selective amnesia! - Page 5

Originally posted by: Mages

guys BV is a story that deals with social issues...thus the female has to be strong who fight battles...

females in general should be strong. what's the point of showing a woman madly in love with her cheater husband , a woman who is being cheated, humiliated and left by her cheater husband .. can u please explain?

can i know what battle is mauli...nandini fought for...for a jerk...

i dont know about nandini but mauli did fight a battle.. its a mental battle that she is been fighting for ages.. and still she isnt over it.. and she needs to win this battle by not falling in love with her cheater husband but getting out of it..

Silsila is not story of social issues...its a complicated love story...unusual love story...its not giving any social messages

@red -- you see it as maunal love story. but the whole world knows it was never a love story in first place.. it was purely based on ema and its affter effects.. wasnt it until now??

..its just for pure entertaintment...

not again!! when kunan fans were criticised/ mocked/laughed at for the same "entertainmemt" thing then nobody from this side that they are right.. when ema can not be taken as entertainment then why do i am supposed to take "a woman going gaga about her ex cheater husband and a man after doing all the sins of this world coming back to his wife saying he was right at his place?"

some episodes can be for entertainment but this show isnt any entertainment please..

while BV is a show that gives out a social message...i have seen BV myself and know anandi's journey...she was such a strong female character who gives a message to the society...comparing a unusual love story with a show that deals with social issues...its far apart...Silsila was never been a inspiration to send a social messages...EKTA handles EMA subject way better than silsila makers

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

yes shows shouldnt be compared but this was gajra's work so we were discussing her approach towards female leads not comparing the shows..

and when the show is about ema, cheating , divorce and friendship and relationships then it will give a social messgae by the end..

if not a social message then a simple message.. i would like to see what that wiuld be .

i hope not "juzzbat juzzbat hote hai..."

Originally posted by: Mages

well for me..mauli needs happiness and inner peace...any ways it goes...its accepted

it can be mauli marrying ishaan

mauli going back to kunu

mauli staying single lifelong

whatever decision she takes...i will accept it with whole heart...what i want for her is happiness and inner peace...there is nothing more important in life than inner peace

she loves kunu its not wrong...i don't see it wrong..though he is a cheater...her love was true for him...furthermore its not easy to forget a 7 yrs relationship in which she share emotional n physical moments with kunu and also give birth to his daughter...she can never forget this man till her death...its easy to say move on in life but for the person who suffers they know it..its not easy to move on...for some they move on...for some they never move on...if she decides to go back to kunu..life is all abt forgiving n let go...she gives a chance again...it takes braveness and guts to take back a weak n flawed man...it does happen in real life where wives accepts their cheating hubby n give a chance and those hubby reform n stay loyal to their wives...its not something that doesn't happen in real life...i have one in my family too

coming to ishaan...she has fallen in love again with kunu...its deep n intense as per current situation...if she compromise and marry ishaan...both will be stuck in a loveless marriage...she can never give the love that ishaan deserves...its being unfair to him...he is a great guy and he deserves love in his life and not loneliness...there are lots of things mauli needs to sort out from her past as well make firm decisions for the future...its not going to be easy for her n mishti...

staying single and co-parent is the best option...

there is no control over love...emotions and feelings but decisions taking is definitely in your hands

Originally posted by: Mages

@bold...thats what the tag is all abt...gajra is doing justice to the tag since pre-leap upto now 😆...she is being true to her narrative

well i believe mauli is going to stay single...its heading that way only...

Originally posted by: sancheeta

Arshi asya - aapne yaad taaza kar di Balika vadhu ki. Dadisa became my fav and the journey even she had along with Anandi to change her rigid orthodox mindset at an old age was shown fabulously, also Surekhaji being my favorite also helped.. though didn't follow the show till the end so don't know how they wrapped up. I recently came to know that Mauli was Gajra's creation and was really looking forward to know her journey and even the bold concept that they picked regarding EMA, I wanted to see how they'll depict it in today's society. First Nandini was doomed and now Mauli being reduced to merely pining for her ex, sigh! Shouldn't have expected better.

Hi PW!
I know you said not to waste my posts, thanx for the concern 😊. You said 20 posts in 24 hrs, right? So I'm being careful there. Waise toh I was more of a silent reader, silently liking posts which I agreed on.. you can make that out by the number of yrs I've been on this platform and the number of posts I've made 😆 , also didn't have that much of a stamina and time to argue on the forums. But this Kunal made me break my silence.
Didn't watch today's episode, neither willing to. Yesterday's making my ex jealous and trying to get one up with my ex by showing off the new man in my life wali Mauli was enough for me, cannot stomach more such antics from her 😆 Just waiting for my IshTi to be ruined for MauNal's sake, then I'll also finally move on 😆 Pata chala doodh mein se makkhi ki tarah nikal diya 2nd popsie ko so that 1st wala popsie can take his rightful( 😕 )place in her life.

Originally posted by: sancheeta

Hi PW!
I know you said not to waste my posts, thanx for the concern 😊. You said 20 posts in 24 hrs, right? So I'm being careful there. Waise toh I was more of a silent reader, silently liking posts which I agreed on.. you can make that out by the number of yrs I've been on this platform and the number of posts I've made 😆 , also didn't have that much of a stamina and time to argue on the forums, but this Kunal made me break my silence 😆 😆
Didn't watch today's episode, neither willing to. Yesterday's making my ex jealous and trying to get one up with my ex by showing off the new man in my life wali Mauli was enough for me, cannot stomach more such antics from her 😆 Just waiting for my IshTi to be ruined for MauNal's sake, then I'll also finally move on 😆 Pata chala doodh mein se makkhi ki tarah nikal diya 2nd popsie ko so that 1st wala popsie can take his rightful( 😕 )place in her life.

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

right!! and thats why she was criticized by this forum only , by us only by maunal fans only and by mauli fans..

i feel so detached to yesterday's mauli that i dont feel anything for her end game..

i am still to watch todays episode.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Tagline itself is so flawed. Juzzbat ke naam pe murder bi chalega.

All is fair in love and war was not enough. Gajra came up with a classic one- Juzzbat sahi ya galat nahi hote, Juzzbat juzzbat hote hn. And then we had actors defending it.

The way they put so much stress on it makes me feel as if all other kind of juzzbat other than love with one man stand for nothing. Bs ek hi juzzbat bacha h duniya me.

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

totally agree!!

have u heard these lines??

aur bhi dukh hain zamaane meiN mohabbat ke siwa
raahaten aur bhi hain vasl ki raahat ke sivaa..

i sincerely want to tell this to makers..

Hav not heard these lines.But seriously makers should hear these lines.