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Posted: 6 years ago
#31
Lol...I don't think we can blame kunals upbringing for his adultery and EMA and treating Mauli like trash. I think we rather have to blame his raging male hormones...where one Woman can not satisfy him but he needs to change wives every few years...ok nandu was lucky she died before he left her ...but he definitely has forgotten her and is ready to move onto another woman 😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Mishti is not a brat, this was the same girl who wouldn't leave Pari alone in the camp, same Pari and same Mishti..Mishti is the same girl who tolerated pari's snappy attitude "I won't share my buddy" without holding it against her...

She is going through a drastic change in her life, even normal kids are jealous when their family give more importance to other kids, Mishti's jealousy is normal, why are we expecting her to share her family happily when Pari refused to share her buddy when she didn't even know that Mishti is related to him?

Regarding that bathroom scene, whoever wrote that is disgusting, there should be some difference between Mishti and Rajdeep no? But of course like Nandini got sympathy from Rajdeep's act, Pari has to get sympathy so she turned Mishti into a person like Rajdeep...

That scene was criminal in nature, Mishti can be put away in juvenile jail for it, it's not a small thing but this writer obviously does not understand where to draw lines...

I remember similar scenes are used to show rapes in TV, where rapists increase the volume to stop Victim's voice... A very disturbing scene and to put a child in it.. Even more disturbing

Completely agree .Wanted to write the same about Mishti . She never behaved this way with Pari before knowing the truth .She now thinks it was because of pari that kunal left her . Mauli or someone else needs to sit ,talk and explain things to her ,that pari is not at fault. But ,such maturity is not expected from the writers
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Kunal is a good father.. To me this is a joke
Kunal has two daughters

Mishti - She prefers Ishaan over Kunal, you can say that's because she doesn't know Kunal, chalo she knows Kunal, she comes to know that kunal slept with her mother's friend and cheated on her mother, called her presence as a dubta Suraj in his life, will she love him? Mishti should not know the truth about him? Then how is he a good father when he has to hide his past from his daughters because he never took any measures to correct his mistakes, why can't he tell Mishti that wo apni jagah sahi tha and that if Pari and Mishti's husbands cheat on them, wo bhi apni jagah sahi honge?

Pari - Pari was crying for Mauli's love, she didn't wish to share her buddy but one day with Mauli and she was ready to share her buddy.
Then at the dinner table when she was taking Mauli's name, Kunal emotional blackmailed her that he will leave her if she takes Mauli's name... How is that a good father? This is called tormenting a child, she has none in her life, imagine living under constant fear of losing your father.. This leaves a very bad mark on kids, who are impressionable, not only this but her father is head of her family, she could be fearing to lose her home, food and school, this is not what good fathers do especially fathers who are pediatrician and apparently understand child psychology
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: gurti227

Completely agree .Wanted to write the same about Mishti . She never behaved this way with Pari before knowing the truth .She now thinks it was because of pari that kunal left her . Mauli or someone else needs to sit ,talk and explain things to her ,that pari is not at fault. But ,such maturity is not expected from the writers


this is what i am expecting...she can't be behaving so mean to pari always...sit down n talk...thats the basic thing...now its done by ishaan...kunu...mauli...elders...everyone should sit n talk...sort out her mess...

what if something happened to pari tdy...who is going to answer for it...mauli would have died...she has already got so many issues in her life
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Kunal is a good father.. To me this is a joke

Kunal has two daughters

Mishti - She prefers Ishaan over Kunal, you can say that's because she doesn't know Kunal, chalo she knows Kunal, she comes to know that kunal slept with her mother's friend and cheated on her mother, called her presence as a dubta Suraj in his life, will she love him? Mishti should not know the truth about him? Then how is he a good father when he has to hide his past from his daughters because he never took any measures to correct his mistakes, why can't he tell Mishti that wo apni jagah sahi tha and that if Pari and Mishti's husbands cheat on them, wo bhi apni jagah sahi honge?

Pari - Pari was crying for Mauli's love, she didn't wish to share her buddy but one day with Mauli and she was ready to share her buddy.
Then at the dinner table when she was taking Mauli's name, Kunal emotional blackmailed her that he will leave her if she takes Mauli's name... How is that a good father? This is called tormenting a child, she has none in her life, imagine living under constant fear of losing your father.. This leaves a very bad mark on kids, who are impressionable, not only this but her father is head of her family, she could be fearing to lose her home, food and school, this is not what good fathers do especially fathers who are pediatrician and apparently understand child psychology



He didn't called Mishti or baby "dubta suraj" that was for his and Nandini's situation and relationship at that time
The way he handled Pari isn't called tormenting but handling kids in a clever way. Pari was making an unfair demand of constant presence of Mouli whuch was not possible. She was made to understand politely before too by Kunal. Wasn't Pari being criticized for being selfish for wanting Mouli and called all kinds of names but now her wanting Mouli is good and Kunal becomes bad for stopping her demands.
I could talk about Msihti's case here but then i know that will be used to ignore what i have pointed out above so keeping it limited to these points only
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages


when there is love..there is jealousy...its an automatic sync emotion... 😆

Kunan happened under her nose and she had no clue and she had the trust on the two most important people of her life...she let him go for her self respect furthermore she made a sacrifice if you ask me...thats how i see it...

now she has fallen in love again with the same jerk...mehek is a random chick and she had gone through this shit already...her emotions is overpowering her...13 yrs of love is no joke...jealousy apne aap hojati hai

How can anyone fall in love again with the one who cheated and betrayed her is beyond my understanding.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Strike



He didn't called Mishti or baby "dubta suraj" that was for his and Nandini's situation and relationship at that time
The way he handled Pari isn't called tormenting but handling kids in a clever way. Pari was making an unfair demand of constant presence of Mouli whuch was not possible. She was made to understand politely before too by Kunal. Wasn't Pari being criticized for being selfish for wanting Mouli and called all kinds of names but now her wanting Mouli is good and Kunal becomes bad for stopping her demands.
I could talk about Msihti's case here but then i know that will be used to ignore what i have pointed out above so keeping it limited to these points only


What was his and Nandini's situation? Mauli's pregnancy right? Mishti is the result of Mauli's pregnancy, no?

Handling kids in clever way involves emotionally blackmailing them?
Threatening that he will leave Pari if she takes Mauli's name? Do you understand what this can do to a child who has absolutely none in her life or any other child for that matter?

It's not about Mauli or anyone, it's not even about forum members, this is strictly about Kunal as a father, Kunal can definitely handle kids, when they are crying he can do the right thing to stop them from crying because that's his day job, that's what he does for a living but parenting is not handling, you can call emotional blackmailing as clever tactic to handle Pari but ask any child psychologist they will answer you how wrong it is to do this
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages


they are half siblings...
the elders need to think to clear her mess rather than leaving it as it is...i would rather see them as friends again rather than blood thirsty enemies...its really going to affect both kids childhood...its not healthy...they don't need to be soul sisters...good friend...healthy relationship would be good as it won't affect their childhood and stay away from negative things

as for kunu he is definitely a good man...this is why the crazy girl is madly in love with him😡...the jerk is too full of himself that he doesn't know the right n wrong...well he is definitely a good father which i accept with whole heart...it reflects on pari upbringing...


See i'm not saying mishty's behaviour with pari & whatever she doing with pari is right... it's totaly wrong...here not mishty responsible or nor ishaan...here is only mauli & Dida , radhika reposible for that...but who care about mishty...who is mishty ? now for mauli...mauli is busy with ex-husband raslila jelousy...Dida is busy towards advising to dump mauli...& radhika also want both kunal pari & mauli mishty happy...


here is situation totally tricky & messup thanks to writer...who can't handle both side equally...writer can't capable of handle complex story very well...pre-leap writer handle mauli with flaw very well but other side kunan handle very bad way... post leap...star very well with all character...i don't fill to criticize them un-necessary...


But now they show un-necessary kunal goodness...kunal is good father for pari but not for misty...its fact no one can deny that...please don't tell me he didn't know...he know...everyone tell him...mauli is pregnant with his child...he chose path of doubt & blame to mauli...mauli not force him to do that...he himself gladly chose for himself...he want to deny mauli's pregnancy & he did that...matter is close...there is no amount of justification stand it's my point of view...

See i'm mother (happily married life with some edhar-udhar tu tu - main - main 😆)...As mother...if my husband doubted about me about my character (i mean talking lie & want to degrade un-necessar other person for my pleasure or my own happiness or ego satisfaction ) being with so many years ups & down situation...i Can't take it...i never inform him about my child...i never agree to he is good father to my child...no matter what...later he came & claim he can do this & do that...do so many thing good for other children & take care of them lovingly...nothing can justify he deny un-born child when he got 1st opportunity from escape from responsibility...

about mishty's condition...i can't anyone can help her not even kunal the child physiology doctor also can't help her...only love a proper care & mostly time is biggest medicine for her...if kunal go & talk with her so many questions arise which doctor himself can't answer them very well & counter little girl...She now chose ishaan is her popsi...father of her life...kunal should stay away from her with his daughter pari...

See when mishty grownup & understand emotion of love as adult person then she can understand what actual matter of Mauli-kunal-nandinin...then she can decide appreciate kunal as father or not...right now each & every one try too spoon speeding her or forcefully throw there point of view on her...she keep quite for some time because she is small child but never understand there point of view.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Kunal is a good father.. To me this is a joke

Kunal has two daughters

Mishti - She prefers Ishaan over Kunal, you can say that's because she doesn't know Kunal, chalo she knows Kunal, she comes to know that kunal slept with her mother's friend and cheated on her mother, called her presence as a dubta Suraj in his life, will she love him? Mishti should not know the truth about him? Then how is he a good father when he has to hide his past from his daughters because he never took any measures to correct his mistakes, why can't he tell Mishti that wo apni jagah sahi tha and that if Pari and Mishti's husbands cheat on them, wo bhi apni jagah sahi honge?

Pari - Pari was crying for Mauli's love, she didn't wish to share her buddy but one day with Mauli and she was ready to share her buddy.
Then at the dinner table when she was taking Mauli's name, Kunal emotional blackmailed her that he will leave her if she takes Mauli's name... How is that a good father? This is called tormenting a child, she has none in her life, imagine living under constant fear of losing your father.. This leaves a very bad mark on kids, who are impressionable, not only this but her father is head of her family, she could be fearing to lose her home, food and school, this is not what good fathers do especially fathers who are pediatrician and apparently understand child psychology

@bold-Someone should ask this to kunal may be then only he will know what he did was wrong not sahi in his place.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: gurti227

Completely agree .Wanted to write the same about Mishti . She never behaved this way with Pari before knowing the truth .She now thinks it was because of pari that kunal left her . Mauli or someone else needs to sit ,talk and explain things to her ,that pari is not at fault. But ,such maturity is not expected from the writers


That's ideally what Mauli should have done on day one, but I still would say that no child thinks about locking another child and turn on the music system, sympathy chahiye unko bas...

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