Why exactly can Kunal not take a decision?

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Anjali

@arshi_asya

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

Well, apparently he is again gonna promise his beloved that he won't leave her nd she is again gonna believe it. He already has decided to divorce Mauli. Even Mauli doesn't want anything from him anymore.

So, why exactly is he doing all this drama when he knows what he wants. He wants Nandini and that should mean that he doesn't want Mauli as his wife anymore. What exactly is the problem in being upfront about what he wants or simply refusing that he don't wanna do it at all, to say that his decision won't change at all.

I am so hating this whole giving another chance drama. Dude, you know you want to live with Nandini, then do that. Why are you even trying to be this person who is absolutely loathsome.

This guy can't even stand for the woman he loves in front of his family. Can't even accept a closure in things with Mauli before a formal divorce and he can stand for Nandini in front of the world. He can provide Nandini with the respect. Apparently, this is the guy who Nandini thinks is her road to happiness. Wake up woman. You are being treated like a trash and for some twisted reasons you are fine with that on a continuous basis.

This show was being compared with Hasratein- I mean seriously. KT stood for Saavi once he knew he wants to be with her. He didn't do this two-timing thing. Even Jagiya stood firmly for Gauri for quite long. And returned only after ending things up with her, only to be rejected. Even Adi in YHM made it clear that he wanted to Be with Roshni only And not with Aliya.

And if now makers turned Nandini obsessive, revengeful who comes back to take revenge for I don't understand for what reasons unless makers want to show her as psycho person for sure just like Maya, then all hails to makers for ruining a potential strong character who is mthe most inconsistent character of any show. People grow but this show is gonna show the downhill of a character. And yes, sudden obsessiveness or losing out your original traits for some man is not my criteria of a strong individual. Guys who wrong their women need to be kicked out rather than fight for them or even cling to them.

This show could have easily sidelined the almighty power and presence of men once Nandini was out of her marriage And made ladies the firm decision maker. But no, how can a show run without a man who is disgusting and still he is gonna be the lead dude to be shipped with Nandini.

To Mauli, writers have given dialogues that tell that she still wants to go with divorce but to Nandini despite all this, you wanna show her hopeful to be with this man. Seriously.

It's like watching a show of last decade where in certain shows women were fine to be treated like trash for the sake of f**king love.

I can't watch spineless guys in this age and era. Moreover, I can't watch the ladies agreeing to be be treated like trash by these same guys for some reasons. Even Adi-Zoya are so scrutinized and criticized when they do such things. Dev-Sonakshi were so criticized for doing such things in the forum on general basis. If Nandini is the lead as a lot of people say, then that would make her worst lead I have seen in a long time. Even original heroines of EK weren't that bad as per the characterization.

Literally stopped watching because of the plot now and also time is bad. Just catching written updates and bits on insta for Mauli only.

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mango

@mango.falooda

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Posted: 6 years ago

the whole family is dysfunctional. yamini has no interest in her son and does not seem to care that her son has cheated on his wife. dadi old woman fakes a heart attack and gives lectures to the wife instead of tackling her precious grandson who made the mistake. neither mother or grandmother want to sit their son down and tell him off. apparently, it is mauli's job to wait and trust. kunal to dance around and nandini's job to worry. 😡

to answer you question, my answer is that he is from a family where no one has ever taught him to take responsibility or handle conflict or face life head on. he is from a family where no one is willing to ask tough questions and yell at each other. he is from a family that would rather pretend that they have no issues and will not call out a person on their mistakes. he is from a family that would rather celebrate one festival after another and eat kheer and hope that the situations would magically resolve itself.

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Anjali

@arshi_asya

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1
the whole family is dysfunctional. yamini has no interest in her son and does not seem to care that her son has cheated on his wife. dadi old woman fakes a heart attack and gives lectures to the wife instead of tackling her precious grandson who made the mistake. neither mother or grandmother want to sit their son down and tell him off. apparently, it is mauli's job to wait and trust. kunal to dance around and nandini's job to worry. 😡

to answer you question, my answer is that he is from a family where no one has ever taught him to take responsibility or handle conflict or face life head on. he is from a family where no one is willing to ask tough questions and yell at each other. he is from a family that would rather pretend that they have no issues and will not call out a person on their mistakes. he is from a family that would rather celebrate one festival after another and eat kheer and hope that the situations would magically resolve itself.

So true.

Kunal was taught to feel entitled or be pampered rather than be responsible.

No one asks tough questions and Kunal isn't willing to take tough decisions and apparently Nandini is fine with such a man again. She indeed has poor sight for deserving men.

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mango

@mango.falooda

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

So true.

Kunal was taught to feel entitled or be pampered rather than be responsible.

No one asks tough questions and Kunal isn't willing to take tough decisions and apparently Nandini is fine with such a man again. She indeed has poor sight for deserving men.

not for long. she has way too much self-preservation instinct and if she sees him unable to take initiative, she will leave. however, CVs have been butchering this story. 😡 so who knows.

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prettywomaniya

@prettywomaniya

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Posted: 6 years ago

he is not there to give a chance to their marriage . since mauli has decided to go for divorce , kunal had no other choice but to accept her decision. what bothers me is why he was shocked when he learnt about divorce and why he was not willing to go for it. he wanted to talk.. really.. about what..

but now he is not two timing.. he thinks nandini is his future and he is at his home just because of dida and her heart attack 😆

he doesnt value mauli's love and had forgotten his own love for her. i pity this guy.. the day he realise this it will be late.

wont talk about nandini.. she is selfish and she thinks kunal and she love each other immensely and there relation is STRONG.

its testing time for their relation.. i also want to see kunal kitne din tikta hai.

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731627

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Posted: 6 years ago

i am surprised that Nandini ready to bear humiliation from society for this Kunal ?

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Anjali

@arshi_asya

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Anahi
he is not there to give a chance to their marriage . since mauli has decided to go for divorce , kunal had no other choice but to accept her decision. what bothers me is why he was shocked when he learnt about divorce and why he was not willing to go for it. he wanted to talk.. really.. about what..
but now he is not two timing.. he thinks nandini is his future and he is at his home just because of dida and her heart attack 😆
he doesnt value mauli's love and had forgotten his own love for her. i pity this guy.. the day he realise this it will be late.

wont talk about nandini.. she is selfish and she thinks kunal and she love each other immensely and there relation is STRONG.
its testing time for their relation.. i also want to see kunal kitne din tikta hai.

I know he is not there to give chance. I just don't understand why is he even pretending. Just be upfront dude, like you were when proclaiming your love on all hold gods and scriptures.

And how is Nandini any better lead than a heroine who is fine to be treated like a side-kick every now and then with literally no independent, firm decision of her own.

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Vibha

@vibha28

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Posted: 6 years ago

I have stopped watching this show now - I really wanted to watch Mauli and her journey but I can't be bothered for a month for that.

Answer to your question is in my opinion Kunal has never been a decisive kind of man. He has no direction and no set goals for anything. He is highly impulsive and doesn't think of consequences. He told Nandini their love is true but he never stood for that true love. Now he wants to fulfill his dadi's wish but he is not being honest. See if you truly love one person you do not pine and remember old moments with your ex. Specially a doctor whom I think has life experience. This kind of behaviour is more suited for someone who is a teenager- although nowadays teenagers are not this bad.

Nandini- I am not going to talk about her because she refused to see anything but kunal and that's very dangerous. Whether he stays with her or not she needs her own identity.

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Anjali

@arshi_asya

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: vibha28
I have stopped watching this show now - I really wanted to watch Mauli and her journey but I can't be bothered for a month for that.

Answer to your question is in my opinion Kunal has never been a decisive kind of man. He has no direction and no set goals for anything. He is highly impulsive and doesn't think of consequences. He told Nandini their love is true but he never stood for that true love. Now he wants to fulfill his dadi's wish but he is not being honest. See if you truly love one person you do not pine and remember old moments with your ex. Specially a doctor whom I think has life experience. This kind of behaviour is more suited for someone who is a teenager- although nowadays teenagers are not this bad.

Nandini- I am not going to talk about her because she refused to see anything but kunal and that's very dangerous. Whether he stays with her or not she needs her own identity.

I know kind of man Kunal is. Kunal and Nandini aren't even flawed. My criteria for flaws is very different in real.

The show will never be able to justify KuNan ever no matter how great chemistry they have. Writing is so screwed.

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prettywomaniya

@prettywomaniya

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: arshi_asya

I know he is not there to give chance. I just don't understand why is he even pretending. Just be upfront dude, like you were when proclaiming your love on all hold gods and scriptures.
And how is Nandini any better lead than a heroine who is fine to be treated like a side-kick every now and then with literally no independent, firm decision of her own.

he is pretending bcz of dida's bad health conditions.. the day he will find she is fine he will probably move out th house.. accepting his love in front of the society is another thing.. i am waiting for that track.

nandini cares only for her and kunal's divine love 🥱. for her other relations do not matter.

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