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Posted: 6 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: pamk06


Yes, just when they finally made him right, they are sending him back to the gallows. Guess we are going back to the same old story.

I guess they did the whole separation thing so Mauli is on the clear regarding the pregnancy. Now kunal not knowing about the baby will be only on Kunal's head because even Nandini is on the clear.

So Kunal is getting butchered royally...


mouli clrarly told nandini that she is pregnant...

ab jab kunal wapas jaayega rote rote and say mouli faked pregnancy and nandini going to believe him??that means she is also not trusting mouli words..

both are losers...they deserve each other for sure...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajh


mouli clrarly told nandini that she is pregnant...

ab jab kunal wapas jaayega rote rote and say mouli faked pregnancy and nandini going to believe him??that means she is also not trusting mouli words..

both are losers...they deserve each other for sure...

In other words bot characters are butchered to glorify mauli and ppl here says that cvs are painting nandini white lol.Gajra is writing what she is good at the story of EMA victim and consequences of EMA bus baat khatam.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: pamk06


I think Kunal is the only one grown in this show. He has become more assertive whereas the previous one was childish. Yes we still hate his actions and thoughts but he is the only one who knows what is best in this situation. He has not changed his course since he decided that its Nandini that he wants. He is the only person who acknowledges that marriage is over and only unhappiness lies on that path for everyone involved. Even his co-parenting suggestion yesterday was in line with the fact that baby cannot be used as a point of reconciliation.

But if Mauli is indeed lying about not being pregnant, then yes we are again heading towards Kunal getting butchered for glorifying the other two characters as not believing the pregnancy would only be his fault.



I am sorry but I have to disagree with you on Kunal being grown. His talk about co-parenting made no sense. Coparenting isnt for K-N to discuss, at least not now. If he was serious about co-parenting he would talk about it with Mauli first. Moreover, Nandini being with him or not should have made no difference in that decision. Even with Nandini gone, if Kunal had little bit of guts or he was a grown man had more than just juzbaat he would have told Mauli that he wasnt going to come back to a miserable marriage and Nandini had nothing do with it, he just wants to move on in his life with his kid and that he think co-parenting would be the best option for their (broken) family.

Kunal didnt want co-parenting for the kid, he wanted it to stay with Nandini. Once she left, he thought NAdini nahi toh Mauli hi sahi. Ek aurat ho chahiye chahiye.

Kunal isnt being butchered for Mouli, Kunal and NAndini are simply the badly written characters in the most perverse love story. ANd while MOuli is also being butchered at the moment, she has moral high ground which turned out to be more attractive than divine love for the viewers.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheMockingBird

In other words bot characters are butchered to glorify mauli and ppl here says that cvs are painting nandini white lol.Gajra is writing what she is good at the story of EMA victim and consequences of EMA bus baat khatam.


If Nandini just accepts Kunal again without thinking that Mauli never lies then yes, both will again be butchered and we will be seeing an EMA victim story.

It should actually not be that difficult to keep all three consistent right? Why cant they give us three separate journeys and they had so many opportunities to do it. This way both Nandini and Mauli will remain intact and Kunal will suffer too.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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I think it's arrogance!
Dunno whose God foresaken EMA are they trying to defend but with their tagline "juzbaat sahi ghalat nahi hote..., n then I heard DD's iv from before the show started that what u do as an individual isn't wrong, might be wrong for marriage but isn't wrong in general so it pretty much gives u the idea that they were gonna glorify EMA!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: pamk06


If Nandini just accepts Kunal again without thinking that Mauli never lies then yes, both will again be butchered and we will be seeing an EMA victim story.

It should actually not be that difficult to keep all three consistent right? Why cant they give us three separate journeys and they had so many opportunities to do it. This way both Nandini and Mauli will remain intact and Kunal will suffer too.


I think she will accept him and they will get married .In an interview jaya said something like that story is changed for viewers as you can see maximum viewers want kunan to get married and mauli's seperate journey and writer herself is more interested in writing one character that is mauli.So both kunan characters are butchered for one character .Some times i think writer is being paid only to write one character.Anyways i hv lost interest in the show as it is going in typical predictable manner so not watching it these days and hv no plans to watch it in future just will read written update.I sometimes feel for both actors who are bashed becoz of writers mistake.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: looseseal



I am sorry but I have to disagree with you on Kunal being grown. His talk about co-parenting made no sense. Coparenting isnt for K-N to discuss, at least not now. If he was serious about co-parenting he would talk about it with Mauli first. Moreover, Nandini being with him or not should have made no difference in that decision. Even with Nandini gone, if Kunal had little bit of guts or he was a grown man had more than just juzbaat he would have told Mauli that he wasnt going to come back to a miserable marriage and Nandini had nothing do with it, he just wants to move on in his life with his kid and that he think co-parenting would be the best option for their (broken) family.

Kunal didnt want co-parenting for the kid, he wanted it to stay with Nandini. Once she left, he thought NAdini nahi toh Mauli hi sahi. Ek aurat ho chahiye chahiye.

Kunal isnt being butchered for Mouli, Kunal and NAndini are simply the badly written characters in the most perverse love story. ANd while MOuli is also being butchered at the moment, she has moral high ground which turned out to be more attractive than divine love for the viewers.


The way I saw the scene was that Kunal wants to spend his life with Nandini. So, he first has to find out what her thought process is on whether she is ready or not for co-parenting. Based on what he said, Nandini would be a good mother and would love the child more than him so he really had no issue there. it was only a matter of convincing Nandin about the whole idea of co-parenting as her thinking is more traditional

If Nandnin was not agreeing to it, then the decision would be whether he wants to stay with Nandini or wants to be a father. In both the scenario, a reconciliation is definitely not required. Secondly, totally agree that he needs to talk to Mauli and mutually come to a decision on what the next steps should be regarding the baby's future. Only Mauli and he should be involved in that discussion because it is their baby and they alone are responsible for it.

Thirdly, Kunal already mentioned in one of the previous episodes that his marriage with Mauli is over. So, even if he breaks up with Nandini, he would stay alone but cannot go back as there is nothing left there. So irrespective of Nandini, in Kunal's mind, Mauli and he are over. So the only reason he went yesterday was because Nandini asked him to go. Remember they did this scene where he said you do not need a promise, you just need to ask and I will do it. That what it was. She asked, he went. If she wouldn't, Kunal would have chosen co-parenting with or without Nandini on his side.

Also, let us agree to disagree and that would be perfectly allright instead of going back and forth...😊





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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheMockingBird

I think she will accept him and they will get married .In an interview jaya said something like that story is changed for viewers as you can see maximum viewers want kunan to get married and mauli's seperate journey and writer herself is more interested in writing one character that is mauli.So both kunan characters are butchered for one character .Some times i think writer is being paid only to write one character.Anyways i hv lost interest in the show as it is going in typical predictable manner so not watching it these days and hv no plans to watch it in future just will read written update.I sometimes feel for both actors who are bashed becoz of writers mistake.


I was thinking they will give us a different story but if this is the route they are going then that would be it for me too as I have already seen BV and astitva and not interested in a repeat of the same story.😊


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: pamk06


I was thinking they will give us a different story but if this is the route they are going then that would be it for me too as I have already seen BV and astitva and not interested in a repeat of the same story. 😊


Exactly Infact Anadi and Dr.Simran are better written than mauli .I can't watch show to see same repeat story.Astitav was best show on EMA victim and best wprk of Gajra so far.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: pamk06


The way I saw the scene was that Kunal wants to spend his life with Nandini. So, he first has to find out what her thought process is on whether she is ready or not for co-parenting. Based on what he said, Nandini would be a good mother and would love the child more than him so he really had no issue there. it was only a matter of convincing Nandin about the whole idea of co-parenting as her thinking is more traditional

If Nandnin was not agreeing to it, then the decision would be whether he wants to stay with Nandini or wants to be a father. In both the scenario, a reconciliation is definitely not required. Secondly, totally agree that he needs to talk to Mauli and mutually come to a decision on what the next steps should be regarding the baby's future. Only Mauli and he should be involved in that discussion because it is their baby and they alone are responsible for it.

Thirdly, Kunal already mentioned in one of the previous episodes that his marriage with Mauli is over. So, even if he breaks up with Nandini, he would stay alone but cannot go back as there is nothing left there. So irrespective of Nandini, in Kunal's mind, Mauli and he are over. So the only reason he went yesterday was because Nandini asked him to go. Remember they did this scene where he said you do not need a promise, you just need to ask and I will do it. That what it was. She asked, he went. If she wouldn't, Kunal would have chosen co-parenting with or without Nandini on his side.

Also, let us agree to disagree and that would be perfectly allright instead of going back and forth...
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bold: my point exactly. He didnt go back for the kid. He isnt a grown man with thoughts who thinks about his life and his kids. If he really was a grown man wouldnt he have courage tell Nandini that she can leave if she wants to but he wasnt going back to Mouli. What right does NAndini have to dictate what Kunals relationship with his son looks like. In the same scene he told NAndini that it wont be good for the kid to grow up seeing his/her parents sad and silent. And yet, just for sake of his beloved, who broke up with him, he goes back to the same miserable life? Did he even mean anything he said? Did he think about his kid at all? This is a man who happily broke wedding vows, but now he is back to his ex-wife because his ex-GF asked to?

This not only shows how weak of a man he is, but also how little he thinks about his life and now about his kid's life.

I had to say this, but yeah agree to disagree.

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