Was Mauli a tad insensitive, pushy with K & N - Page 3

Originally posted by: Mishfan

I am sorry, but have to disagree that she was a tad insensitive, but Pushy, maybe

I always felt M's biggest flaw was her Complete Trust ( not Blind ) & her innate helpful nature.

that turned out too costly for her, wrecking her home & marriage.

But that's who she is. She is flawed like everyone.

We say that maybe she should not have been extra busy working hard to fulfill

her husbands dream or pushed K too much in helping out N & all.

But what if all her efforts turned out positive & not this EMA.

Would we be asking the same questions ??? NO

What I mean to say is...K & N or any other woman in N's place would have

happened irrespective of who or what M is / does.

M just became an excuse for these 2 to happen. But if we start doubting & questioning

if M & her Goodness is the reason for her marriage to fall apart, that becomes

Victim Blaming

The fault & burden of their sin is completely on K & N , IMHO

I would not bring M into this at all.

Oh & the divorce...I don't see any wrong in M filing for divorce without

informing K. Why , I ask , why should she ???

the guy has not an ounce of shame doing what he did & no honest remorse

for his lousy deeds. He does not have the spine to admit , nor the spine to commit

So why should she discuss with him??

Why I am not a bit surprised that he was shocked.

Mauli did it right this time.

Mouli trusted kunal and nandini blindly. And thought they have friendship only..

Originally posted by: sammy17

The way I see it is that mauli is not the possessive type of person, but someone who likes to give her partner space and trust. Kunal and mauli are two people she trusts a lot so she had no reason to think that by not being possessive of kunal, she would be pushing kunal towards nandini, and she never dreamed that nandini would seek her husband just to get other her trauma. She merely trusted kunal and trusted his love in her, and she wanted nandini to feel like she was cared for.

Plus i think... mauli always considered nandini as her sister also. We never think our sister and husband cheat behind our back na. Or may be she think kunal awill also consider nandini as his sister?

I agree to an extent as well. There were a lot of instances where Kunal was there for Nandani when Mauli could not. It's no wonder she fell for him, he was there when she tried to commit suicide, he took her to the concert, he was there when the elevator stopped, when the power went out at her apartment. Like you said, Kunal's was definitely a softer approach. It's not surprising that theres a bond that's created thats more than just friendship. Mauli always gives these dialogues about them being the best of friends but it's kinda created this faux image of Nandani in her mind. It was Nandani that didn't believe her when she told her about Rajdeep initially (obv there were good reasons for that and is another issue in and of it self) but if you put someone on such a high pedestal and they make a mistake, you get really really hurt. I mean they hadn't seen each other in years so why does Mauli keep insisting that their bond is unbreakable. I understand some frienships you can pick right back up but maybe I'm not as trusting as Mauli. Having said that, I would never think my bf and best friend would ever do anything behind my back. It's so outside of the realm of possibility so it's difficult to definitively say anything.

I agree to an extent as well. There were a lot of instances where Kunal was there for Nandani when Mauli could not. It's no wonder she fell for him, he was there when she tried to commit suicide, he took her to the concert, he was there when the elevator stopped, when the power went out at her apartment. Like you said, Kunal's was definitely a softer approach. It's not surprising that theres a bond that's created thats more than just friendship. Mauli always gives these dialogues about them being the best of friends but it's kinda created this faux image of Nandani in her mind. It was Nandani that didn't believe her when she told her about Rajdeep initially (obv there were good reasons for that and is another issue in and of it self) but if you put someone on such a high pedestal and they make a mistake, you get really really hurt. I mean they hadn't seen each other in years so why does Mauli keep insisting that their bond is unbreakable. I understand some frienships you can pick right back up but maybe I'm not as trusting as Mauli. Having said that, I would never think my bf and best friend would ever do anything behind my back. It's so outside of the realm of possibility so it's difficult to definitively say anything.

Originally posted by: nimitha12

Mouli trusted kunal and nandini blindly. And thought they have friendship only..

Let me share my experience. We have a trio in my offoce .. same like serial hubby wife and bff. Here the bff is also a lady but she is bff of both hubby and wife. These 3 were classmates. Hubby and bff are in same wing and wife in other wing. Their times are different. So usually hubby and bff travel together and wife travel seperately to their flat. The three are very friendly and happy types. As per our logic this togetherness should make them close in otherway right.. but naah.. thay hubby and bff shares pure friendship and slightly brother sister relation and actually the couple is currently playing cupid for bff and her fiance. They are planning her marriage next month as bff lost father years back and her mother cant do things alone..

So such relations do exist.. a man and woman can stay friends ..like cousins.. i think mouli wished for such a relation btw kunal and nandini. Thats why she did all.. but sigh

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