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I was not so sure about Ishaan's character because there's no stem, no root nothing, in plant language he is a thallophyte...
I have low tolerance for violent scenes and any kind of exertion of force in a relationship, I don't like when men pin women to the pole or wall or when women slap men.. I have noticed that somehow these are the norms of itv, men are allowed to hurt women as they want to, even in a show where domestic violence was an issue, both men in Mauli's life manhandle her when angry...
We have Mauli, I don't see her slapping or hurting anyone, isn't that how normal people react with each other? Any kind of abuse or use of power is a big NO in relationship, this isn't about genders...I know this has happened in many ITV shows but in those shows female lead slaps male lead LRC, here when they can show how classy Mauli is that she never resorted to violence, when they can deviate from this path of itv they can surely not show men manhandling women as their way of showing their love...
So this thing that Ishaan did has pushed me a little against him, before wedding he is doing this after wedding he will beat her with belt in name of love, that's how it starts no?
Mauli broke her engagement with Ishaan, what's wrong with that? I think everyone on forum was saying for past few weeks that she should break up with him and she did, isn't this what we all wanted? What surprised me was that instead of being relieved that she doesn't have to marry him, she was actually crying, if I put myself in her place, imagine not wanting to marry someone but you have said yes and can't back off but you get a reason which absolved you of all moral responsibility? I'd take it as a golden opportunity, Ishaan's mom's wish is that golden opportunity for Mauli to let go of him, if she doesn't wish to marry him... But I feel that she does, she wants to marry him but -
1 She doesn't think she is good enough for him, her confidence is already low and his mom does a good job of killing every ounce if left by any chance...
2 She is not Nandini, Mauli said that she wanted to make a new bond not break old ones, she can't tell Ishaan that his mom asked her to cut all ties with Dida and Radhika, because it will push him away from his family, Nandini didn't care about it, she didn't care that her existence in Kunal's life wasn't only hurting Mauli but breaking his all bonds with his family and Mauli is not like her.
Now don't say she was so happy with Mishti the next day, she made a promise to Mishti, like everyone demanded she put Mishti above her romantic relationships, she could have cried over her broken relationship but she has a daughter to take care of...also she doesn't love him
"Tum Akele Kaise Ye decide kar Sakti ho" - Ishaan about Mauli calling off the wedding...
When two people are involved in a relationship, one of them has every right to take the decision, here if Mauli is taking the decision that she won't marry him alone then Ishaan is taking the decision to marry her... If I don't have a right to break up in my relationship then who does?
Just think about it, Ishaan can decide that he will marry Mauli, Matlab he can decide that her consent is not required in marriage but Mauli cannot decide that she won't marry him...
It's like Ishaan deciding that Mauli has to eat meat even though she is a vegetarian and Mauli deciding she won't eat meat because she is vegetarian... Matlab, Mauli is making decision for her life and Ishaan is making decisions for Mauli's life...
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