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Posted: 6 years ago
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Unable to move on or fall in love again is ok but getting jealous of cheater ex-husband is what I can't understand.This is unlike mauli she was never jealous of Kunan.But now she is jealous.I can't related to this mauli.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: amolaarohi


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Hi...

don't worry i'm calm already...m just put my point of view regarding current ongoing plot...

Between i always enjoy reading your post...your post & point of view always sensible & logical...some time match with me & some time give me chance to thinking & understand different ways...i mean life always not white & black...have other rembow color too or life always not head & tail lik coin two side (aar ya paar)...


I wan't mauli should take time for herself...think properly...what she want for her & her daughter life...& don't destroy & mess other innocent life just like her & her daughter Misty...

& I don't feel misty a pamper child who unnecessary throw tauntram & pick on other child pari...here is elder responsibility be it mauli Or radhika & dida...they should know misty now know truth...so they need to extra careful regarding her...because she fill unwanted & also fill neglected because of pari's requirement ...See mishty not go there were pari is present & tactfully damage her...here un-necessary writer throw pari on misty's face...just like kunal throw on us as good human...good father...only one man on earth too all ladies...


they are half siblings...
the elders need to think to clear her mess rather than leaving it as it is...i would rather see them as friends again rather than blood thirsty enemies...its really going to affect both kids childhood...its not healthy...they don't need to be soul sisters...good friend...healthy relationship would be good as it won't affect their childhood and stay away from negative things

as for kunu he is definitely a good man...this is why the crazy girl is madly in love with him😡...the jerk is too full of himself that he doesn't know the right n wrong...well he is definitely a good father which i accept with whole heart...it reflects on pari upbringing...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Silpa91

Unable to move on or fall in love again is ok but getting jealous of cheater ex-husband is what I can't understand.This is unlike mauli she was never jealous of Kunan.But now she is jealous.I can't related to this mauli.


when there is love..there is jealousy...its an automatic sync emotion... 😆

Kunan happened under her nose and she had no clue and she had the trust on the two most important people of her life...she let him go for her self respect furthermore she made a sacrifice if you ask me...thats how i see it...

now she has fallen in love again with the same jerk...mehek is a random chick and she had gone through this shit already...her emotions is overpowering her...13 yrs of love is no joke...jealousy apne aap hojati hai
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: amolaarohi


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Hi...

don't worry i'm calm already...m just put my point of view regarding current ongoing plot...

hehe i am glad that u are cool with things . 😊
btw what i meant was dont think maunal is the end game and thus this is happening.. there is more to the story..

Between i always enjoy reading your post...your post & point of view always sensible & logical...some time match with me & some time give me chance to thinking & understand different ways...i mean life always not white & black...have other rembow color too or life always not head & tail lik coin two side (aar ya paar)...

thank you.. i am glad if my posts can make people ponder over things.. i came as a neutral member in the forum and will always be 😊

I wan't mauli should take time for herself...think properly...what she want for her & her daughter life...& don't destroy & mess other innocent life just like her & her daughter Misty...

yes!! i want that too.. but see she is trying.. she thought she is drifting away from ishaan and she was guilty about it.. thats what is mauli.. i know tomorrow she will get to know about kunal's mahaan sacrifice for her and there will be a twist again. but that is not happening right now so will discuss later..

yes she should think about her life.. can she accept ishaan ever or not?? will she be able to love him ever or not?? wont it be unjustice to him??

& I don't feel misty a pamper child who unnecessary throw tauntram & pick on other child pari...here is elder responsibility be it mauli Or radhika & dida...they should know misty now know truth...so they need to extra careful regarding her...because she fill unwanted & also fill neglected because of pari's requirement ...See mishty not go there were pari is present & tactfully damage her...here un-necessary writer throw pari on misty's face...just like kunal throw on us as good human...good father...only one man on earth too all ladies...

have talked about mishti already..!!
oh yes!! making mishti evil to raise sympathy for pari and not to show that she is hurt..

they should show that she is hurt..let her cry seeing dida pampering pari.. there are other ways too..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages


@green...i totally agree with you

but regards to mishti...i find her slight brat...even kunu was helping everyone and out of a sudden he turn into a person we cannot relate at all..thats a shocker...helping others is just s nature in the kid..the little girl has a good heart in helping others...a genes that inherited through her parents...Maunal has the helping nature in them..but there are times that mishti shows her bratty behaviour...like when she was questioning her mom regards to pari visit...than she stops radhika from talking...this are rude behaviour which need to be corrected and its a cause of over pampering too...mishti push pari and mauli scolded her but did she realise her mistake...the answer is No...today she realise her mistake...the answer is No...she wanted to cover up her mistake by telling radhika not to inform her mom...this are not good signs...i guess this was what kunu childhood was all abt thus he didn't know the right n wrong...she has issues instead of being rude n mean...talk it out to the person who bothers you..he has the answer to all the questions...by hurting pari thinking her as your enemy is only making things worst and the elders along with Mauhaan are not helping her out either...like i say mishti hears to everyone but she does what she likes...


Does any of the elder ever explained this 6 years old kid that why her father left her and her mother ? Neither mauli nor family ever tried to console the child by explaining her or convincing her that she herself or pari was not at fault when her father left her and her mother.

Nobody every tried anything so child become insecure about her every relation like my dadi,my grand mother,my popsi,my mumma so she is claiming everyone belongs to her only and not pari just like kunal belongs to only pari and not her.She doesn't want her any other relations left her for the sake pari so this my my claiming is going on her every relations. She doesn't want to share her mumma ,popsi ,dadi,dida to share with pari just like pari doesn't want to share her buddy with anyone so she was questioning her mother on pari visit.

yes she stopped radhika from talking because according to her and as she had told in front of everyone that everyone hides from her that pari's father is her father too so now due to this oldies immature acts this child has trust issue too that this oldies can hide things from her so in process of listening truth from her mumma's mouth she stops radhika from talking .This oldies including mauli is highly at fault by not giving convincing answer to a child that why they all hide that pari father is her father too .why no answers for her?now she is having trust issues because of their silence and ignorance.

Do you expect this level of maturity to understand straightly talk to the person who bothers from a 6 years old child ??! Child even can't understand what is bothering means they only knows they are hurt for some reasons. It's elder's job to understand that something is bothering to child so let's find out what is bothering her and give her convincing solution for the same but her oldies & goldies all are having ignorance and dark silence on child's mental situation and questions.

Mishti hears everyone but does what she wants it is not because she is spoil brat but because of trust issue with everyone that may these people can left her for pari just like her father did so she is not trusting anyone fully when it comes to her own close relations .Oldies goldies all are at fault by being ignorant and keeping silence on child's questions .
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

It depends on nature...my cousin who lost his fiancee to death till now has never moved on in life and took a decision of never marrying anyone to stay loyal to her...i have met some people whose loved of the life cheated them but they still haven't move on...its life and we can't really judge an emotion

there are people who believe that loves happen again
there are people who believe love happens once for a lifetime

you can't force people to fall in love...it happens...in the case of mauli she loved kunu truly and her nature whom she believes that love happen once...you can't change her mindset...its intact in her...only she help herself...she can move on...its easy to say move on but for people like mauli...who are so sensitive and emotional...its not easy for them...for mauli its impossible at all...only if she tries only she can move on...currently its a fact she is not in love with ishaan

sadly then Mauli is a total fool. She will always come second best to Kunal. Maybe even third best if he leaves her again for some other woman. Also Kunal never said that he still loves Mauli. If he wants to be with her there could be other reasons ..like he is lonely, lol 😆even Kunal said himself thst Ishaan is better for Mauli than him..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sancheeta

@ Mages - Ok, so now Ishaan's pampering is making Mishti randomly hate on Pari or the fact that she got to know that Pari's father is her real father as well which is pushing her towards the wall regarding Pari is the actual reason? Am I missing something here?
And no way am I advocating Mishti's behavior. She is wrong and she needs to be pulled up for what she did to Pari.


all i can say...she is a pampered child...there should be balance in pampering n strictness...

real father...foster father is not an issue at the moment...she has problems with her biological father sort it out with him...pari is at no fault at all...why is she not telling pari that kunu is her father too...thats sorts out all issues

running away from situations...living the issues as it is...is never a solution...talk it out clear the mess...all the little kid is assurance from her father that she is loved..its the elders who should take the initiative and sort out b/w the father-daughter duo...than they can separate in a happy note

she cannot live her childhood with negativity n bitterness in her heart...what she did is immaturity but this habit will intact in her even after she grow up if things doesn't go her way...sort out her mess...which is more important...what she did to pari was very mean n inhuman...if god forbid anything happens to pari...she will regret her whole life...there is no forgiveness to that...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Mishti is not a brat, this was the same girl who wouldn't leave Pari alone in the camp, same Pari and same Mishti..Mishti is the same girl who tolerated pari's snappy attitude "I won't share my buddy" without holding it against her...
She is going through a drastic change in her life, even normal kids are jealous when their family give more importance to other kids, Mishti's jealousy is normal, why are we expecting her to share her family happily when Pari refused to share her buddy when she didn't even know that Mishti is related to him?

Regarding that bathroom scene, whoever wrote that is disgusting, there should be some difference between Mishti and Rajdeep no? But of course like Nandini got sympathy from Rajdeep's act, Pari has to get sympathy so she turned Mishti into a person like Rajdeep...

That scene was criminal in nature, Mishti can be put away in juvenile jail for it, it's not a small thing but this writer obviously does not understand where to draw lines...

I remember similar scenes are used to show rapes in TV, where rapists increase the volume to stop Victim's voice... A very disturbing scene and to put a child in it.. Even more disturbing
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Mishti is not a brat, this was the same girl who wouldn't leave Pari alone in the camp, same Pari and same Mishti..Mishti is the same girl who tolerated pari's snappy attitude "I won't share my buddy" without holding it against her...

She is going through a drastic change in her life, even normal kids are jealous when their family give more importance to other kids, Mishti's jealousy is normal, why are we expecting her to share her family happily when Pari refused to share her buddy when she didn't even know that Mishti is related to him?

Regarding that bathroom scene, whoever wrote that is disgusting, there should be some difference between Mishti and Rajdeep no? But of course like Nandini got sympathy from Rajdeep's act, Pari has to get sympathy so she turned Mishti into a person like Rajdeep...

That scene was criminal in nature, Mishti can be put away in juvenile jail for it, it's not a small thing but this writer obviously does not understand where to draw lines...

I remember similar scenes are used to show rapes in TV, where rapists increase the volume to stop Victim's voice... A very disturbing scene and to put a child in it.. Even more disturbing


i would like to add that mishti was the same girl who welcomed ishaan's mother by touching her feet and said all lovely things to her..

@mages - if u think kunal has given a better upbringing than mauli and family then i would like to disagree just bcz pari isnt under such circumstances like mishti , we Can not blame UPBRINGING for every action of kids ..

rDhika dida were blamed for bad upbringing.. even u are again saying that there was something lacking in their upbringing for his deeds.. this is unbelievable.!!

can we say the same about all murders and rapists?? 😕
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages



all i can say...she is a pampered child...there should be balance in pampering n strictness...

real father...foster father is not an issue at the moment...she has problems with her biological father sort it out with him...pari is at no fault at all...why is she not telling pari that kunu is her father too...thats sorts out all issues

running away from situations...living the issues as it is...is never a solution...talk it out clear the mess...all the little kid is assurance from her father that she is loved..its the elders who should take the initiative and sort out b/w the father-daughter duo...than they can separate in a happy note

she cannot live her childhood with negativity n bitterness in her heart...what she did is immaturity but this habit will intact in her even after she grow up if things doesn't go her way...sort out her mess...which is more important...what she did to pari was very mean n inhuman...if god forbid anything happens to pari...she will regret her whole life...there is no forgiveness to that...


Don't you think we are expecting a little too much from a 6 year old? Like talk to your biological father and sort things out?We adults sometimes cannot get things straight in our lives and here we want a 6 year old to deal with such serious issues? Her mother herself is in a confused state, then how can a child be expected to sort out the complications in her life? And I did say before, Mishti is wrong and she should no ways be let go on this one.

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