Would you give a chance if your partner cheats? - Page 2

No

Ps: mine is only one word answers without if and but.

This is a very difficult answer. The truth is that it requires a lot of strength and self confidence to get out of a broken relationship and start all over. Sometimes it's not always about self respect but women have to consider their kids and family when they are faced with such situations.

I think if your partner cheated due to some reason...e.g. I know of couples who were going through marital problems ..and the husband ended up having an affair ..but he was truly sorry ..and he wanted to make his marriage work,..so the couple went through counseling and saved their marriage..but here the husband didn't want a divorce ...he still loved his wife. so if the cheating spouse acknowledges his mistake and there was some valid reason why the Ema happened and the couple still loves each other very much,,then I think there's no reason why they can't give their marriage a second chance. But in silsila..that was not the case. Yes after Mauli found out about the Ema..she wanted Kunal back. By Kunal did not want Mauli..he told her that he no longer loved her, he didn't want to be married to Mauli and he loved nandu,.so in that case a wife has to let the husband go. You can't hold onto a man who no longer loves you. And in silsila it was not just an Ema, he married nandu and had a child and he only came back because nandu died,..if nandu was alive he would have stayed with her . So why must Mauli take back a man just because he lost the woman he really loved and be his second choice ...she deserves better. That's why maunal getting back together was impossible in the end.

No. Never. Disgusting Mouli still wanted such a partner though. Thankfully she's dead.

NO...I will spit on the cheaters and throw them out of my life

If he persue his attractions after telling me about that then yes I will forgive him. Whether I will live with him or not will depend on my mood I would like to take that decision on where we both stand in life and whether we will be able to make it work or not. Will I be able to forget that.

Originally posted by: Ruhi122

It's abt someone I know. Wife had cheated. They got divorced. But living in same city n same community their path kept crossing.
Finally they remarried each other. Not cuz of pressure from family or society but cuz they wanted to.
And they are actually happy. They started valuing each other more.

So I guess, it very much differs from person to person. We can't judge anyone. If the cheating partner is accepted back, doesn't always mean it's regressive. Though there are actually very few who wud accept I guess..

Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

no because once the trust is broken it can never be restored you know i can forgive and forget but getting back together is strict no no because things can never go back to what they were suspicion anxiety fear will always be there what if it happens again? this question will keep on bugging forever i think for a relationship to flourish it should be free of all these negative attributes another thing is respect for your partner which i think is very important aspect of any relationship disappears one cannot really respect a person who broke their trust so yes i cant think about going back to a cheater

No

Neither I forgive nor I forget. Only thing I prefer is MOVE ON and have faith in Time because time can 't heal wounds completely but it definitely helps in embracing new happiness.

Mauli was too much great for me who can forgive people after such a huge gravity of betrayal and cheaters like kunal and nandini.

"sorry" works when a mistake is made, but not when trust is broken. So in life, make mistakes but never break trust. Bcoz forgiving is easy, but forgetting and trusting again is sometimes impossible- I guess Maya Angelou