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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheMockingBird

I don't think so they presented it very well i was able to relate to her pain especially her miscarriage happened.At that time ppl from neutral audience were giving gyaan that they are not able to relate to her pain as she shuld stand for herself but reality is that it's not easy from domestic violence victim who is abused for 7 yrs to get out such mess and they hv fear to be killed by there abuser.It's just that audience is more able to relate to mauli becoz they hv fear this can happen to them also.


you said it yourself...how is the victim of such brutal violence moving on so fast in life with another man? It takes years for the girl to trust a man and look at him with respect when she is made to face such atrocitties...but here she is shown getting laid with another guy like nothing happened within months...that too her own best friend's hubby? how are people supposed to relate to this behaviour? there have been many domestic victim shows(saubhagyavati bhava being my fav) out there where in people cried for the victim even though the possibility of them being the victim was almost zero...but here people are not able to relate to it because there is no emphasis on her trauma and how she fights for her self respect and independence...its all about how her relationship with kunal is divine and justified and how we shud accept that relationship because she was a domestic abuse victim

And just so u know...i did see a lot of neutral audience feeling bad for Nandini's miscarriage...unfortunately the makers did not emphasise much on that track...they were busy making kunal the ultimate masiha for nandini at that time!!!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheMockingBird

I m asking you why extreme reactions for EMA why not for domestic violence and when domestic abuse was there EMA was not even in picture so glorifying EMA thing doesn't make sense here .Where were neutl audience when domestic vilolence was shown and at that time Rajdeep cheated nandini with other woman.Where was our neutral audience anger that time?[/QUOTE

I think he was an animal from the beginning.I think more than that kunans teenage romance infront of the entire family,saath mein Aarti karna justifying EMA are reasons for extreme reaction.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I Dont know about other people lol.

I started watching this show when mouli bought nandini to her home.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: wow123

May be because Rajdeep was an ass hole from very beginning. He is shown total negative character and People appreciates when Nandini left him. But truth about him always known n all agree that he is bad one there without any argument.

In contrast, Nandini n Kunal shown people with morality and its not easy for people to digest when EMA comes into picture(even show was decided on that note) and people have polarized opinion about them which create discussion and argument. That's why there so many post about it.

Post usually make when ppl hv difference of opinion and appreciation thread. Bashing thread not allowed in IF i think.


Bashing thread are not allowed are you serious am i seeing things or what i saw many bashing threads on namdini and kunal.
EMA angle started long after domestic violence was shown but i only saw range in EMA angle i never saw ppl sympathising nandini or standing for on social media or forum or abusing rajdeep with different names.Why this indifference??
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Diya_Abhilasha

I Dont know about other people lol.

I started watching this show when mouli bought nandini to her home.

So i can understand your point
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: kala16

To EMA kya dekheyge bhajan kirtan obviously they will be shown romancing.I m not saying that reaction towards EMA was not justified .I m asking where were this extreme reactions when nandini was cheated and abused by her husband.Because audience thought that never happened to them and not going to happen with them so was not able to relate to it but EMA bought such extreme reaction becoz somewhere there is fear this can happen to them too.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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In case of Rajdeep scenario I have sympathy for nandini.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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There was a show on domestic violence Saubhagyavati Bhava and I think people who watched the show felt bad for her, I did too, here how do I feel bad for Nandini when it's temporary? I know Kunal will save her or Mauli will save her, and I know that she will hurt Mauli who fought Rajdeep for her, in this show a woman didn't mourn when her child died, a child she wanted but she went absolutely berserk for her friend's husband
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: DimpledGirl203


you said it yourself...how is the victim of such brutal violence moving on so fast in life with another man? It takes years for the girl to trust a man and look at him with respect when she is made to face such atrocitties...but here she is shown getting laid with another guy like nothing happened within months...that too her own best friend's hubby? how are people supposed to relate to this behaviour? there have been many domestic victim shows(saubhagyavati bhava being my fav) out there where in people cried for the victim even though the possibility of them being the victim was almost zero...but here people are not able to relate to it because there is no emphasis on her trauma and how she fights for her self respect and independence...its all about how her relationship with kunal is divine and justified and how we shud accept that relationship because she was a domestic abuse victim

And just so u know...i did see a lot of neutral audience feeling bad for Nandini's miscarriage...unfortunately the makers did not emphasise much on that track...they were busy making kunal the ultimate masiha for nandini at that time!!!

You are going round and round i already told you that i don't sympathise nandini for what she did to mauli.Im just asking one question where was neutral audience when domestic violence victim was shown suffering so much.Why were there were no morchas against Rajdeep and mind you don't give excuse 4 that she jumped into bed of another man becoz that happend after long time and EMA was not in picture when she was abused and physically tortured by her husband why forum ppl were so silent that time.And why sudden pour of nandini bashings posts when EMA angle started just becoz you ppl relate to mauli more than nandini becoz domestic violence doesn't happen to everybody but EMA can happen to any body at any time that's why such extreme reactions.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty

There was a show on domestic violence Saubhagyavati Bhava and I think people who watched the show felt bad for her, I did too, here how do I feel bad for Nandini when it's temporary? I know Kunal will save her or Mauli will save her, and I know that she will hurt Mauli who fought Rajdeep for her, in this show a woman didn't mourn when her child died, a child she wanted but she went absolutely berserk for her friend's husband

Yaar you are not getting the point .So you mean on basis of prediction you remained silent and didn't feel sympathetic why to oppose jab pta hi koi bach lega lol good logic and wise answer.

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