Originally posted by: Anahi
@tm - will reply to u in a separate post..
@indira -- the N you described does exist in society but certainly nandini wasnt shown this way.. the Nandini u are taking about is plain selfish.. but here we see a nandini who is selfish one day and other day she decides to leave the city for mauli.. one day she is again selfish she accepts kunal again and the other day she again thinks of mauli..
i wish she was shown the way u have described then she would have termed as a negative character..
@Poiu and @priya -- i totally agree with you guys on how nandini was supposed to be grey but writers even failed to execute the grey element too.. they kept jugglish between "selfish" and ",mahaan" . if she was shown grey she would have accepted that she has hurt mauli but she cant help it she loves kunal and he is her life and he loves her too.. she would have accepted that she cared about mauli but she could not let kunal go as he is her life.. but here we see nandini saying that she doesnt want to hurt mauli which she already had done many times..
@shajadha -- dd was really good in initial episodes where she knew what her character is supposed to do. she was good when nandini was falling for kunal.. but the day she accepted his proposal and kicked mauli's thoughts out of her mind , dd started to lose her grip on nandini.. and its not her fault , its completely the writers fault..
Ok anahi about the character inconsistency which you mentioned .
Let me put a situation
A human being reacts to any situation from his brain ( limbic system )
A normal human being is always conditioned to respond in a certain way by his or her parents , teachers and friends .
So their is a reason why you are you and i am me .
So if i were put in a similiar shoes as nandini i would castrate rajdeep . Take help of mauli rebuilt myself and marry someone else . If by chance ifeel attracted to kunal , i would react back with indifference .
Now all this is because i have a consience and somewhere around i cant backbite my friend .
What happens if i dont understand that i am wrong .
What if i dont have a moral compass .
What if i dont even know and dont understand the consequences of my action
We all are taught to remain in lakshman rekha . We all do remain in it . Because we understand it .what uf she does not understand it . She understands only one thing herself .
Nandini loves herself , does things which is advantageous to her .
Rest allshedoes not care .
That is nandini
When you dont understand a perticular thing you react in unexpected manner .
The nandini does not consider ema wrong because it gives her happiness . ( narcissist always wants happiness of themselves )
Nandini kept coming back to kunal because she did not consider it wrong to be with kunal .
On why she made frevilous attempts to sacrifice for mauli .
Because , she wants to be friends with mauli too . She does not want to loose friendship with mauli . So if mauli gets to know about this attraction from her husband (if he was sincere ) she would not loose mauli .
A narcissist thinks "Oh how can i take advantage of the situation . "
A covert narcissist hides all these attributes well. Hence It Was Not Blatendly Obvious
I hope i could ellucidate nandini
Edited by Tumpaasaao - 6 years ago