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Posted: 6 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Angels11



Mauli-Nandini's friendship was always 1 sided. However I dont agree tat Mauli put Nandini on a pedestal. Mauli is not a person 2 hero worship some1. Her mistake was 2 assume tat Nandini also loves her as much as she loves Nandini whereas Nandini never loved Mauli & 2nd mistake was too much trust. But if trust is a bad thing then everything in tis world is wrong. Kunal & Nandini abused Mauli's trust so let's not blame Mauli for trusting these 2. We s'd blame K & N for abusing tat trust 😭

Oh no no I'm not blaming Mauli for trusting her loved ones at all. I was just talking about trust in the sense that if I was not friends with someone for 7 years and they came back into my life, I wouldn't trust them as much. Not in any relation to EMA at all, but just being able to tell them little things or things that are important to me.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Earlier I had made a post on how Mauli need to sort her priorities out when she so casually gave Nandini the saree Kunal has gifted her. Kunal got angry and I agreed with his anger. That was a careless mistake on Mauli's part. And there were few more like tagging Nandini everywhere with her.
Problem with Mauli is that she doesn't check the lines and boundaries, she just gets so involved in one thing that she completely forget the other. Mauli may be a good multi-tasker but when it comes to relationships, she can't handle relationships seperately without bringing them into one another and getting them entangled.
She gave all her personal time to nandini, something she should have done only to an extent. That was a stage when Mauli was literally baby-sitting her herself when she should have contacted a psychiatric counsultant for Nandini as a Doctor who aces her job. There is stress therapy in gynaec too, I was surprised how something this crucial escaped Mauli's mind. But I would blame writers for it since they never dared to cover this aspect which should have been done in the first place.
Hermione was pushy but she didn't mess things up ever. She had a separate life which she balanced nicely. Monica was pushy but she never mixed friendship with her time with Chandler. She balanced these two relationships out very nicely. While Mauli couldn't balance this out. I didn't see Mauli-Kunal having their me time ever since Nandini came.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

Oh no no I'm not blaming Mauli for trusting her loved ones at all. I was just talking about trust in the sense that if I was not friends with someone for 7 years and they came back into my life, I wouldn't trust them as much. Not in any relation to EMA at all, but just being able to tell them little things or things that are important to me.



Prob in tis case since there was an estrangement bet the 2 friends yes. But otherwise best friends can b away for yrs & the love still remains. Take my case. All my school & college friends r in diff continents. I recently met 2 of my college BFFs aft 14 yrs & it was almost like v were never apart. So in case of true BFFs distance & years of separation doesnt matter at all...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Earlier I had made a post on how Mauli need to sort her priorities out when she so casually gave Nandini the saree Kunal has gifted her. Kunal got angry and I agreed with his anger. That was a careless mistake on Mauli's part. And there were few more like tagging Nandini everywhere with her.

Problem with Mauli is that she doesn't check the lines and boundaries, she just gets so involved in one thing that she completely forget the other. Mauli may be a good multi-tasker but when it comes to relationships, she can't handle relationships seperately without bringing them into one another and getting them entangled.
She gave all her personal time to nandini, something she should have done only to an extent. That was a stage when Mauli was literally baby-sitting her herself when she should have contacted a psychiatric counsultant for Nandini as a Doctor who aces her job. There is stress therapy in gynaec too, I was surprised how something this crucial escaped Mauli's mind. But I would blame writers for it since they never dared to cover this aspect which should have been done in the first place.
Hermione was pushy but she didn't mess things up ever. She had a separate life which she balanced nicely. Monica was pushy but she never mixed friendship with her time with Chandler. She balanced these two relationships out very nicely. While Mauli couldn't balance this out. I didn't see Mauli-Kunal having their me time ever since Nandini came.


But 1 thing I like bt Mauli is she immediately realizes her mistake & makes amends. When Kunal got angry she apologized, accepted tat it was wrong & promised tat she ll never do it again. Also wen she was not spending time with Kunal she apologized 2 Kunal sincerely & tats when she quit tat extra saturday wala job. So as long as Kunal had talked 2 her bt his concerns/dissatisfaction she w'd worked hard 2 make the relationship work. Tats y I hate Kunal. coz he dint put in similar effort 2 save his marriage 😭

Hermione was always bossy & used 2 dominate Ron. Also she was too close 2 Harry & many times used 2 support him over Ron. This is the main plot device of Deathly Hallows coz tis causes Ron 2 ve inferiority complex & suspect Harry-Hermione. Even Hermione dint draw a line bet Harry & herself. In fact thru out the series many ppl initially think tat Harry-Hermione as a couple. Remember tat whole Rita fiasco in Goblet of Fire. With Monica it was the I WILL SOLVE ALL PROBLEMS syndrome. She was too pushy & competitive 😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Dal badloo 😆
Wapas aa ja hamari team me
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Posted: 6 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Angels11


But 1 thing I like bt Mauli is she immediately realizes her mistake & makes amends. When Kunal got angry she apologized, accepted tat it was wrong & promised tat she ll never do it again. Also wen she was not spending time with Kunal she apologized 2 Kunal sincerely & tats when she quit tat extra saturday wala job. So as long as Kunal had talked 2 her bt his concerns/dissatisfaction she w'd worked hard 2 make the relationship work. Tats y I hate Kunal. coz he dint put in similar effort 2 save his marriage 😭

Hermione was always bossy & used 2 dominate Ron. Also she was too close 2 Harry & many times used 2 support him over Ron. This is the main plot device of Deathly Hallows coz tis causes Ron 2 ve inferiority complex & suspect Harry-Hermione. Even Hermione dint draw a line bet Harry & herself. In fact thru out the series many ppl initially think tat Harry-Hermione as a couple. Remember tat whole Rita fiasco in Goblet of Fire. With Monica it was the I WILL SOLVE ALL PROBLEMS syndrome. She was too pushy & competitive 😆



Always felt Harry Hermoine should have been end game.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Interesting post.Havent thought of it before this way. This kind of gives me a different perspective,
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Posted: 6 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: Angels11


But 1 thing I like bt Mauli is she immediately realizes her mistake & makes amends. When Kunal got angry she apologized, accepted tat it was wrong & promised tat she ll never do it again. Also wen she was not spending time with Kunal she apologized 2 Kunal sincerely & tats when she quit tat extra saturday wala job. So as long as Kunal had talked 2 her bt his concerns/dissatisfaction she w'd worked hard 2 make the relationship work. Tats y I hate Kunal. coz he dint put in similar effort 2 save his marriage 😭

Hermione was always bossy & used 2 dominate Ron. Also she was too close 2 Harry & many times used 2 support him over Ron. This is the main plot device of Deathly Hallows coz tis causes Ron 2 ve inferiority complex & suspect Harry-Hermione. Even Hermione dint draw a line bet Harry & herself. In fact thru out the series many ppl initially think tat Harry-Hermione as a couple. Remember tat whole Rita fiasco in Goblet of Fire. With Monica it was the I WILL SOLVE ALL PROBLEMS syndrome. She was too pushy & competitive 😆


I agree with Kunal not communicating properly. There came a point, when he stopped communicating completely. He was just so engrossed in his emotional conflict that he didn't even put up a fight. It was like he had already given up on those new feelings & was just waiting for a chance to make best use of the first opportunity that is landed to him.

As for Hermione, I feel Harry-Hermione shared a different sort of bond while Ron was always a spectator. Actually, she used to dominate both Ron & Harry. It was Ron most of the times though. He was almost angry of everything Hermione did, like going out with Krum in Yule ball or kissing him. Harry on the other hand was the person who would understand her. Hermione was one of the reasons Harry-Ron stayed friends, otherwise they would have been killing each other because of narcissistic behavior of both. Hermione was technically baby-sitting them almost all the time & trying to balance things out. As for Deathly Hollows plot, I felt Ron just got very human (worried about his family, having to be in a mess he didn't want to be in & having to see his girlfriend giving more time to his friend's problem than him). Rita fiasco was actually awesome, since Ron never believed Harry in all that & Hermione was the only one to believe Harry's word in the situation. Also I think Ron got jealous of Harry getting into the Championship & this jealousy came out as anger of Harry not telling him about it. He didn't even think otherwise to the situation given that he was really close to Harry for so long. Ron had many shades of human being throughout the whole series. For Hermione, Harry was the brother & Hermione was the sister to Harry but not being blood-related & going all about being best friends gave all sort of wrong ideas in Ron's head & to everyone else as well. Everytime I read or watch HP movies, I could sense sibling bond between Harry-Hermione.

As for Monica, she was pushy & Chandler loved maintaining her. There were times when Chandler had issues & Monica listened to it. One of the reasons for Mondler being my fav couple in Friends (Even Mike put up well with Phoebe's craziness). Especially during the Mondler proposal. It was a huge thing for a woman like Monica to go down on her knees for Chandler. That relationship helped both of them grow individually & together. The time when Chandler couldn't be a father & brought a friend so that Monica could be a mother, I loved how Monica put him at ease by saying that she would rather adopt than go for another man for sperm. Most of the times Chandler loved Monica more on average (made all sacrifice to be with her, put up with her craziness) but Monica has her own moments of appreciation. Mondler happens to be the best on-screen relationship for me apart from one shown in Chinese drama Love O2O.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: sunshine333

Dal badloo 😆

Wapas aa ja hamari team me



Nahin re I am v much in TEAM MAULI & tat ll not change. But we need 2 learn from our mistakes na. So in the future I want Mauli 2 b selfish & think bt her more. Want her 2 be happy. But aft a betrayal of this magnitude not sure if she ll ever fall in love again 😭 How can she ever trust a man again, urghhh I hate this Kunal 😡
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunshine333



Always felt Harry Hermoine should have been end game.



I do like Ron-Hermoine they r kinda goofy couple 😆 But I hate Harry-Ginny. Fans r still wondering wat the hell Harry sees in that Mary Sue 🥱

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