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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: pranurosid

It's a sibling thing..I noticed this behavior among many sisters when they share their personal issues with a new person who is not much known to them.Even I've faced similar situations


Well , that's true...happens between siblings
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: vardhinirosid

Exactly 👏 even I do feel the same...I'm short tempered my sis is too cool...I vl get angry in seconds.i yell at her like anything...bt end of day v both reconcile...some times if any fight happened ...my sis go to my cousin house n spend time there..this make me feel bad..i start avoiding her...that doesn't mean I'm rude r.im not treating as cmodity I'm possessive abt her.that is my way of showing how much I hurt...next day my sis herself come n say sorry...even I'm wrong .she says sorry...that is the beautiful thing in sibling bond..n ha if I hate any one..if my sis move clz with that person...definitely I vl get angry...n I vl.say stay away from person...becz she is my sister...it's my mindset...as I don't like that person my sis also stay away from him..
It's all about sis bond..
This is just my pov...as I know abt that bond
n today I literally got tears when misthi said how u shared about us with that guy...
Yeah she didn't heard their full convo n got angry on pari
Bt I can really connect to her
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This sister's thing would have made sense if Pari didn't spend most of her time with Arnav, Arnav is closer to Pari than anyone else. Mishti doesn't get jealous of Arnav, it wasn't about sister's bond because already there is a man who is a part of Pari's life. It was about Ruhaan
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty


This sister's thing would have made sense if Pari didn't spend most of her time with Arnav, Arnav is closer to Pari than anyone else. Mishti doesn't get jealous of Arnav, it wasn't about sister's bond because already there is a man who is a part of Pari's life. It was about Ruhaan

Actually I said that one too
Its not like I'm dictating my sis to do this to do that...talk with this guy..don't talk with that guy
But if I hate a person...n my sis goes well with him... definitely it won't go well with me😆
n if she discuss about us with him then definitely she vl die in my hands😆...infact misthi is some.wat better than me
n about arnav...
If my sis share anything with his bestie..yeah she can ...bt this is the fight between me n her...even if her friend is in that place instead of the person I hate I vl react like that only

N I'm sure if gajra want to show reality ...then even if arnav is in that place .misthi will react like that only...bt here it is ruhan...whom she hates r trying to hate...so this much is expected
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: vardhinirosid

Actually I said that one too
Its not like I'm dictating my sis to do this to do that...talk with this guy..don't talk with that guy
But if I hate a person...n my sis goes well with him... definitely it won't go well with me😆
n if she discuss about us with him then definitely she vl die in my hands😆...infact misthi is some.wat better than me
n about arnav...
If my sis share anything with his bestie..yeah she can ...bt this is the fight between me n her...even if her friend is in that place instead of the person I hate I vl react like that only

N I'm sure if gajra want to show reality ...then even if arnav is in that place .misthi will react like that only...bt here it is ruhan...whom she hates r trying to hate...so this much is expected

Yeah that's what the difference between Pari sharing her feelings with Arnav and Ruhaan.Even Mishti felt bad because of this
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: vardhinirosid

Actually I said that one too
Its not like I'm dictating my sis to do this to do that...talk with this guy..don't talk with that guy
But if I hate a person...n my sis goes well with him... definitely it won't go well with me 😆
n if she discuss about us with him then definitely she vl die in my hands😆...infact misthi is some.wat better than me
n about arnav...
If my sis share anything with his bestie..yeah she can ...bt this is the fight between me n her...even if her friend is in that place instead of the person I hate I vl react like that only

N I'm sure if gajra want to show reality ...then even if arnav is in that place .misthi will react like that only...bt here it is ruhan...whom she hates r trying to hate...so this much is expected


If you are saying that it's normal for you so I can't be the judge of that. I have a brother and we give each other the space we need, he has his own set of friends and I have mine. We do fight and share things but there's no obligation on him to be with me or on me to be with him.

So it was pretty weird for me, it's like giving someone the remote control of your life and they will take smallest decisions for you and frankly this is a little scary.

@Bold that's exactly what I am saying that it's not about sister's bond, it's about Ruhaan.and Mishti's feelings for Ruhaan.
Edited by FruitToasty - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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siblings aise hi hote hai behen being elder sister i can understand mishti even i am possessive about my brother its not like we are robbing them of their individuality or anything but sharing secrets is just our thing and is supposed be ours of course some exceptions can be made when comes to close friends just like arnav is their close friend or more specifically pari s best friend but nobody apart from them gets this privilege
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

siblings aise hi hote hai behen being elder sister i can understand mishti even i am possessive about my brother its not like we are robbing them of their individuality or anything but sharing secrets is just our thing and is supposed be ours of course some exceptions can be made when comes to close friends just like arnav is their close friend or more specifically pari s best friend but nobody apart from them gets this privilege

Yeah not all sibling things are alike..Sab ka apne alag alag preferences and bonding hota hai..We can't expect every siblings bond to be similar
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

siblings aise hi hote hai behen being elder sister i can understand mishti even i am possessive about my brother its not like we are robbing them of their individuality or anything but sharing secrets is just our thing and is supposed be ours of course some exceptions can be made when comes to close friends just like arnav is their close friend or more specifically pari s best friend but nobody apart from them gets this privilege


But as an individual it's upto me to decide if I want to share my secrets with someone or not, right? The camaraderie I feel for one person doesn't mean my brother or sister feels it so can they stop me from doing it? If I do share my feelings with someone, they will be rude to me and stop talking to me?

I would say it was not because Pari shared her feelings, it was because Pari shared her feelings with Ruhaan and Mishti is in a cold war with Ruhaan

Edited by FruitToasty - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty


If you are saying that it's normal for you so I can't be the judge of that. I have a brother and we give each other the space we need, he has his own set of friends and I have mine. We do fight and share things but there's no obligation on him to be with me or on me to be with him.

So it was pretty weird for me, it's like giving someone the remote control of your life and they will take smallest decisions for you and frankly this is a little scary.

@Bold that's exactly what I am saying that it's not about sister's bond, it's about Ruhaan.and Mishti's feelings for Ruhaan.


Yeah opinions differs person to person ...for me it is not weird ...n I too have my bro...I don't know his friends n he don't know abt my friends..v fight v share bt v don't interefere in other lives..bt fr my sis..v both r too clz ...n v both r too possessive ...n if she really feels bad she openly says with me..n I can say it is maitiaing compatibility ...she don't do things which I don't like...n I don't do things which she don't like ..

It's abount mishan feeling included with sibling bond I can say
As I already mentioned I vl definitely feel bad if she share abt our things to the person I hate...I didn't find any wrong in that

Any way its my opinion ...I just said wat I felt
Edited by vardhinirosid - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Its quite normal between sisters. The elder ones are sometimes possessive over the younger ones.

I have a younger sister who is younger than me , and I would feel the same too.
I have a younger bro too , but probably will not feel that way about him 😆 😆

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