What is the definition of independent woman? - Page 2

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Being Strong doesn't mean that you can't be betrayed or hurt ever or you can never feel weak. Being strong means that you will rise up again for yourself, for those who care about you despite everything that has put you down in the past.

No one makes relationship for being betrayed or getting hurt. They make it for companionship. Betrayal comes when someone willingly betrays you & that's the fault of the betrayer. Broken trust hurts badly, it doesn't matter if it was blind or not blind. When someone is betrayed, the pain of betrayal is same for all. Everyone has their own pace to recover from that. Everyone is affected differently from that.

Even if you don't sleep under the rock, doesn't mean rock can't hurt you in other ways.

Originally posted by: Terenaina

All I am saying is that don't lose your mind over someone. I told this story that happened to my coworker here where she blindly trusted her man and he was cheating on her for all the years they been together. She completely lost her mind into breaking things, going to jail and losing her casody over her son. Us women are so fragile crying over someone. We need to be strong women and learn to move on in life, go to therapy if you but don't be weak into losing mind
Or taking the cheater back. I need to see a strong woman moving on with her life after struggle

Originally posted by: Terenaina

I'll give a Bollywood example. Deepika was madly in love with ranbir and she probably still crazy about him but what thing I loved about her is that how she became so focus in her career, success after breakup and that's what I like to see after a partner cheated on you. You becoming successful emotionally or professionally that gives courage to other women to move on in life.

Originally posted by: Terenaina

I just see the women or men who keeps taking their partner back after they cheated as weak in my opinion. This person broke your trust

Originally posted by: Terenaina

If you taken your cheating spouse back because you can't support yourself like Nandini then I understand, she is not financially secure. But if you have a career like Mauli and you take a cheating spouse back because of love then I don't support those type of women. He broken your trust, how your going to trust someone like that? The reason why I ask this question is because I see it in real life where keeps taking husband back after he cheated multiple times and it breaks my heart to see a woman crying and being so weak in the name of love.

Originally posted by: Terenaina

If you taken your cheating spouse back because you can't support yourself like Nandini then I understand, she is not financially secure. But if you have a career like Mauli and you take a cheating spouse back because of love then I don't support those type of women. He broken your trust, how your going to trust someone like that? The reason why I ask this question is because I see it in real life where keeps taking husband back after he cheated multiple times and it breaks my heart to see a woman crying and being so weak in the name of love.