She was the on who suffer with monster Rajdeep for more than 7 years. Agar uske place me koyi aur hota tho pata nahi kya ho jata. either they would have suicide or gone mad. She was very creative person, She is talented too and I do think that Pari do have those qualities. She does have great inner strength and she is also very creative.

I don't know why nAndus great inner strength didn't help fight her lust and love for her best friends husband ,.her great inner strength didn't stop her stealing her best friends husband, breaking her best friends home and betraying her good honest decent friend ...also nAndus great inner strength didn't give her the courage to leave a monster like rajdeep ..she needed her friend to rescue her. I will never see nandu as anything but a weak immoral woman and she disgusted me to the core. I'm sorry heartbeat for quoting your post ...I'm not arguing against your opinion..I'm just stating mine ...that due to nAndus bad deeds I can never see anything positive in her, and I think that often happens in real life ...one bad deed and it erases all your good ones sadly 😕 I also think it's an insult to compare pari to her mother...you know we get some very bad people in the world who do bad deeds ..their children don't want to be compared to them...maybe pari also should not be compared to her mother ..just my opinion...😕

Originally posted by: HeartBeat321

it's is bad thing to compare daughter with her mother? I agree Nandini has took very wrong decision in her life but because of that we can't over look her good qualities. Nandini had great inner strength, She was the on who suffer with monster Rajdeep for more than 7 years. Agar uske place me koyi aur hota tho pata nahi kya ho jata. either they would have suicide or gone mad. She was very creative person, She is talented too and I do think that Pari do have those qualities. She does have great inner strength and she is also very creative.

sorry i cant agree with u on this as we all know how has nandini created a mess but that mess scares their daughter to the core her good her strength her good qualities can be judged if she dnt cheat after all she done her good quskitues creative all will counted as cheater nithing more than that whatever psrents did that will eventualky come to psrents she has created a mess wich pari have to tolerate sad 😭

Originally posted by: Indira1211

I don't know why nAndus great inner strength didn't help fight her lust and love for her best friends husband ,.her great inner strength didn't stop her stealing her best friends husband, breaking her best friends home and betraying her good honest decent friend ...also nAndus great inner strength didn't give her the courage to leave a monster like rajdeep ..she needed her friend to rescue her. I will never see nandu as anything but a weak immoral woman and she disgusted me to the core. I'm sorry heartbeat for quoting your post ...I'm not arguing against your opinion..I'm just stating mine ...that due to nAndus bad deeds I can never see anything positive in her, and I think that often happens in real life ...one bad deed and it erases all your good ones sadly 😕 I also think it's an insult to compare pari to her mother...you know we get some very bad people in the world who do bad deeds ..their children don't want to be compared to them...maybe pari also should not be compared to her mother ..just my opinion...😕

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

This is a very problematic thing to say, it's about Nandini so I understand that Mauli's pain is taking over it.

Do you understand how difficult it is for women who are raped and are being beaten by their husbands to come out of it? If it was so easy then we wouldn't have a problem, would we?

So women who survive rape and domestic violence are not strong? Mauli helped Nandini, but it was Nandini's decision to come out of Rajdeep's clutches, remember when dida asked Nandini to give Rajdeep another chance and she went to him? It was Nandini who left Rajdeep after that, Mauli told Kunal that she can't help Nandini, if Nandini doesn't wish to be helped by her. It was Nandini's decision to divorce Rajdeep. Didn't Nandini protect herself from being molested from Rajdeep?

I have always disliked her for what she did to Mauli, I even mocked her death but as a victim of rape and domestic violence, we can't say that she wasn't strong because it's not easy.

It took Mauli years to come out of Kunal's betrayal, then imagine the impact of rape on a woman.

Not only on women but their family too, it's not easy to come out of it, even if police helps you, even if your family helps you, the strength to deal with it and move on is the inner strength of a person.

Just Google Pollachi rape case, you will see it's not only difficult for women but their whole family is not able to file a rape case.

Its not easy.

yes I know it's not easy to come out of an abusive relationship...that's why so many women are still murdered every year by their husbands or boyfriends ..however there are many women who do leave their Abusive partners ..and these women have an amazing inner strength that allows them to get out of that situation...but I don't believe that nandu had that great inner strength ..in anything she did ,.yes she finally divorced rajdeep but only after Maulis initial help and her witnessing Mauli and kunals relationship..and what a caring supportive loving husband is ...she wasn't able to do it on her own before this,.

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

This is a very problematic thing to say, it's about Nandini so I understand that Mauli's pain is taking over it.

Do you understand how difficult it is for women who are raped and are being beaten by their husbands to come out of it? If it was so easy then we wouldn't have a problem, would we?

So women who survive rape and domestic violence are not strong? Mauli helped Nandini, but it was Nandini's decision to come out of Rajdeep's clutches, remember when dida asked Nandini to give Rajdeep another chance and she went to him? It was Nandini who left Rajdeep after that, Mauli told Kunal that she can't help Nandini, if Nandini doesn't wish to be helped by her. It was Nandini's decision to divorce Rajdeep. Didn't Nandini protect herself from being molested from Rajdeep?

I have always disliked her for what she did to Mauli, I even mocked her death but as a victim of rape and domestic violence, we can't say that she wasn't strong because it's not easy.

It took Mauli years to come out of Kunal's betrayal, then imagine the impact of rape on a woman.

Not only on women but their family too, it's not easy to come out of it, even if police helps you, even if your family helps you, the strength to deal with it and move on is the inner strength of a person.

Just Google Pollachi rape case, you will see it's not only difficult for women but their whole family is not able to file a rape case.

Its not easy.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

yes I know it's not easy to come out of an abusive relationship...that's why so many women are still murdered every year by their husbands or boyfriends ..however there are many women who do leave their Abusive partners ..and these women have an amazing inner strength that allows them to get out of that situation...but I don't believe that nandu had that great inner strength ..in anything she did ,.yes she finally divorced rajdeep but only after Maulis initial help and her witnessing Mauli and kunals relationship..and what a caring supportive loving husband is ...she wasn't able to do it on her own before this,.

Originally posted by: sweetzzz

There is a difference between pollachi rape case and Nandini's case.

Nandini faced domestic violence, which would have stopped if she stood for herself right from the beginning .if she could stand up for herself with mauli by her side, why couldn't she before?

I understand it's a terrible situation to be in, but then women who stand up and go against such people are the one's who are termed strong. And it's no excuse to cheating her friend with her husband saying poor me, have gone through so much in life so I deserve happiness with your husband. That's hands down wrong!!

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I didn't say the situation is same, I said that not only for women but it's difficult for families of victims too. Please read properly before writing because it's a very sensitive topic.

@Bold - Have you seen S1? Rajdeep used to rape her and beat her, he wouldn't even allow her to go out of the house. She was practically secluded from the whole world, even Mauli couldn't meet her without Rajdeep.

I don't understand how you are belittling the strength required to endure this kind of torture.

Wasn't it Nandini who stoop up against Rajdeep without Mauli's help?

Didn't you watch the episode where she fought for her child and Rajdeep was a monster who killed his own baby and left her on the road, it was Nandini who called Mauli for help and Kunal helped her.

It took her 7 years, but she did it herself, Yes Mauli and Kunal helped her in this

No, it doesn't excuse Nandini from being a cheater, that's exactly why I bashed her, it doesn't mean I will belittle pain and strength of survivors of rape and domestic violence.

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Ok

7 years.. Tolerating rape and abuse for 7 years and surviving it makes one weak? Nandini is one of those women who came out of it, you always need help, from police or family. Didn't Mauli need Radhika, Dida, Ishaan to come out of Kunal's betrayal? Don't we say Ishaan helped her get over it? That makes Mauli a weak woman?

Moreover why judge women who are being raped and abused as weak because they are not able to come out of it? If it was as easy as writing it, it wouldn't have been a problem.

I am sorry, this is a very sensitive topic

I'm sorry I'm only talking about nandu..not the general population. And it was about the amazing inner strength that people are saying nandu had. I don't believe nandu had amazing inner strength ..that's why she couldn't control her lust and desires and so called love for her friends husband...Ok. Maybe she had strength to tolerate rajdeeps abuse according to you...but she certainly had no strength to walk away from betraying her friend...I'm sorry .nandu disgusts me ...let's leave it here, ..like you once told me that I can't make you like mishty...you also can't make me see nandu differently . Actually I can't tolerate seeing any scenes of her in silsila ..sorry nandinis character really sickens me and I can't sympathize with her for anything . But she's a fictional character..in real life I have the utmost sympathy for women in abusive relationships and hope that everyone of them gets a savior to get them out of that abuse before it's too late ...because Women in physically abusive relationships are very likely to get murdered according to statistics .. 😭