What is the definition of independent woman? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Terenaina

Exactly, your losing self-respect or self worth by accepting back a cheater. Sometimes you see these powerful women forgiving cheater and accepting them back. Weakness in my definition is not being able to move on without that cheater. I like to see a strong woman saying No to cheater and not taking him back

Originally posted by: Anahi

i guess u skipped reading a line from my previous post. i said it really takes courage to forgive.. and it doesnt make one weak in my eyes..

as one is definitely compromising on ones self respect.. keeping your ego aside and accepting your partner back is a huge thing. it may imply that you need to be with the cheater no matter what and may make u even weaker in your eyes.. but sometimes it is strength also. this depends on how we percieve this thing and again there are lot of factors involved..

i have mentioned there can be many reasons for forgiveness..

Originally posted by: Terenaina

I forgive but don't forget. I had a friend that lied to me about something major relating to me, I forgive but don't forget, that's why I stopped being friends with her. I don't need negative people around me, backstabbing me and lying to me. I can be depressed all by myself. I don't need someone to drag me down.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

There are many reasons for why people take their partners back, emotional, financial, family, some other thoughts or reasons. I have seen getting married to their partners again who they divorced. So, some things are really twisted & one can never comprehend the complexity of it & give a judgement about it.

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

With all due respect, you have NO clue about Deepika and Ranbir, unless you know them personally. I will tell you what independent is not: going from man to man; sleeping with your bff husband. So far, we see Mauli being stupid. She's too trusting but I think as another poster stated, she may know deep down but cannot accept the truth. There is probably some truth to this.

It will be easier for Mauli to be independent of Kunal because she is the bread winner, it seems and once she can process the level of his betrayal and deceit, I hope she will move on. It's human nature--you cannot truly love someone who has hurt you to this extent.

But I don't believe Kunan will EVER be independent of Mauli. She will be the shadow between them. It will follow them around forever. In fact, the debased nature of their act will free Muali. She will move on but those two will carry their guilt forever. Most importantly, we should see them not trusting each other because once again, human nature is such that once he does it with you, he will do it to you. They will always never truly trust each other. That's their punishment and that is their dependence.

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Emotionally everyone is dependent on someone. Bahut hi koi rare exception hoga . Husband wife will surely be emotionally dependent on each other. And it's not that, u can be emotionally dependent on ur friend, siblings

Reg taking cheaters back, well Mauli has just been revealed the truth. Let's wait how track unfolds.

the main thing is to have ur self respect intact whether u r independent dependent financially or emotionally.. At the end of ur life, I believe only that will matter.

Even a housewife who might be dependent financially is independent in other aspects I am dependent on my momfor many things, may be not financially. And I am not talking abt household chores. I need her advice, her emotional support all the time.

For me the main in life is to live with ur head held high.

Rest all come later.