Why exactly can Kunal not take a decision? - Page 2

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

I know kind of man Kunal is. Kunal and Nandini aren't even flawed. My criteria for flaws is very different in real.

The show will never be able to justify KuNan ever no matter how great chemistry they have. Writing is so screwed.

I agree with you that writing is f***d up completely, affairs can never be justified. Human emotions are evolving but honesty and loyalty is something an individual possess you cannot learn that. Kunal from falling in love till now has contradicted himself at every point and frankly his back and forth is giving me a whiplash so best to move on. I saw you on that other shows forum - it's a lovely show and for Ekta's show it's a breath of fresh air. Living outside India and coming home after a hard day's work last thing I want to watch is a man child who can't stand up for anything. I hate men like that in real life, no way would I watch on telly .

Originally posted by: vibha28

I agree with you that writing is f***d up completely, affairs can never be justified. Human emotions are evolving but honesty and loyalty is something an individual possess you cannot learn that. Kunal from falling in love till now has contradicted himself at every point and frankly his back and forth is giving me a whiplash so best to move on. I saw you on that other shows forum - it's a lovely show and for Ekta's show it's a breath of fresh air. Living outside India and coming home after a hard day's work last thing I want to watch is a man child who can't stand up for anything. I hate men like that in real life, no way would I watch on telly .

@arshi_ashya Yes that's the show. I like the male lead too, he is not indecisive and atleast he knows how to stand up for his wife. The girl is brilliant and I love that she is not a doormat.

Kunal can take lessons from him. I was highly surprised that Ekta has in her to deliver something like this but what do you know eh? Honestly I had hopes with this show but oh well. Nandini is a gone case from every angle kunal too and I don't want to wait for Mauli to join them so I am bowing out.

i will give you different perspective..you can agree or disagree with me about this..

Originally posted by: rajh

i will give you different perspective..you can agree or disagree with me about this..

it is hindu undivided family..usually all huf has a kartna -who will take all decision of family keeping interest of family in mind..other fallow his decisions..if family members have problem then they go him and tell him and the karta who takes responsibility to solve the problem..

now coming to serial --it is mouli in karta position for last 7 years and taken all decisions on behalf of family--

all have comfortable to sit in back seat where as mouli in driver seat..

kunal left job -he informed mouli -she taken responsibility..

kunal wanted clinic -mouli taken responsibility..

so in 7 years kunal become dependent on mouli to take decisions..

then affair happened..he did not know how to handle it...so he kept waiting for time to take decision..

revelation happened...

after some time mouli again recovered and taken karta position to solve this problem as kunal was dependent on her for any decision..

she decided to give divorce and allow kunal to move out of marriage..

kunal actually surprised [in court scene ] how fast can mouli take decision and that to in his interest..

so he become relaxed and assured nandini that he will not going leave her...

now dida heart attack happened..

again mouli taken decision for kunal and herself..they will wait for one month..have you remember mouli dialogue?/ tum apni dida ke keliye itna though kar hi sakthe ho??

and also allowed freedom to him to meet nandini whenever he want to meet her..

again kunal decided to abide by mouli decision as he know she will going to set everything right in one month..

so kunal depends on mouli for decision on his behalf and he has faith as well as trust in her decision as it will be surely in his interest...he knows she can handle his family on his behalf in this one month..

so basically he not going to take decision but will fallow mouli decision to solve problem on his behalf..it happened in past and it is happening in present too...

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

That's an interesting take. I wonder who will fill this position for him once he is divorced.

He is indeed dependent and spineless to not make a decision for himself.

Sometimes i wonder how kunal has taken decision regarding his patients . Sometmes u realy need to take a call which might not be a standard protocol. Bt then he isnt realy working . And the recent promo is so disturbing . Why is evryone hell bent on saving the alrdy failed marriage ? They r implyng it as sacred n rishta made by god . Then what abt tat fake baba who told nandani to proceed with her ruhani love . Kunal is seriously gvng nandani competion regarding which one of themis going to win the title of being worse

Because he is the sort of man who would want to have the best of both worlds. He wants to be with Nadnini but doesnt want to leave Mouli either. He says he loves Nandini but cannot take a stand for her in front of his family .He just comes across as pure spineless to me and I absolutely fail to understand why Nandini cannot see that a man who cannot take a stand for her today can never probably give her the respect and dignity she commands.Why can't both women dump his ass and move on in life?