Was Mauli a tad insensitive, pushy with K & N

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Mahanathi

@Mahanathi

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Posted: 6 years ago

#11

@Angels

I think Nandini's bravery made appearances whenever it was convenient to the plot. If she was capable of fighting Rajdeep on her own, it should have happened before Mauli entered her life. But it was not so. And the time gap was too short for her to overcome her abuse and find her strength.If K & M was with her, they fought for her. But if they were busy then Nan found her inner strength. As I said, her bravery appeared as more of the plot convenience. It would have been easy peasy for Rajdeep to abuse Nandini along with Kunal that day (when nan stopped Raj from beating Kun).Thus her showcase of bravery appeared more as a way for Nan to give her POV in this EMA fiasco. The ideal listener for her to do so will be someone more depraved than her. Thus Rajdeep became the obvious choice

I was just commenting about Mau-Kun relationship dynamics. Yes Mauli should include Kunal in decision making but Kunal can communicate his wishes to M too. Thats why I felt Mauli took more of a active role in decision making while Kun played more of a passive role and they were comfortable in that role

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anmirza

@anmirza

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Posted: 6 years ago

#12

I agree with u to an extent!
Mauli has been pushy in terms of her forcing Kunal to accompany Nandini on many occasions! I was actually irritated with her as all when it comes to the pizza incident, giving her the saree, taking her to the concert etc etc. She should've made sure that they weren't getting too close n once they did, she was obviously too ignorant to ignore it altogether! However by no means am I trying to say that she's responsible for their EMA!
With all that said and even though Mauli comes across as the sanest among all the others, all the characters are poorly written with something amiss! However her's is the best sketched among them all!

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Angels11

@Angels11

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Posted: 6 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: _charu_

She could stop him afterwards no ? When "kunal" gave her the courage ..lol ab selective courage nandu ne li , is mein mauli ki kya galti . I feel miscarriage thing was deliberate , it was the last straw for nandini as she couldnt take his torture anymore and refused to go back with him..

The only kunal nandu scene i loved was when mauli asks her to make a list of things she would love to do, the bucket list and she didnt have anything to write..she had no dreams no aspirations no desires ..n kunal was filling the list with his junk food choices..yeah when i think about all that , nandu was deeply scarred ..n kunal helped her out in winnie the pooh way as you put it m.yeah..still..we cant fix blames..

The court scene was ridiculous , they made a mockery of the judicial system ..wife cannot file for divorce without informing her husband ..he he ..they appoint their lawyers first who file an application .

Wat I feel is Nandini finds courage only wen it impacts some1 she loves a lot. She truly loved her unborn baby & losing tat finally made her walk away frm Rajdeep. Similarly wen Rajdeep was beating up Kunal she found courage. Tat's y I hate Nandini since she never loved Mauli coz she never stood up or fought 4 Mauli 😭

There were other scenes as well of KUNAN where I liked Kunal. Their 1st encounter where he dressed up her wounds & noticed tat she has other physical wounds as well which was proof of abuse. Then the scene where he took her 2 the hospital during the miscarriage. Then tat bank signature scene. CVs did a gud job with KUNAN during the initial episodes. Its only aft tat stupid rain dance tat they flushed the story down the toilet 🥱

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Rosh4rose

@Rosh4rose

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Posted: 6 years ago

#14

I can't really comment
No one is responsible for others since every one has own brain and rest of the body
People make choices
Since loosing interest , just going through the forum only
Kunal is the one I dislike most
If Mauli divorce Kunnu and moved on means , wanted to watch
Not this one
😆 😆

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Angels11

@Angels11

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Posted: 6 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: anmirza
I agree with u to an extent!
Mauli has been pushy in terms of her forcing Kunal to accompany Nandini on many occasions! I was actually irritated with her as all when it comes to the pizza incident, giving her the saree, taking her to the concert etc etc. She should've made sure that they weren't getting too close n once they did, she was obviously too ignorant to ignore it altogether! However by no means am I trying to say that she's responsible for their EMA!
With all that said and even though Mauli comes across as the sanest among all the others, all the characters are poorly written with something amiss! However her's is the best sketched among them all!

Some1 had mentioned during that track tat Mauli has no possessiveness for Kunal. Is it natural for some1 who loves some1 so much 2 not b even 10% possessive? It was almost like she dint care enuf. I dont agree. Each person has different way of expressing their love. Wat I feel is Kunal never understood Mauli's love for him. I think tat's y Kunal is slightly taken aback by Mauli's reaction. He anticipated her anger but somewhere he prob thought she doesnt love him tat much 😕

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Miss-Behave

@Miss-Behave

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Posted: 6 years ago

#16

Not sure what to agree with and what not to agree with what you have said. I will say this that mauli was way too naive and trusting, mostly because she could never imagine these two doing this to her. Also with mauli is so different from nandini that she couldn't understand why nandini was dealing with her situation the way she was, whereas mauli feels she personally would have never have put up with a man like that.

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Mishfan

@Mishfan

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Posted: 6 years ago

#17

I am sorry, but have to disagree that she was a tad insensitive, but Pushy, maybe

I always felt M's biggest flaw was her Complete Trust ( not Blind ) & her innate helpful nature.

that turned out too costly for her, wrecking her home & marriage.

But that's who she is. She is flawed like everyone.

We say that maybe she should not have been extra busy working hard to fulfill

her husbands dream or pushed K too much in helping out N & all.

But what if all her efforts turned out positive & not this EMA.

Would we be asking the same questions ??? NO

What I mean to say is...K & N or any other woman in N's place would have

happened irrespective of who or what M is / does.

M just became an excuse for these 2 to happen. But if we start doubting & questioning

if M & her Goodness is the reason for her marriage to fall apart, that becomes

Victim Blaming

The fault & burden of their sin is completely on K & N , IMHO

I would not bring M into this at all.

Oh & the divorce...I don't see any wrong in M filing for divorce without

informing K. Why , I ask , why should she ???

the guy has not an ounce of shame doing what he did & no honest remorse

for his lousy deeds. He does not have the spine to admit , nor the spine to commit

So why should she discuss with him??

Why I am not a bit surprised that he was shocked.

Mauli did it right this time.

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Miss-Behave

@Miss-Behave

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Posted: 6 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: anmirza
I agree with u to an extent!
Mauli has been pushy in terms of her forcing Kunal to accompany Nandini on many occasions! I was actually irritated with her as all when it comes to the pizza incident, giving her the saree, taking her to the concert etc etc. She should've made sure that they weren't getting too close n once they did, she was obviously too ignorant to ignore it altogether! However by no means am I trying to say that she's responsible for their EMA!
With all that said and even though Mauli comes across as the sanest among all the others, all the characters are poorly written with something amiss! However her's is the best sketched among them all!

The way I see it is that mauli is not the possessive type of person, but someone who likes to give her partner space and trust. Kunal and mauli are two people she trusts a lot so she had no reason to think that by not being possessive of kunal, she would be pushing kunal towards nandini, and she never dreamed that nandini would seek her husband just to get other her trauma. She merely trusted kunal and trusted his love in her, and she wanted nandini to feel like she was cared for.

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anmirza

@anmirza

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Posted: 6 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Angels11

Some1 had mentioned during that track tat Mauli has no possessiveness for Kunal. Is it natural for some1 who loves some1 so much 2 not b even 10% possessive? It was almost like she dint care enuf. I dont agree. Each person has different way of expressing their love. Wat I feel is Kunal never understood Mauli's love for him. I think tat's y Kunal is slightly taken aback by Mauli's reaction. He anticipated her anger but somewhere he prob thought she doesnt love him tat much 😕

True! I think things never went out of her comfort zone previously so she never had to show her possessive side for him! But I can totally understand her divorcing him without discussion because when you're broken beyond repair, there's nothing left to say!

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anmirza

@anmirza

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Posted: 6 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: sammy17

The way I see it is that mauli is not the possessive type of person, but someone who likes to give her partner space and trust. Kunal and mauli are two people she trusts a lot so she had no reason to think that by not being possessive of kunal, she would be pushing kunal towards nandini, and she never dreamed that nandini would seek her husband just to get other her trauma. She merely trusted kunal and trusted his love in her, and she wanted nandini to feel like she was cared for.

I agree! Someone's flaws aren't alway meant to be in negative context! Her flaw is that she trusted them too much 😭