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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty



Ishita raised Romi's son, Adi's son idhar udhar ka baby she got to raise but only to a certain point.
We are talking about an itv show where EMA is divine love. In YHM first few episodes, Ruhi got attached to Ishita because Raman didn't spend time with her and in SBRK, Kunal left Mauli because she didn't spend time with him, don't you think they will introduce a track where Mauli's child falls for Saree wali ma ki kheer?


Just because a child may attach to someone more than the mother, should the child not be allowed to explore at all.
I have relatives who are so possessive about the child and it makes it toxic, no child should have to face it.
Child is not very experienced but is not competely stupid to not understand things.

Now, Mauli would spend time with her child and if she restricted meetings with Nandini completely, then Kunal would have to agree to it at the end of the day.

Don't try to underestimate the child. Besides if suppose child finds love in someone else then it comes to parents who were not careful to the needs of the child. Child is naive in that case and one can't really blame the other person. Children only care about the attention they get and they don't jump to anyone even if they don't get it sometimes. Bond of mother-child is very strong. They don't call every woman who showers them with love their mother. It happens only when the arent had been absent for far too long or was never there in the first place as was the case of Ruhi. Not every wonan who shows motherly traits is a bad woman. My cousin brother's neighbor (who doesn't have any child of her own) loves them so much and they love her too but that doesn't make her bad woman, right.

Child will understand things if you make them understand. They are that naive.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty



Are Behna
But the relationship between Mauli and Kunal is not this simple, is it? Mauli has feelings for him and he knows hence he lied to her about giving his relationship a second chance, what I am trying to say is that there is nothing mutual between these two, Nandini takes a decision and Kunal fulfills it. He could have said that he is back for the child but he said that he wants to give the marriage a chance, is lying part of mutual relationship?

Also I am talking in terms of itv and their silly plots where child is taken from mother and given to female leads, if there is a child and the show lasts long enough to show a future track then be sure of it that the baby will hide things from Mauli because Mauli ma time nahi deti hai and Nandini ma kheer banati hai. Radha Krishna to they are, now Nandini will be Yashoda too


I doubt there will be a child so no point predicting the future at this point. Kunal POV was completely different but Nandini forced him to go back. He did it because he loves her even though he did not agree with it.

Agreed that Mauli has feelings for him but if they would have gone separate ways, they would have to mutually decide what is best for the child and his well being irrespective of their feelings. Mauli can be revengeful here but I do not think she is and she will put her child well being in front of her feelings. No point discussing that too as Mauli has accepted him back so these are all "What ifs" now.

Edited: If the child does get attached to Nandini, it will not be Nandini's fault is it? He always love Mauli more as a mother. Children generally go to people who love them and its has nothing to do with if you are working for no. My mother loves our neighbor's children so much that they all call her Mamma. it does not mean that they do not love their own mother. Children are innocent and their thinking is shaped based on what they see and hear.


Edited by pamk06 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird


This is silsila we are talking about.We have seen many such posts not wanting to accept the garbage that is about to spread.It just starts slowly and then speeds.
Soon Nandini will be knitting clothes for the baby.

Question is why will Nandini love the child more ? More than whom ? Mauli ? Bcoz mauli will be busy in clinic earning and taking care of dida, radhika, baby financially.So nandu will fill up the void of motherly homely love for Child.If separation was on the way Gajra wouldnt have left twitter.Kunal mouthing those dialogues today is the real reason why gajra left.She must have been aware of the impending doom.Yes Nandini may also love child more bcoz mauli will die.


Ppl plz expect this to happen without 0 % doubt.



Kunal never said Nandini will love the child more than Mauli. He just said she would love baby more than him And enough to consider baby as priority at times if Kunal himself fails in that.

Hell, even child's dadi and badi dadi will love the child very much Just like a mother. But mother's love is different.

Every love is different for child. Unless the mother was completely absent, the child would not call any woman as it's own mother but here Mauli will be in picture.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I would see very badly nandini like a woman never will coome in mauli's child .hope mauli will not allow to touch kunal also l later.what is the point of nandini to become yasoda 😡..
Edited by sailuja - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshi_asya


Just because a child may attach to someone more than the mother, should the child not be allowed to explore at all.
I have relatives who are so possessive about the child and it makes it toxic, no child should have to face it.
Child is not very experienced but is not competely stupid to not understand things.

Now, Mauli would spend time with her child and if she restricted meetings with Nandini completely, then Kunal would have to agree to it at the end of the day.

Don't try to underestimate the child. Besides if suppose child finds love in someone else then it comes to parents who were not careful to the needs of the child. Child is naive in that case and one can't really blame the other person. Children only care about the attention they get and they don't jump to anyone even if they don't get it sometimes. Bond of mother-child is very strong. They don't call every woman who showers them with love their mother. It happens only when the arent had been absent for far too long or was never there in the first place as was the case of Ruhi. Not every wonan who shows motherly traits is a bad woman. My cousin brother's neighbor (who doesn't have any child of her own) loves them so much and they love her too but that doesn't make her bad woman, right.

Child will understand things if you make them understand. They are that naive.


just like mauli used to be absent for Kunal and Kunal found stronger bond with Nandini.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I have doubt that mauli is really pregenant???.but i don't mind whataver decision she has taken..but mauli should come out from kunal blind love😡
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I am not talking about children in real life, I am talking about ITV and this show.
Army officers, who live years apart from their wives don't cheat on them, where everyone is trying to succeed, a doctor won't fall for someone so needy when he has a wife like Mauli, so let's not talk about the real life here.

I am saying that generally in itv shows, they show that female leads love children more than the real mother and at the end kids leave their mothers for female leads, Kunal's dialog and Radhika's curse on Nandini are giving me signals that IF there is a baby the future track will be about Nandini loving the child and child leaving Mauli, like Kunal left her, simply because she was busy trying to build a better future for her as a single mother.
It may not be Nandini's fault because she is so lovable but if they take this route it will be most unfair with Mauli and I daresay Nandini has been grahan in Mauli's life stealing every ounce of light
Edited by FruitToasty - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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dil se dil tak... rashmi desai as shorvori was the more popular face female lead, and not only did teni played by jasmin bhasin get the baby just because she was the surrogate, but she also got the male lead in the end, with just like kunal the male lead saying he loves the other woman teni now when before he showed himself to love the wife strongly. Indian tv works weirdly.

But the pattern I have figured out is that the woman doesn't get her child and/or husband if she is too nice and understanding like mauli and shorvori and the other woman is shown as innocent and nice but their actions are the opposite (they think of themselves most of the time and dream about the male lead) like teni and nandini, then the other woman instead of the nice wife gets the husband and/or child. So far in sbrk, the other woman got the husband, but god knows they might show now the other woman getting the wife's child too.

The evil/ grey mother like shagun, maya and nisha (woh apna sa) lose their husband and children to the the goody and righteous female lead (ishita, saanjh, jhanvi).

So that's the pattern. The negative mother never gets the child or husband because of their own mistakes, and the good wife who lets the other woman live with her in her in-laws around her husband eventually loses her husband like shorvori and now mauli, but these sadistic makers may now show the other woman get the wife's child too in silsila.
Edited by sammy17 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird


just like mauli used to be absent for Kunal and Kunal found stronger bond with Nandini.


You are again trying to belittle child. Child's love is very different from adult love. For a child, love means different than an adult. Kunal didnot find love in his mother or dida but child will find that motherly love in these ladies too. Besides, Kunal cheated on Mauli, a child won't be a cheat if he/she considers other woman in higher regard. Besides, Mauli can make decisions for child but not for Kunal. If she is against chd meeting Nandini, then Kunal would have to follow it or if she says, Kunal can meet the child only in her home or in her presence, he would have to follow it. It's not like child will go to Nandini himself/herself to call her a mother.
Don't try to mix child's psychology with that of an adult, both work very differently.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Mauli would have to be shown careless and toxic and absent if makers give the child to Nandini and justify that too. Otherwise in no way, can that be justified.
If Nandini is restricted from being around the child or Kunal is allowed to meet child only in her presence, then there is no way Nandini can take the child away from Mauli. Even parenting demands hell lot of investment and child may one day question all those efforts to flush then in drain.

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