Why extreme reaction towards EMA only why not for Domestic Violence - Page 4

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Posted: 6 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: amortentia15

I think because the premise was EMA a lot of neutral viewers chose to visit the forum only when the crux of the plot started... because the domestic violence part was a plot device to get K and N together though I feel along with N being M's best friend this whole trying to garner sympathy for N as a domestic abuse victin for justifying her behaviour later have become a major gripe for neutral viewers...





My feelings exactly.
And also from the initial promo, I didn't really think
that N would give in to her feelings.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: TheMockingBird

You can go and check the posts ppl at that time use to say that nandini is one weak woman and we are not able to relate to her and feel no sympathy for her as she can't take action 4 herself.When in reality there are many woman in real life too which are suffering this hell and it's easy for them to come out of abuse so easily and stand 4 themselves.I only saw DD fans making posts on her sufferings .But the range i saw for EMA was missing during her DV track.[/QUOTE]

If it was any other affair , therr wont be a range of posts on ema also today . This ema is different because of the known reasons ..cant say about anyone else but i sympathize with nandu for what happened to her and i dont agree with the resoning that she should have stood up for herself , moved out or filed a police case..i am well aware that its not easy ..i have 2 cases in my family too where girls are forced to continue in a bad marriage ..they are doing what they can in their capacity but its not as easy to raise a voice and end the marriage ..its very complicated . Either i didnt reply to the posts which opined above or must have said it once.or twice ..haan morcha nahi nikala..lol i like to argue on certain things and.keep quiet on some ..everyone has different opinions .
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Posted: 6 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: FruitToasty



Not prediction, that's what they have shown us
Kunal saved Nandini was headline of every on location video and articles, their whole relationship is about Kunal saving Nandini, they send Rajdeep to jail, he comes back somehow and Kunal saves her again, domestic violence is just a tool to start EMA, how serious is Nandini about her past? Did she file domestic violence case? Mauli took Kunal to the lawyer and they started their divorce proceeding, Nandini has to file a criminal case and she has enough evidences to support her claim, but we all know she didn't because domestic violence and rape is just a tool and Rajdeep is an important part of this

And as far as I remember most of the DD fans were making posts on IF at that time and they did make posts on it, I have commented under those posts in Nandini's support

That's what i m saying only DD fans made that posts on nandini as neutral audience was busy in chanting that they are not able to relate to nandini as she can't stand for herself .Why sudden toar for EMA where was our morals and jazzbat when woman was shown brutally abused and raped by her own husband.Why were not there were morchas against rajdeep is it difficult to answer?
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Posted: 6 years ago
#34
It's cos they have messed up Nandini character so bad ki Chahke BHI I cannot relate to her anymore.
See. Rajveer is a one dimensional negative character. Everyone knows that. Same goes for Mauli mom.she is a pathetic woman.
Unpe Kitna analysis karenge.
Kunal Nandini are more complex characters. So majority discussion revolved arnd them .
And everyone thought that they wld handle the Ema angle well.
But they conpletely ruined it in their jazbaat nonsense.
That's why this Backlash. Bepannah mein be once they started justifying Ema as paak rishta, there was absolute uproar.
Yest epi was very painful to watch. I felt bad 4 Nandini. No woman shld be subjected to this .
But then again when I see Mauli, my anger on Kunal Nandini comes back.
Actually I feel bad that I am not feeling bad 4 Nandu😆. Hope u r getting my point😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: TheMockingBird

Bashing thread are not allowed are you serious am i seeing things or what i saw many bashing threads on namdini and kunal.

EMA angle started long after domestic violence was shown but i only saw range in EMA angle i never saw ppl sympathising nandini or standing for on social media or forum or abusing rajdeep with different names.Why this indifference??



Look i have used IF long back where admins used to close thread when its bashing one. I have also written I think.
U missed my whole point and focus on that only.

Don't take it seriously, this forum is to discuss about fictional character. Ppl active on social media is standing for right thing to bring ppl attention for women empowerment but this is not that place. IF is like gossip medium.

I also agree Nandini getting more hatred as compare to Kunal because as society we more forgiving to man as compare to women. ( we talk about equality???)

Domestic violence is very serious issue and when all ppl agree on that point than there is no discussion because conclusion is out already.

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Posted: 6 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: TheMockingBird

DV track was shown in detail and i saw no reaction at that time i saw no sympathy for nandini from neutral ppl they were like why she can't stand for herself .And EMA from nandini side started long after that you are still going round and round..I never saw this range during rajdeep cheating and abusing nandini that time EMA was not even in picture i rest my case here no going to reply u after this thanks.



U MADEA post asking for people's opinion...and when they are giving u the opinion which happens to be something tat contradicts urs u seem to be irritated 😆
Again and again m sayibg...before or after the affair...the domestic violence part was shown not to show the plight of the victim...but to provide a base for the ema and justify nandini's actions and show kunal to be the masiha every single time!
Is it so hard to even read this much from my post? The show emphasised more on ema and not domestic abuse...and when they did show it was evident as to why they chose tat topic for garnering sympathy for nandini...if they had handled her trauma and her journey in a better way i do think that she wud have gotten suppirt!!
Its funny..since the start ppl were against ema...befor the affair actually started...but people in the forum preached others telling show ko show ki tarah dekho...ema happens in real life...ppl fall out of love..blah blah blah..they sympathised a lot with nandini because of the abuses she is undergoing...now dat affair has started and people have lefit reasons to hate the show...for the execution..concept...etc...people say why is ema a big deal...dv is ignored completely
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Posted: 6 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: rajh

most of the viewers are indifferent to nandini from day one as most of viewers thinking is that she going to break home /she is going to betray her friend /she is going to indulge in ema..

so from 1st day itself nandini did not got sympathy...

and most viewers already unhappy with colors due to fiasco of dsdt..where 1st wife treated very badly and 2nd wife glorified..

most of viewers for dsdt and silsila are same for colors at 10 pm--

so viewers sympathy which was with shorwari transferred to mouli from day one...
and viewers hate which was with teni transferred to nandini from day one..

when people are indifferent with nandini from day one itself then how can you expect her supporting post /??
it partially answers your question for sure..

Bang on this the one of reason becoz ppl assumed her homebreaker from day 1 of the show so they was never able to get sympathy from day 1.I thinks if cvs hv not shown the plot thru promo ppl would hv been able to relate to nandini well at that time of DV.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: rajh

most of the viewers are indifferent to nandini from day one as most of viewers thinking is that she going to break home /she is going to betray her friend /she is going to indulge in ema..

so from 1st day itself nandini did not got sympathy...

and most viewers already unhappy with colors due to fiasco of dsdt..where 1st wife treated very badly and 2nd wife glorified..

most of viewers for dsdt and silsila are same for colors at 10 pm--

so viewers sympathy which was with shorwari transferred to mouli from day one...
and viewers hate which was with teni transferred to nandini from day one..

when people are indifferent with nandini from day one itself then how can you expect her supporting post /??
it partially answers your question for sure..




And which planet are u living in tat u are assuming people will welcome the other woman with a standing ovation and given polygamy a big thumbs up? Even western world considers adultery polygamy a sin!
Even there people bashed parath and teni both...and tat storylibe was later on changed to just make the other woman win... when the concept was about surrogate mother and the childless couple..so dont compare tat shot with this one!!
Here the concept was supposed to be ema...so the bashing was bound to happen...unfortunately the execution is so pathetic...
If the wife is made to lose everything because of the other woman when the wife had no fault of hers in the relationship...she will get the maximum support...there has been films and shows where both the women were sympathised..but dsdt laidthe foundation for such a crappy concept and execution..people will hate such stories no matter who plays the role of other woman!!
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Posted: 6 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: DimpledGirl203



U MADEA post asking for people's opinion...and when they are giving u the opinion which happens to be something tat contradicts urs u seem to be irritated 😆
Again and again m sayibg...before or after the affair...the domestic violence part was shown bot to show the plight of the victim...but to provide a base for the ema and justify nandini's actions and show kunal to be the masiha every single time!
Is it so hard to even read this much from my post? The show emphasised more on ema and not dmoestic abuse...and when they did show it was evident as to why they chose tat topuc for garnering sympathy for nandini...if they had handled her trauma and her journey in a better way i do think that she wud have gotten suppirt!!
Its funny..since the start ppl were against ema...befor the affair actually started...but people in the forum preached others telling show ko show ki tarah dekho...rma happebs in real life...ppl fall out of love..blah blah blah..they spathised a lot with nandini because of the abuses she is undergoing...now dat affair has started and people have lefit reasons to hate the show...for the executio..concept...etc...people say why is ema a big deal...dv is ignored completely

ii m not irritated dear the think is nandini was not relatable to most ppl here from day 1 because in first promo nandini was shown to hv feelings for kunal and ppl assumed her homewreckar from day 1 so they were not able to sympathise her.Secondly ppl relate to mauli more because most of us are independent like her and we fear to imagine that this can happen to anyone of us too so the resctions were extreme during EMA.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: sherma

i haven't seen or part of the forum before but how much I understood nandini chrcter she was okay with her suffering may be because of low self esteem.i saw one 2 initial episodes where kunal was trying to save nandini from rajdeep n she denied her abuse. Even when mauli got the police to arrest rajdeep nandinj wasn't ready to stand for her unti mauli really persuaded her to do it. Moral of the story God help those those who help themselves. U can b a victim once not everytime. As a viewer first time I saw nandin being abused yesterday I felt bad saw more episodes of her being abused I was like wth.

There were many reasons for that first she had nowhere to go before she met mauli and she ofcourse was weak nd vunerable at that time.But with the support of mauli and kunal she took action needed to get rajdeep to jail.

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