Hating kunan all over again - Page 4

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

is it good to break someone's home to make our own ? once after breaking someone's house , if other end moves on in life so does it reduce intensity of home wrecker and backstabber's immoral act ?

<font color="#ff0000">Kunal just pushed her towards ishaan but another fact is if kunal had not done cheating on her at first place than mauli had not suffered so much in life. His help is nothing in front of his inhuman , insensitive and nasty behavior for his so called divine and only love nandini . Mauli's life was destroyed because of kunal too .</font> Aj mauli life mai aage badh rai hai to credit lene aa gaya kunal ...waah re waah ... pehle kisi ko barbad karo fir usko aabad kar ke sari credit lo...👏👏👏

<font color="#0000ff">Apology ??!!! Kunal should not leave mauli at first place for nandini . Kunal should not leave his family for nandini . Mauli ne usko affair ke liye maaf bhi kar diya tha fir bhi divorce paper mauli ke mooh par fek ke nandini ke paas bhag gaya...Apology ka kya mauli daal chawal banaye😡😡😡</font>

oh ya thanks for reminding me 😡 Mauli had forgiven Kunal right after he called her giri hui aurat. Even kept fast for his long life. In return she got divorce papers and he doubted her pregnancy.

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

Now it is kunal who will get credit for mauli and ishaan being together ??

So mauli has moved on with ishaan only because of kunal🤢

Sahi mai yar ... matlab ye kya baat hui , pehle kisi ko barbaad karo or fir usko aabad karne ki credit bhi do 😡 😡

Kal ko kunal ki memory ayegi or thik ho gaya to mauli ko pehla credit denge , torture seh kar bhi kunal ki help ki pari ke liye .

Second credit ishaan ko denge jisne mauli ko push kiya tha iss drame ke liye .

Hadd hai bhai matlab Aj kal kaise kaise log credit lene aa jate hai 😕

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

1 Hitting someone with a car is a crime, he will get his due punishment by the court, cheating is not a crime..

2 A good analogy but not a proper one. . Mauli lost her husband and love, she is marrying a man who loves her and is a better human than Kunal. In your analogy, the person was paralyzed but he is not anymore...

3 I am not asking you not to hate KuNan, I am saying that I don't..

Of course you are welcome to not hate Kunan . It's completely your choice. It's the reason that you are giving that I have a huge problem with. Your reason seems to suggest that if a victim finds courage to move on to better things then the abuser is not to be hated . I just don't understand this. Matlab as long as victim keeps crying then abuser can be blamed but if he/she finds courage to move on the abuser should be forgiven . I am not able to understand this logic. In my analogy even if B became completely fine it doesn't absolve A because A left B all alone after destroying B's life.

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Of course you are welcome to not hate Kunan . It's completely your choice. In fact there were people who used to ship Kunan when Kunal was legally married to Mauli. It's the reason that you are giving that I have a huge problem with. Your reason seems to suggest that if a victim finds courage to move on to better things then the abuser is not to be hated . I just don't understand this. Matlab as long as victim keeps crying then abuser can be blamed but if he/she finds courage to move on the abuser should be forgiven . I am not able to understand this logic. In my analogy even if B became completely fine it doesn't absolve A because A left B all alone after destroying B's life.

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Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Of course you are welcome to not hate Kunan . It's completely your choice. In fact there were people who used to ship Kunan when Kunal was legally married to Mauli. It's the reason that you are giving that I have a huge problem with. Your reason seems to suggest that if a victim finds courage to move on to better things then the abuser is not to be hated . I just don't understand this. Matlab as long as victim keeps crying then abuser can be blamed but if he/she finds courage to move on the abuser should be forgiven . I am not able to understand this logic. In my analogy even if B became completely fine it doesn't absolve A because A left B all alone after destroying B's life.

Am I the only one who saw Mauli telling Kunal that she is falling for him, Mauli ignoring Ishaan's call in the camp, Mauli telling Dida that if she hasn't lied to Kunal they would have been together... Listening to all this Kunal calling Mehek, acting like Mehek is his girlfriend, then joining Mauli's hospital acting like a greedy money hungry man, raising hand on Mehek, simultaneously helping Ishaan woo Mauli then fulfilling Ishaan's mom's wish... Didn't Mauli agree to marriage after all this? Wasn't she happy after all this? Did they show it or not? Because I am kind of confused here

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Don't generalize things... Some crimes are bigger than the others, that's why we have different punishments for different crimes... So when you generalize thing like "Victim and abuser" then the message is different than what I am trying to say...

Nandini being happy in her life doesn't mean I start liking Rajdeep or forgive him, he was a rapist and an abusive husband...

Cheating is not even considered a crime in Indian law and many nations, these people who make laws obviously understand implications of actions, here I don't understand the victim and abuser thing, KuNan lied to Mauli that's not abuse. Mauli went through a lot of pain and I have supported her, I love her but loving her doesn't mean I have to hate KuNan, they have a life too, they made a wrong decision but doesn't mean they should suffer for rest of their lives... Now that Mauli has found her happiness, there's no chance of happiness for KuNan, is there? Nandini is dead, Kunal is alone and if he loves her, he will be alone for rest of his life... He deserves this loneliness? Sure...but for me that's enough punishment, I don't dislike them anymore...

About driving and hitting people...

How am I supposed to compare a criminal act with a moral sin? Cheating is a sin.. Do you know hating is a sin too? It has to stop, right?

KuNan were wrong, they got 2 years together, Nandini died of cancer, Kunal is alone raising his daughter... He was shot, he had to see that he is leaving his daughter an orphan... For me that's enough

Itna nahi hota hai bhai, in reality people who cheat don't even care about their ex wife or husband, they are happy in their world... Nandini and Kunal apologized and I don't really think they are happy right now...

Your see the Victim is happy and the culprit (I don't think abuser is the right word) is lonely...

It's abuse and victim only. Please don't trivialise what Kunal did to Mauli . It's not only cheating. Let me repeat again it's not only cheating and lying. Let me refresh your memory. 1)He said horrible things to her when Nandini went missing. Called her a giri hui aurat. And didn't even apologise when he realised Mauli was not at fault. 2) When Mauli was at her worst and begging him to come back he completely rejected her. 3) He and Nandini got engaged immediately and Nadini went to flaunt her engagement ring. 4) Wheb he found out about the baby he was more dissapointed than happy. 5) He came back and Mauli accepted him yet he doubted Mauli's pregnancy. 6) When Mauli kept a fast for his long life he shoved divorce papers in her face and called her a liar. Has Kunal ever acknowledged all the above and aplogized for it? Answer this. No . Which why I say dont trivialise what Kunal and Nadini did as cheating it's emotional abuse. Hence Kunal is an abuser and Mauli a victim. What he did is not a crime against law but a crime against marriage . If Kunan had just cheated even I would not have disliked them so much. But clearly they did way more than cheating. Please do remember when Kunal left Mauli he left to led his happily ever after with Nandini while Mauli was all destroyed . The fact that Mauli was able to come out of it is credit to her and people around her.

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Am I the only one who saw Mauli telling Kunal that she is falling for him, Mauli ignoring Ishaan's call in the camp, Mauli telling Dida that if she hasn't lied to Kunal they would have been together... Listening to all this Kunal calling Mehek, acting like Mehek is his girlfriend, then joining Mauli's hospital acting like a greedy money hungry man, raising hand on Mehek, simultaneously helping Ishaan woo Mauli then fulfilling Ishaan's mom's wish... Didn't Mauli agree to marriage after all this? Wasn't she happy after all this? Did they show it or not? Because I am kind of confused here

Firstly if you read my post in the main forum you would understand marriage is not the only way to move on . Marriage and husband are not the only source of happiness. At least for me. Mauli had moved on from the first episode on the serial post leap. Secondly the writers of this serial are horrible. They write things like EMA is true love and is divine. That guy will prefer homely wife over a working wife. This is just a serial. I won't let the serial dictate what I think is right and wrong . For me Kunan will be wrong and not divine no matter what serial says. For me Kunal has not redeemed himself as he doesn't even acknowledge his wrong doings. I don't care what this serial with terrible writing says. Thirdly what is the point of above. Even if Kunal did all this then what? He should just be forgiven for the emotional abuse? Is that it?

@Sabhyata

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Today got a glimpse of sympathy too .

So kheer ,rain dance , jumke ,apsara look ,saree and sympathy are reasons for doing cheating on your wife .

Gajra wanted to show kunan love so cheap than why she was using gods and divine sign

Aurat ka apsara look mai saree mai rain dance dekh kar or sympathy jaise reasons se wife ko cheat kar gaya pati , aise mai to bhagvan bhi bichare sharma jayege ki kya bill fad rahe hai dharti par mere naam ke😆

Divinity to dekho pura time kunal ke dimag mai nandini ke glimpse he ate hai ... mauli is nowhere here . Gajra ke liye kunan he hamesha se divine love tha , Maunal to sirf padaav tha🤢 Divine lover aj bhi sirf usi ko yaad karta hai amnesia mai bhi ..waah kya pyar hai kunan ka🥱

Dukh hota hai mauli ke liye ki aise insaan ke liye wo abhi torture gel rai hai . Reason chahe kunal ,pari ya koi bhi ho , mauli should not torture herself more .

I am glad she is genuinely happy with ishaan because shaddi use karo jo tumse pyar kare or tumhari respect kare . Kunal sirf hotel room decorate kar sakta hai or love formulas use kar ke phool /gifts bhej sakta hai baki respect to mauli ko kaise di thi sab jante hai . No depth in kunal's love neither for mauli nor for nandini. Nandini to usi ke type ki thi so chal gaya chakkar . Kunan never knew what true love means . For them selfishness = true love .