Nandini's changing colours - Page 3

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

I never like to ask anyone to change their opinion as I am a firm believer that everyone is entitled to their opinion- some educated some not. No opinion is wrong for the individual whom is linked to it but it depends on how ones opinions affect others.

A paedophile may say his love is pure and his victim reciprocates it too but we know and it's a law that kids cannot and have no idea of consent. Here Nandini is to be blamed but in my opinion for breaking her friends trust. I honestly don't think she wants what Mauli has - I think she just wants love
and approval from a male. Till now I think kunal is the only man who showed her some happiness. That monis doesn't count he was too young when he liked her and regardless never pursued further.

I am not trying to change your views but trying to make you understand that at times people do things which are truly bizarre. Btw, it is really interesting to hear your take too.

Probably Mauli is a symbolism if it has been another lady it would have been same.
My mom used to say never get a divorcee or single woman get a permanent residency in your house. I thought how mean but slowly I also learnt that if you see something which you do not have you crav for it

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

If you look at this from psychology perspective it makes total sense - Nandini craves male approval. I think or am assuming that majority of this forum members come from a happy home where they were cared for and nurtured and given the confidence that it is okay to be alone. Nandini never had that. From what I gathered and please correct me if I am wrong her dad was never complimentary towards her and her mum was a mousy woman. She never got any male approval and latched on to Mauli whose family life was perfect.

Then Nandini married Rajdeep and thought she would get approval there but it was a fail too. She never had any confidence and that's why she was in awe of Mauli who is very confident. When kunal started showing attention she finally got that male approval that she was craving. I am looking at this clinically - in normal cases I guarantee every single person here would maintain their distance when a married man starts showing attention but she gravitated towards him. Then he said few more dialogues and that was it.

Her only thing I am not able to understand is that sexual abuse victims never crave sex - however, to please their partner they will give in. I didn't not see hesitation in Nandini as she appears to enjoy it too and that's the horrible execution of the scene.

I am blaming Nandini for breaking her only friends trust but if I were to put my Psychiatrist hat then her behaviour makes total sense. Do I approve that? NO AND NO but I can understand that. Here the only person to blame is kunal who as a doctor should know that. If he has gone to medical school and completed his papers then this is so f****g obvious.

Nandini needs therapy badly - I would even recommend hypnosis to treat her past trauma.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

This is first post is able to give insight to the character of nandini. Rajdeep tortures her next scene followed by kunal chasing her. One scene she is in pain while next scene she is happy. It's like kunal is drug a medicine where she gets hypnotised and forgets all the pain. As u said nandini dint crave for sex but for unconditional love. She craved for the love without boundaries. She wanted kunal in rajdeep which she never got.

One thing I can say mauli never deserved this. Poor thing she will traumatised and will never able to trust any one. But she will choose the right route to heal herself that's her work.

Thank you I didn't wanted to bring my profession as I think this is forum and to share views but as a hardcore feminist and someone who is passionate about victim rights I couldn't help myself.

You are right at this point for Nandani, kunal is a drug a life line of sort. To her this is the one thing she always wanted and finally got it. Majority of us know right from wrong. Nandini never had any support system, even before kunal. When Rajdeep came in the picture he was her lifeline so she blindy believed him even when she knew her friend was right. She didn't wanted to think otherwise. We all have our fallbacks- parents, brothers, sister, friends and so on. Nandini has no one, with Mauli she has a friend a dear one but it overrides by her desire to receive that male approval.

She is a very disturbed person who is showing symptoms of PTSD mixed with a slight psuedo Electra syndrome too - this is because she never had that male fatherly support. Many single parent want their kid to have male role model because if not handled it properly it can be dangerous later on in life.



I think Mauli will be fine if she doesn't take kunal back, she has amazing support system but yes she will find it very hard to trust anyone. But I think she is stronger and can move on if she chooses to do so.

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

Thank you I didn't wanted to bring my profession as I think this is forum and to share views but as a hardcore feminist and someone who is passionate about victim rights I couldn't help myself.

You are right at this point for Nandani, kunal is a drug a life line of sort. To her this is the one thing she always wanted and finally got it. Majority of us know right from wrong. Nandini never had any support system, even before kunal. When Rajdeep came in the picture he was her lifeline so she blindy believed him even when she knew her friend was right. She didn't wanted to think otherwise. We all have our fallbacks- parents, brothers, sister, friends and so on. Nandini has no one, with Mauli she has a friend a dear one but it overrides by her desire to receive that male approval.

She is a very disturbed person who is showing symptoms of PTSD mixed with a slight psuedo Electra syndrome too - this is because she never had that male fatherly support. Many single parent want their kid to have male role model because if not handled it properly it can be dangerous later on in life.



I think Mauli will be fine if she doesn't take kunal back, she has amazing support system but yes she will find it very hard to trust anyone. But I think she is stronger and can move on if she chooses to do so.

Her character is just like kumud of chokher Bali.
She craves for what Mauli has. And sees the single opportunity her values fall behind.
Greed overrules and she turns negative.
She had kunal and she has been able to get him from Mauli.
Her next greed is getting a place in th family
It is like Kunal loves me and I have taken his wife s place in bed so why not I become a part of the family
She wants all that Mauli has value virtue is all crap.
Problem is she is being portrayed as helpless and Mata Anna epitom of a perfect woman and divine love.
In West Bengal in a tribe a lady had an affair with a married man.
The villagers beat the lady so badly she died and the man was also beaten and thrown on the railway track he lost his leg.
The wife suffered a lot for this lady but still she said villagers were wrong in beating her to death.
But if we say some thing bad about N then we are in bad taste[

I remember Kunaal had once implored Mauli saying "Agar main kabhi kho jaaaun toh mujhe dhoond lena!"

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

Thank you I didn't wanted to bring my profession as I think this is forum and to share views but as a hardcore feminist and someone who is passionate about victim rights I couldn't help myself.

You are right at this point for Nandani, kunal is a drug a life line of sort. To her this is the one thing she always wanted and finally got it. Majority of us know right from wrong. Nandini never had any support system, even before kunal. When Rajdeep came in the picture he was her lifeline so she blindy believed him even when she knew her friend was right. She didn't wanted to think otherwise. We all have our fallbacks- parents, brothers, sister, friends and so on. Nandini has no one, with Mauli she has a friend a dear one but it overrides by her desire to receive that male approval.

She is a very disturbed person who is showing symptoms of PTSD mixed with a slight psuedo Electra syndrome too - this is because she never had that male fatherly support. Many single parent want their kid to have male role model because if not handled it properly it can be dangerous later on in life.



I think Mauli will be fine if she doesn't take kunal back, she has amazing support system but yes she will find it very hard to trust anyone. But I think she is stronger and can move on if she chooses to do so.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BndfZxtnKcV/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=1syqxaa3li40x

Look at this, shameless woman is doing Aarti at mauli' place and kunal is also joining her . They are doing Aarti like husband and wife.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

https://www.instagram.com/p/BndfZxtnKcV/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=1syqxaa3li40x

Look at this, shameless woman is doing Aarti at mauli' place and kunal is also joining her . They are doing Aarti like husband and wife.