Nandini is a better friend and person than Mauli

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I wonder what kind of woman Mauli is. Nandini left her true love for Mauli's sake, but she still hates her? She doesn't even care for one second, that the person whom she once considered as her best friend is missing. All she cares about is her shaadi, her pati, her bachcha? So selfish!!!
Mauli fans in their hatred for Nandini will never see, that how big sacrifice she gave for Mauli. Kunal was ready to come to her and leave Mauli, but she just for her best friend, left him. A woman who has suffered so much in life, it's not wrong if she's a little selfish and thinks for herself. But she gave Mauli the priority over herself.
Now she's even ready to die, so that she doesn't come between Kunal and Nandini.
But nah, she's still a shameless woman, just because she couldn't control her emotions and fell in love with her best friend's husband. Well, no one loves with proper planning. It just happens.

Still Nandini came out as a much better friend and person than Mauli. Because when Mauli saved Nandini from Rajdeep, kept her in her home, she actually helped her, which any kind friend will do. But what Nandini is doing is sacrifice, that too her life. And for that, you not only have to be kind, but also brave, selfless and have a big heart.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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🤣🤣🤣 Sure! Nandini, the girl who twice dumped her best friend for a guy, the girl who slept with her best friend's husband and betrayed her trust even after her best friend helped/ supported her to get out of an abusive marriage, and even gave the credit of saving her from her abusive husband to her best friend's husband who she was having an affair with instead of to her best friend... is a better friend than mauli. Yeah sure! Mauli helped her once out of trouble and she gave her a betrayal she could have never imagined. Nandini had the opportunity to gain a life of independence after getting out of an abusive relationship with mauli's help, but instead chose a life of dependency and pleasing a man once again, at the expense of mauli's marriage. No need to help/ think of nandini a second time. 😆

And nandini after being saved by rajdeep again will fall into kunal's arm and forget about her firendship with mauli. Why think of a girl who picks sleeping with and hugging men over thinking about her best friend's feelings?
Edited by sammy17 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Nandini + Being a good person = IMPOSSIBLE

Nandini is not doing Mauli a favor by leaving Kunal, Kunal is Mauli's husband. In fact, Mauli has been doing a favor on them by publicly not shaming them for their deeds, which they actually deserve. If Nandini had the self control and presence of mind to contain her emotions for Kunal, I would have agreed with you. But she never spared a thought for Mauli and everything is about her love, her life, her happiness. She can't "return" Kunal to Mauli when Kunal didn't belong to her in the first place!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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While saving Nandini ,mauli dint had to sacrifice anything.True
While giving kunal back..nandini is giving up her only life...kunal.True

Wahaa !!
Quite a justification.
I can see through Nandini's more selfless self now.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Mauli lost her husband when he fell in love with someone else!!!! I agree, its sad what happen in her marriage, but, it's take a brave and selfless person to make the scarifies Nandani was ready to make for Mauli. I've read some of the comments written by Mauli's supporters and no matter what Nandani does it's alway the wrong thing. It's obvious something was lacking in Mauli's and Kunal's marriage. This is an example of life, these things can happen. I understand what Mauli is going through, but she also needs to respect herself and let him go if he doesn't want to stay.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: mattieram

Mauli lost her husband when he fell in love with someone else!!!! I agree, its sad what happen in her marriage, but, it's take a brave and selfless person to make the scarifies Nandani was ready to make for Mauli. I've read some of the comments written by Mauli's supporters and no matter what Nandani does it's alway the wrong thing. It's obvious something was lacking in Mauli's and Kunal's marriage. This is an example of life, these things can happen. I understand what Mauli is going through, but she also needs to respect herself and let him go if he doesn't want to stay.


There was clearly nothing lacking in their marriage, otherwise kunal would be able to answer that question, but he is never able to give a reason. Nandini has no redeeming qualities to like about her other than that she claims to love mauli and when she claims to try and get away from kunal for mauli's sake, the moment she gets into some kind of trouble she slips right back into his arms and goes back into her kunal lalala land forgetting her friendship. It's also the fact that she sees rajdeep as being a bad husband for the fact that he would best her, tried to sleep with another girl, was not good to her, yet thinks kunal is the perfect man only because he is nice to her and conveniently ignores the fact that just like rajdeep, kunal is an unfaithful and cheating husband, the only difference being that kunal has cheated on his wife with nandini herself, rather than nandini being the wife with an unfaithful husband. It's like she's blind and a hypocrite. A man is good just as long he is good to her clearly.


Past the rajdeep abuse, I don't see why nandini sympathisers expect people to see nandini as a good friend and a bechari despite her actions saying something else.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Oh god I thought we have this 'who is bad and who is better human being' topic behind us. So pls dont compare this two woman with each other cause theyre totally different.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I would give it to Nandini if at this point she still holds firm on her ground & refuse to let Kunal back in her life for the very same reason she broke up with Kunal last week. For me, that will be Nandini's demonstration of friendship.
If Nandini is right on her part about her concern & friendship for Mauli, then she herself should not be dating Kunal anymore in the first place now. Let Kunal take a decision that he wants to live with Nandini & let Nandini take a decision that she doesn't want to live with Kunal at this point if friendship is so sacred for her.

Rule of friendship- Never date your best friend's ex. I repeat NEVER. (It is breaking the code of friendship where it is mutually taken that one who wronged my best friend wronged me as well). This is a code even practiced in supposed developed countries of the world.

This is the first time Nandini tried to think about Mauli, but even here she left Kunal hanging in between without proper closure. She kept quiet when Mauli was molested & tried to tell him his reality. She kept quiet when Mauli was again manhandled & mistreated by Rajdeep countless times. She kept quiet when Kunal began his advances & rather then letting Mauli know about that she accepted his proposal.

It was Nandini who broke the friendship code by never choosing Mauli over her interest in Rajdeep & Kunal. Mauli still pushed her way to get her out of her damsel & get her back on her feet. Kunal could have never done that if it was not for Mauli's constant consideration for Nandini. It was Nandini's decision to get married to Rajdeep despite Mauli's warning & stay in that marriage until she saw Mauli as a hope to hold on to.


Mauli healed her & made her again, Nandini broke her by not turning down Kunal's advances & warning Mauli about him.


So, NO, Nandini is not a better friend than Mauli in any way.
And no, Nandini wasn't ready to die for Mauli out of sacrifice but because she was in that situation where she could see no escape. She was abducted & put in that life-threatening situation where she did not see any exit despite her attempts.She did not willingly walk into fire to die.


If Kunal isn't Mauli's to hold on to, then he isn't Nandini's too to give back to Mauli. She lost this battle & her ground the day she said YES to Kunal without blinking. She lost it on the day when they had sex without any introspection of their deed.

Moreover, Mauli should be thinking about well-being of Nandini every time even when she has been broken so much (and if she doesn't then she is the horrible person) but it's fine if Nandini doesn't think about Mauli at all, all the time but does this one task of going away from Kunal for the pinky promise (since she has suffered so much in past) & yet, she is a better friend. WOW!!!! All hails to you.

If Mauli is a horrible friend, then Nandini is more horrible than her as a friend.

But of course it's useless to talk about it to someone who has dictated a verdict already that Mauli has always been wrong.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Whatever Mauli has done for nandini is far far more than whatever "sacrifice" Nandini did for mauli. Mauli stood by her when she was alone. She shared her pain. Gave courage to her. Every time Nandini's happiness was on her mind. But what Nandini did was horrible. And Nandini isnt going to sacrifice her life for Mauli today. It was a kidnapping and not some balidan game. Mauli's marriage was perfect so she's unable to understand what went wrong and if Nandini was at her place she would have been more desperate to get her husband back.
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