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Posted: 6 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

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I didn't like the way Mishti behaved with Pari, even if I take her jealousy in consideration, how can she turn her back to Pari in the night when she called her? If Mishti understands 1% of pari, she should have known that Pari will get hurt by her this behavior, especially after she yelled at her for not working properly, the girl is already feeling like a failure on top of that she ignored her, then in the morning guilt tripped her for sharing her feelings with someone.

Mishti has Veer in her life, she hasn't shared that she kissed his best friend with him, Mishti didn't tell Pari that the reason she dislikes Ruhaan is because she kissed him and he is affecting her. Mishti is a control freak, she is used to dictating terms and from the breakfast table scene with Ansh, it's clear that everything in the house is done according to her. This time with Ruhaan, Pari's feelings are involved so Pari is not giving in to the unreasonable demand of disliking Ruhaan.
Ruhaan is not a bad guy, even Mishti heard him telling Pari that she should be Pari and Mishti later repeated the same dialog to Pari.

When ruhaan saw mishti veer kissing, he got upset and rush to his room with angry face at that time pari called mishti ki tumne he kuch kaha hai ruhaan ko , mishti told her that she has not said anything to ruhaan still pari was not believing mishti.

Should we conclude that pari can easily loose her faith from mishti And can misunderstand her for a guy like ruhaan?? But I don't want to judge them like this.

If we want to judge that relation , than we have to see how they feels for each other and I only found immense love for each other from both the sides.

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FruitToasty

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Posted: 6 years ago

#32

I am judging every character here.

It's given that Mishti and Pari love each other so there's no denying that, it's a fact.

I am talking about Mishti's behavior with Pari.

I am just saying that your loved ones will listen to you and do everything you want them to do till a point but when you go against their wish, they will lose the respect they have for you.

Take that breakfast incident for example how scared was Ansh of Mishti? That's what you will see in a father - son relationship, it's not that Ansh is afraid of Mishti, he respects her. Pari listened to Mishti's scolding without a retort because she respects Mishti. But when parents impose their views on their kids, you will see that kids do snap at them and it hurts a lot. For an outsider it would seem that the father is doing it for his son's betterment but his son won't see it, he will see what he wants and the person who is coming between it and he will leave the person who is coming between him and what he wants in life.

So I am not saying that Mishti's intentions are wrong or anything but every individual is different, one can't control people in name of relationships, you have to accept them with their individuality. There's a reason Pari wants to be like Mishti, it has been feeded in her head that "There's only one way to do things and that's doing it like Mishti does it"

Ruhaan is a good example of this, he tolerated Mishti for so long and today he snapped because he doesn't have to listen to her or do everything she wants to because he doesn't respect her like ansh and Pari do.

It doesn't make Mishti bad sister or anything but "Genius is knowing when to stop"

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