i am actually happy with writer and the show

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adni143

@adni143

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

they are actually showing the truth because in real life these thing only happen

nandini like hypocrite woman defend themselves and their action in public like this and kunal like lafanga defend on the name of devine love and mauli like woman who are actually strong and not commit suicide comes out really strong and become more strong and stand up for themselves and their children

actually now i am really happy with colors for giving silsila and dsdt like show which show the real life scenerio

now you all will say that in real life actually these woman are selfish but tell me if you all really see their selfish side when they say that they care for other woman and just it was love and blah blah

actually i am really that this show taught me that we should not really defend them in real life and not even be fan of these kind of person like now i am no fan of salman or sridevi because now i know in real life what these people do and we fan only not let them get punishment as we say that its their personal life and and why i should care if i like what they are doing or they try to compensate by opening ngo to show off and we dont understand their manipulation

and actually this show is going on right path i dont think now we need to give abuse to writer as she really showing truth as she has promised the show has not been left this much impact if nandini was shown selfish by her words because action speaks louder than words

and with these shows we can actually see real life scenerio how teni like woman get man after man and shorvori like woman are left to die and how nandini like woman by showing their show off actually live with their pride and mauli like strong woman live with pride or a woman can live even after such betrayal they not need to do suicide for these scum or live a sad life but actually they should be happy to get independence from such douchebags and snake

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SiddJ

@SiddJ

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Posted: 6 years ago

Also in real life.. first wives don't go down without a fight..

And husbands will not be let off easily..

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@Rhimjhimsawan

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Posted: 6 years ago

I have mixed feelings. Unlike most people here I don't think the show tried to portray extra marital affair as an acceptable thing at all. In fact every episode they humiliate characters like Kunal and Nandini. It's not our opinion that they are being humiliated. Writers are actually writing this. They could've easily written and conniving Mauli shaking hands with her mother and Rajdeep and plotting to keep the love birds apart story from the day she found out the truth. But the writers didn't do that. Today's flashback was Kunal telling Mauli he will fight with badnaseebi to be with her. That flashback makes the current man look like a liar, a cheater, and a loser.

They have written Mauli really well so far. So kudos to them.

Nandini and Kunal are written well if they were meant to be written as disgusting characters. Every episode is a torture because of their scenes. But it's a necessary torture. Without their nasty affair I wouldn't get to appreciate how great Mauli is.

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shamil

@shamil

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Rhimjhimsawan
I have mixed feelings. Unlike most people here I don't think the show tried to portray extra marital affair as an acceptable thing at all. In fact every episode they humiliate characters like Kunal and Nandini. It's not our opinion that they are being humiliated. Writers are actually writing this. They could've easily written and conniving Mauli shaking hands with her mother and Rajdeep and plotting to keep the love birds apart story from the day she found out the truth. But the writers didn't do that. Today's flashback was Kunal telling Mauli he will fight with badnaseebi to be with her. That flashback makes the current man look like a liar, a cheater, and a loser.
They have written Mauli really well so far. So kudos to them.

Nandini and Kunal are written well if they were meant to be written as disgusting characters. Every episode is a torture because of their scenes. But it's a necessary torture. Without their nasty affair I wouldn't get to appreciate how great Mauli is.

agree to this!

I think whatever plan they had before to show them as divine couple, they have now dropped it😆

The writer is the same one who wrote BV and there we have seen how the jilted woman gets stronger and there too the pati and woh were insulted .

Ppl watch the show now to see KN get insulted. the hate for the characters is quite strong so they will cash in that aspect😆

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adni143

@adni143

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Mumoos
Also in real life.. first wives don't go down without a fight..
And husbands will not be let off easily..

no in real life i have seen strong and mature woman really doing so they just take somealimony as they dont earn for their children and even start working more to give them better future

so i have seen one of my aunt not even arguing just given divorce and is happy and her children have even become successfull as as they have seen their mother pain hardwork and love and they love their mother like anything because they just dont want their mother to be hurt anytime more anything and thats why they are extra careful because their mother is strong enough that she will not say anything evn if they will give them pain

and husbands even leave its not like they just get attracted but when they think that they can get her

i will not take star name but they have even done that only

you can see mauli even want to shout because her heart want that but she is a perfect balance of heart and mind thats why she is not shouting as her sane mind is stopping her

but when she has took champaign she is doing that letting her heart because her heart want to hurt them shout at them

i will be happy if she even shout at her own ma and munal mom and dida

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adni143

@adni143

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: shamil

agree to this!
I think whatever plan they had before to show them as divine couple, they have now dropped it😆
The writer is the same one who wrote BV and there we have seen how the jilted woman gets stronger and there too the pati and woh were insulted .
Ppl watch the show now to see KN get insulted. the hate for the characters is quite strong so they will cash in that aspect😆

ya i am saying only that they are not trying to whitewash as they are very strict for mauli character

in dsdt i have watched when shorvori was there even then they have never shown teni as some sacrificial one as they have shown her exactly how she was a selfish and manipulative girl

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SiddJ

@SiddJ

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: adni143

no in real life i have seen strong and mature woman really doing so they just take somealimony as they dont earn for their children and even start working more to give them better future
so i have seen one of my aunt not even arguing just given divorce and is happy and her children have even become successfull as as they have seen their mother pain hardwork and love and they love their mother like anything because they just dont want their mother to be hurt anytime more anything and thats why they are extra careful because their mother is strong enough that she will not say anything evn if they will give them pain
and husbands even leave its not like they just get attracted but when they think that they can get her
i will not take star name but they have even done that only
you can see mauli even want to shout because her heart want that but she is a perfect balance of heart and mind thats why she is not shouting as her sane mind is stopping her
but when she has took champaign she is doing that letting her heart because her heart want to hurt them shout at them
i will be happy if she even shout at her own ma and munal mom and dida

In my neigbourhood i have witnessed a different scenario.. a guy with a 23yr old child..may be a marriage that was longer.. went on to have an affair.. wife followed his car tracked him. Literally beat him up made him return and now they act as of every thing is okay.

Here what mauli is doing takes a lot of courage.. although her first instinct in confrontation, she still asked kunal.. how are we gonna get past this.

Generally i feel cheating is usually forgiven. but not abuse.

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@pamk06

Dazzler

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Posted: 6 years ago

I agree, they are showing reality. They are not whitewashing Kunal and Nandini. They are showing Mauli who is trying to come in terms with betrayal, understand what happened and cope up with it. They are showing K and N as normal people who fell in love at the wrong time. They are showing them as being selfish in that love and making choices to be together even if they are hurting everybody around them.

I am happy they have kept the basic nature M, K and N intact. Also, the wife's first choice is anger and second is to fix the marriage. In a bigger scheme of things, its easier to forgive cheating and that's what they are showing. But then what happens to the wife, if the husband does not want to come back and she for the life of her cannot think about the reason why. Then there is also bitterness which comes with pain and you want to hurt the person who is the reason for it. Hence, every time we see M lashing out at Kunal and Nandini. On the other hand, we see them not defending themselves at all because frankly they do not have an explanation other than "I am sorry" and just being guilty about the selfish choice they want to make.

I think the CV's are touching all three angles and they are showing reality. This is exactly how it happens.

Edited by pamk06 - 6 years ago

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@music_l0ver036

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 6 years ago

I totally agree with @Rhim when they pointed out that EMA has not been justified. It would have been if Kunal and Nandani were happy but they're not. Yes we would love to see them have some guilt but according to them they have nothing to feel guilty about. However, almost every other character, even freakin Rajdeep, has something negative to say about KN's union. No one will see their relationship as acceptable and no one should and I think that is one of the punishments of KN.

However, I believe where the writers went wrong was the lack of introspection from Nandani. She is not given the time and space to think about her actions and how it's affecting Mauli or even herself.

And I'm also upset with the writing because there's only focus on the EMA aspect and nothing else for the character of Nandani and now Mauli too. I wanted a deeper understanding between the friends and I also wanted more exploration of all the horrible things that happened with Nandani prior to meeting Mauli again.

They have done a fantastic job with Mauli and her thought process and her confusion and helplessness but I wanted the same kind of caution with Nandani as well.

I wanted to know the why behind Nandani's actions besides a simple she couldn't control it. It would have been nice to see more of her trying to control it and then the ultimate giving up of logic for feelings. There wasn't a lot of push and pull from Kunal or Nandani so their true love seems empty to me.

It's very easy to paint a person as bad without thinking about why they do the things they do. It's understandable with Rajdeep because his actions are 100% unforgivable. But no matter what, objectively, what Nadani or Kunal is doing is not at the same standard as Rajdeep so wanting a better writing to see the human emotions behind these two characters would have been nice to see.

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