Understanding Nandini - Page 3

Originally posted by: Angels11

I am not calling homemakers or stay at home mothers as inferior. I clearly mentioned tat sometimes women like Nandini THINK that they r inferior. Its the women themselves who feel they r inferior coz they r not earning & dependent on husband/son.

But Nandini is definitely regressive not because she is a homemaker. She is regressive for putting up with the abuse by hubby, talking about hubby's maan-samman (while paying the prostitute), always seeking a male companion/support in her life. Even Kunal's woman seems to be a home maker but she is not regressive right. Regressive is ur mindset & not related to where u work or wat u wear.

Very well written again esp the "spectator in her own life" line.

Originally posted by: Angels11

Kangana is the real life Nandini. She has a thing for married men. Aditya Pancholi, Ajay Devgan, Hritik Roshan. She then plays the woman & victim card 🥱

Ye kya likh diya tumne. Ab to zindagi bhar ki dushmani :D Kangana is a bawse sherni he woh bhi.

But u have to take to remember these are ALLEGED affairs. And should be taken with a pinch of salt. Srk ka toh bilkul jhooth he. He just CANT cheat. Ab ye mat pucha kaise itna pakka pata he. Bus pata he.

If Nandini was never married to Rajdeep and never suffered any abuse, and Kunal her best friends husband who has helped her out on many occasions,who she greatly admires professes his undying love to her would she have ever accepted. I dont think so. I think CVs are trying to justify her compliance to this affair by showing her as a victim of abuse. I could be wrong too the CVs might be using the whole abuse angle as a plot point, to somehow get Nandini into Maulis house or to up the drama quotient whenever it suits them.

As one the other person mentioned I also agree with this!



There are certain things that I don't agree with though. I don't think her not letting Rajdeep rape her was because of her desire for Kunal but it's because she hates him and technically isn't his wife anymore so she isn't obligated to do anything for him! People might allow marital rape but why would anyone allow rape otherwise?
Secondly I don't think she's childlike, she's one of those demented selfish people who choose to act however they please in any given situation because they're manipulative!
Lastly whether I agree with the whole thought process or not 😆 I honestly feel that you and a lot of other people who are far more intelligent than the cvs give cvs too much undue credit because I am sure after wasting my time on a lot of soaps 😆 CVs don't even put in half as much effort as people believe they do! A few days into the show it usually seems like the character wasn't even properly sketched and Nandani is no different!!!! Honestly any sane person who's had the support of a selfless friend who's gone above n beyond would never dare hurt them even unconsciously and here she's suddenly become immune to any sense of good and bad like wow!!! I see people trying to read through the characters and supposed symbolism that's nonexistent all the time because general viewers are far more intelligent than the the actual creatives because if they had put in any thought into character development, soaps would really be different and intelligent in their approach! They did take a risk here and it would've been worth it had they not glorified the cheating characters, shown extramarital affairs as some divine intervention and weren't just about to project them as a meant to be couple disregarding every wrong that they've done!

may be...cvs didnt show all shades of her character...

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

this answer is spot on! agreed! Nandani is a taker and self-centered. You are so correct; we have never seen her help anyone. She's a user

Originally posted by: sunshine333

Ye kya likh diya tumne. Ab to zindagi bhar ki dushmani :D Kangana is a bawse sherni he woh bhi.

But u have to take to remember these are ALLEGED affairs. And should be taken with a pinch of salt. Srk ka toh bilkul jhooth he. He just CANT cheat. Ab ye mat pucha kaise itna pakka pata he. Bus pata he.

Good analysis. But I can't agree with the point that she is childlike. She is more like selfish and immune to what happened/happens. Like you said she is a survivor and stopped caring when she was abused and started to live like a zombie. And when she got out of that hell life she started to taste life as it comes. Now she is comfortable and happy and she found a new admirer whom she accepted. Like someone pointed out she protested when her husband was doing the same so she knows it is wrong unlike a child who doesn't know they are wrong but she still does it.
And regarding Kunal I feel the same he fell for her outer beauty I think he will be tired of her after sometime.

Originally posted by: dahibhalle

Very well written again esp the "spectator in her own life" line.

I don't know if it is the writing or the acting but something is very amiss with this character.

Nandini has this eerie, zombie like persona which is frankly very irritating.

It's almost like this person is popping tranquilisers on the sly.